BD update

Sara2001

Ines Okay never is maybe not possible, but with bathing and stuff, it's technically possible for a very long time. I don't say I suggest it or that it's a good choice, I just say that I think it's possible for weeks.

Ines

Sara2001

I understood you, do not worry, I just wanted underline it, not for you an rest of normal experienced people, but for maybe a newbie that can be lurking.

Angelina

Sara2001 I just say that I think it's possible for weeks.

it is possible, i know 2 or 3 years ago we did a joint experiment with the bra, you wanted to know how long it is possible because of a holiday and i also tested it.

You can do that once in a while, but not on a regular basis, in that case I agree with @Ines.

BD1791

kat_anders thank you for your help! We got a detachable shower head. I'm hoping that helps for cleaning in-between when the belt comes off.

Megan

@BD1791 sounds good

Bryan

BD1791 Any updates on moving to 24/7 wearing? Have you worn your belt yet to the infamous metal detector courthouse?

BD1791

Bryan I got an infection and then a tattoo on my hip so I had to take a little break but it's back on and I have worn it 24 hours at a time now. It's getting more comfortable but sleeping is a real challenge. I like to sleep on my side normally but can't really do that with this belt. My neosteel is finally on its way and I got thigh bands with that one. Hopefully I don't regret that later 😂

Ines

BD1791 It's getting more comfortable but sleeping is a real challenge.

Nice to see you here.
I feel bad for your infection... Is everything right currently?
Sleep is always a difficult issue until you get used. Buy a breastfeeding cushion, it allows you experiment with plenty of positions.
If bands do not have a short chain or block piece, are compatible with cushions too.

Bryan

Happy to hear it is getting more comfortable! Any news on your Neosteel belt and bands?

BD1791

Bryan he emailed 2ish weeks ago that it was almost done but I haven't followed up. I'll email for an update.

Ines I'm good now. It was a UTI which is never fun. Hopefully it's a very long time before I have another.

I have a full length body pillow that I think is similar to what you are suggesting. The belt just feels so tight against me. It's better on my back but I've always been a side sleeper. I really hope it gets better ☹️

Angelina

BD1791

so you currently "only" have the belt and the thighbands are not yet delivered? i hope you can sleep better soon, your body will adapt and subconsciously assume comfortable positions. 🙂

Bryan

BD1791 It's going well physically but I'm not sure how I feel about it emotionally. I'm still sorting through how different it feels to know I can't take the belt off whenever I want and it's not his decision.

How are things going emotionally now that you've been locked in for a couple months now without direct access to your keys?

BD1791 he emailed 2ish weeks ago that it was almost done but I haven't followed up. I'll email for an update.

Hopefully a shiny new present for the new year. I am sure everyone here would enjoy any updates you are willing to share.

BD1791

Angelina I have my original belt, a fancy steel. I haven't received anything from neosteel yet.

BD1791

Bryan 🤔🤔🤔 I'm not really sure about the emotional side. Mostly I don't like that I can't take it off when I want to. It's not even sexual it's just not wanting it on. I hope that goes away too.

I'm still waiting for the neosteel. I haven't even received a shipping notice yet. I meant to email him but I was very busy with the holidays and it fell though the cracks.

Angelina

BD1791 I have my original belt, a fancy steel. I haven't received anything from neosteel yet.

right, you have two belts, i forgot. were the thighbands only ordered for the neosteel belt?

BD1791 It's not even sexual it's just not wanting it on. I hope that goes away too.

it gets better from week to week, but you will always have moments when you don't want to wear it, i think a supportive key holder is then the most important thing. 🙂

BD1791

Angelina the thigh bands are only with the neosteel so I don't have them yet.

Angelina it gets better from week to week, but you will always have moments when you don't want to wear it, i think a supportive key holder is then the most important thing.

He's pretty supportive but I don't know if it will get better. Part off my thinks I have lived too much life without it to adjust to this lifestyle now.

Bryan

BD1791 When we are not together it's only off for supervised showers. He has a camera I have to have on so he can see I'm not going anything I'm not supposed to while cleaning.

It sounds like you both live separately but sometimes stay over at each other's places? How do you unlock your belt when he isn't there and you want to take a (supervised) shower?

BD1791 at the courthouse with all the metal detectors so he said I don't have to wear to work tomorrow.

Have you tried yet wearing your belt to the metal detector courthouse?

BD1791 Do you have a time-period in mind you want to wear it before making any decisions about long-term wear?

Angelina

BD1791 He's pretty supportive but I don't know if it will get better. Part off my thinks I have lived too much life without it to adjust to this lifestyle now.

yes, i understand the thoughts, in the end it is a question that you and your partner have to clarify. how important is the chastity belt? what are all the pros and cons? then you can develop a regime. But that takes time and experience, which you are currently doing

BD1791

yes, it's always hardest at night, i think almost every girl can confirm that. maybe the belt isn't necessary at night, when it's lying next to you in bed it doesn't actually need a "control tool"

BD1791

Bryan It sounds like you both live separately but sometimes stay over at each other's places? How do you unlock your belt when he isn't there and you want to take a (supervised) shower?

We weren't living together at the time I wrote that but he's in the process of moving in. When he's not here we have a safe that he opens from an app on his phone. I can't access the key on my own. He has to open it.

Bryan Have you tried yet wearing your belt to the metal detector courthouse?

No I haven't. If I have to be in person at that courthouse then I don't wear the belt to work that day. Most things are still remote though so it's not very often that I'm not wearing it.

Bryan you have a time-period in mind you want to wear it before making any decisions

He has control over that and he wants me to wear it.

Bryan

BD1791 He likes having access to me when we are together so if we are together then I don't wear the belt at night.

BD1791 he's in the process of moving in

Does this mean no more wearing your belt overnight? :-)

BD1791

Bryan Does this mean no more wearing your belt overnight? :-)

😂... I have not been wearing the belt overnight but not because of the access stuff. It's because I have really been struggling to sleep with it on and I need sleep to function. His goal is that it be on all of the time except for when we are intimate. We are hoping that the new belt will be more comfortable but I'm beginning to think I just need to adjust. I'm not really sure if I can though. Daytime I have no issues but at night I struggle.

Ines

BD1791 to sleep with it on and I need sleep to function.

Yes, any belt is more valuable than a good rest.

BD1791 His goal is that it be on all of the time except for when we are intimate.

It is expected coming of a partner. 😊

BD1791 Daytime I have no issues but at night I struggle.

As everyone of us BD, my biggest crises were at night, always arises a bad itch, or you think, or you feel desire, or you feel bad feeling powerless inside your belt.
I recognize myself in your posts. My begginer myself, I mean.

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