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At the end it is stop of spoil it.

to get back to the topic. i never talked much with my father about sexual matters, but he explained the consequences to me when i had my first period. how was it with the other girls here?

    Angelina the consequences

    What did he say "the consequences" were?

    Angelina how was it with the other girls here

    I had been told what would happen and about when and had the proper supplies to deal with it.

      Avery What did he say "the consequences" were?

      well that i can now get pregnant if i have sex with a boy and that i have to buy items like pads, tampons etc and that my hormones can make my mood very swingy during those days

        So how did the belt come into the education? Was that introduced o pletely separate? Or something like 'now you got your first period or nocturnal emission (for boys), we have to talk about what that means and hey, there is a device to prevent you from exploring this by yourself now.?

          curious

          no, i had my first period when i was 14 (and that was really late), the belt came when i was caught masturbating at 15 1/2

          • Kaja replied to this.

            Angelina May I ask?

            a) What will you father do if he catch you younger (13 yo for example) - right to the belt or wait some time?

            b) If he will not cautch you - will you wear one from higher age or live without belt?

              Angelina and that my hormones can make my mood very swingy during those days

              I found that out the hard way

              Kaja a) What will you father do if he catch you younger (13 yo for example) - right to the belt or wait some time?

              difficult question, but yes i think i would have got the belt. my father himself once said he should have acted earlier.

              Kaja b) If he will not cautch you - will you wear one from higher age or live without belt?

              if he hadn't caught me, i wouldn't have got a belt, but i think at the latest from the moment i was in a relationship, he would have come up with this topic.

              Angelina mais s'on lit francais (ou des langues autres) Γ  l'Γ©cole, c'est tres plus facile d'en utiliser dans la rΓ©alitΓ© πŸ™‚

                Maija mais c'est pas juste aux les autres ici s'ils nous peut pas comprendre alors on ecrit en anglais πŸ˜ƒ

                  Maija

                  I think @Ines is right, otherwise everyone writes here in their mother tongue, which can lead to confusion. πŸ˜‚

                    Maija Yes, sorry. I will not do that again.

                    all good, i meant that more as a joke than seriously, i think we all always have to work on creating a good atmosphere here πŸ˜‰

                      Maija Btw, I sent you an email πŸ™‚

                      I read it, I hope to be able to answer today. the forum is currently very active, but unfortunately my free time is not getting longer πŸ˜‚

                        Angelina the forum is currently very active, but unfortunately my free time is not getting longer

                        No worries, I don't feel any different except that I have to read all the old posts after all. πŸ˜‰