Joh I 100% agree with you. The wearer can not be the Keyholder under any circumstances, it would defeat the whole purpose of wearing a belt in the first place. I wish there were more keyholders here. I do this for two girls, and I do it because I love and care for them. There is no doubt it can be difficult a times, we have lots of creams and balms when the pinch, and I have the luxury of being able to switch them into different belts if on becomes uncomfortable.
Joh And these are the most difficult and challenging tasks. It is precisely the mental support in phases of doubt that one needs support from someone else and that is what the KH has to provide.
Absolutely Joh, this is the hardest part of being a KH. Supporting them when they come home late at night when hormones are raging, erasing any doubts about the value of the belts, comforting them until emotions are in check. The wearer always has to know that they are doing the right thing and the KH is there to support them no matter what.
