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Sorta wonder what would motivate a religious conservative sex-negative family to get one for their daughter
At my request, for the reason I outlined above. I am not wholly without power in my family dynamic, especially as I get older. And if I am going to be belted, I am going to seek as much comfort as feasible. It is not the first time I have requested physical modifications.
Here's the goods, only look, don't touch
I won't spontaneously strike up a conversation with my mom about this, but I have a very different outlook. It may be biased by my high baseline of anxiety, but I would sometimes freakout because I couldn't even see my genitals. What if they weren't still there? To me, it actually seems less restrictive that I get to see her and say 'Hi' every morning.
Besides, everyone here who is having supervised showers/releases also gets to see and not touch. With at least a second person seeing, to boot.