I have a question for all the people that are locked on this forum whom are willingly locked and living at home.

If you were financially independent i.e. could support yourself living alone without the assistance of the family

  1. Would you move out of your family home?

  2. Would you continue to wear the belt after moving out of your family home?

    Philip If you were financially independent

    I am

    Philip Would you move out of your family home?

    No

    Philip Would you continue to wear the belt after moving out of your family home?

    Yes, I would have to

      Philip

      Philip Would you move out of your family home?

      No.

      Philip Would you continue to wear the belt after moving out of your family home?

      Currently I use it in campus, and I live in a flat, not far of parents house.

      Philip Would you move out of your family home?
      Would you continue to wear the belt after moving out of your family home?

      No, I’m too inexperienced to live on my own yet, I like being with my family. I would find it hard to wear my belt if I lived alone, mostly for practical reasons.

      • Ines replied to this.

        kat_anders I would find it hard to wear my belt if I lived alone, mostly for practical reasons.

        So you would keep wearing it? Me too.

        Philip Would you move out of your family home?

        I think that if it is possible, a single girl must live with her family. I know that many times it will not be possible, but in my opinion it is the ideal situation.

        Philip Would you continue to wear the belt after moving out of your family home?

        Yes, if I can live close enough it will be easier, if I live far, I will have to think about it, but I think I simply would not live far of my parents.

        Philip

        if someone wears the belt voluntarily, and we also know that it is rather unprepossessing when the girl is no longer living at home, i do ask myself why she should move out at all? πŸ€”

        Philip Would you move out of your family home?

        No

        Philip Would you continue to wear the belt after moving out of your family home?

        How would I organise that it seems really difficult. I don't know really like if I'm old enough to think about moving out and not married yet - yeah I might give up

          Philip Would you move out of your family home?

          I did it.

          Philip Would you continue to wear the belt after moving out of your family home?

          Never again.

          Philip Would you continue to wear the belt after moving out of your family home?

          Yes.

          Laura Philip If you were financially independent

          I am

          Philip Would you move out of your family home?

          No

          Philip Would you continue to wear the belt after moving out of your family home?

          Yes, I would have to

          Exactly the same as Laura, except my Mom reintroduced me to a childhood friend who I fell in love with and married.
          If that didn't happen I don't think I would have met anyone at the store I work at and I wouldn't have done online dating. So without my Mom socializing me I probably would be the same forever. πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

          Jen How would I organise that it seems really difficult. I don't know really like if I'm old enough to think about moving out and not married yet - yeah I might give up

          so you think you should only move out when you're married?

          • Ines replied to this.

            Angelina so you think you should only move out when you're married?

            I know that is very often impossible in modern life, but I think it is the right thing, a girl should stay in home until she is married.

              Ines I know that is very often impossible in modern life, but I think it is the right thing, a girl should stay in home until she is married.

              i actually don't think it's a bad idea, of course it should always be a free decision, but i really appreciate the family atmosphere in southern european cultures. when i see how many people here in germany move out at 18 just to be alone, i think it's nonsense.

              Kaja dislike

              it would be nice if you would explain your disslikes. πŸ˜‰

              • Kaja replied to this.

                Kaja I use it insted of dislike button.

                yes, there is a good reason why i am against a disslike button, i think we should explain when we have different opinions πŸ˜‰

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