MarleenTotok on the tightest position it fits, not 100% but not to bad.
As long as she can't slide it down
MarleenTotok the only thing was, when she puts on the belt, she had to wait an hour until me and my husband were home today
It means that you are not in your belt. Does you husband allow it?
Laura It means that you are not in your belt. Does you husband allow it?
Presumably he is seeing to it that she is closely supervised.
Saintprudence Presumably he is seeing to it that she is closely supervised
According to her previous post she was not home today
Laura It means that you are not in your belt. Does you husband allow it?
you could not know, monday is our squash day! We play each monday together squash, i could not wear the belt and playing squash 
So, the belt stays always on monday some time alone at home.
And at moment ist also a special time, our daughter should collect experiences, to verify her wish or for an decission not to do them.
Laura As long as she can't slide it down
i am shure she could not do them.
MarleenTotok this does remind me, what’s your own story? how did you end up locked in the belt? Husband’s idea or your own? And are you secure or supervised 24/7, or do you get breaks?
Saintprudence this does remind me, what’s your own story?
legitimate question! I would like to at least give you a rough answer. Not very detailed, in case my daughter would like to read or write along here!
as i already mentioned, i wear the belt partly kinky and partly serious! At first it was just kinky and then serious wearing was added. because it's a mix, it's not very clearly defined.
now comes the difficult to explain, if there is no kink with at moment, i can take the initiative and the belt comes off there are no special rules to ask him.
If there is an kink use at moment, my husband makes the rules
Saintprudence or do you get breaks?
how do you define break exactly? E.g. sports? I don't wear my belt for sports, even if my husband isn't with me. But then other partly kink rules also apply.
As you can see, it's not easy to explain.
MarleenTotok “breaks” are a euphemism for “unsupervised time out of the belt, during which you may do as you please.”
I have to split the answer!
Breaks for non-sexual things yes!
Breaks for sexual pleasures, no!
my daughter asked now to get of the belt after bath-room. Same procedure like yesterday. For me, its also time to end the day now.
i admit that i find the whole discussion about the secondary shield a bit strange. if there are breaks for masturbation anyway, why not just take off the belt for this period?
MarleenTotok thats a real good idea!!! i told them to my daughter and my husband this evening!
I wish the three of you much success and take your time so that everything important can be regulated.
Ines I suppose some girl could do something, although the result would be an enormous amount of pinching of the labia and probably microhematomas as a result of the labia tapping against the steel.
You can use a vibrator.
MarleenTotok why not?
Mom said, that my belt will stay on.
MarleenTotok If her goal is an serios relationship, this would be an good goal!
But who will decide if a relationship is serious or not?
MarleenTotok Yes same rules for both are the best
our daughter still seems serious! She asked for the belt again and is allowed to wear it again, this time together with the tight-bands directly.
Renita But who will decide if a relationship is serious or not?
That's a pretty good question that's not easy to answer. good that you asked them! that showed us that we have to look for a solution
we have found another solution that we prefer for now.
The thing with the contract actually brought us to the solution. in many contracts there is a period of notice! We prefer something like that.
So both sides can get out of the thing, should it be better.
C-B Yes same rules for both are the best
absolutely! And also a basic requirement, especially for my husband.
Angelina i find the whole discussion about the secondary shield a bit strange.
Same for us! Something like an abstinent-belt would not be used in our case.
MarleenTotok So both sides can get out of the thing, should it be better.
Allow me to use my imaginary crystal sphere for a look into the future.
Your daughter starts wearing her own chastity belt and is unable to masturbate. After a few weeks or a few months at best, the urge to touch herself becomes too strong and she will give notice to terminate the contract on the next possible occasion.
MarleenTotok The thing with the contract actually brought us to the solution. in many contracts there is a period of notice! We prefer something like that.
I feel like that is a good solution for balancing consent and commitment, but a few notes:
The length of the notice period needs to be balanced such that it is short enough to minimize non-consensual wear, but long enough to make sure you do not regret terminating the agreement
A notice should automatically trigger a discussion what is wrong about the current agreement
The notice period must be cut short in case of physical or emotional distress. If the belt is harming the wearer, it needs to come off immediately.
You need to talk about periods.
