Things going wrong with chastity, awkward situations and "fails"

Sasha

Damien She didn’t know before then, which made the conversation pretty awkward lol. But she was pretty understanding, though understandably not particularly interested in trying it out

Damien

Sasha I love that you did include the possibility she tries out chastity into this conversation 🙂

Sasha

Damien She asked a lot of questions so figured maybe right? But she’s not.
Still a pretty good friend now it’s a running joke between us

Laura

Damien Can't you just cut FS's cable using simple shears?

Sasha Still a pretty good friend

But still doesn't wear a belt 😂

Angelina

Sasha Still a pretty good friend now it’s a running joke between us

i had a similar situation with my best friend, she once saw a part of the belt and since then she knows all about it. but she is also the only friend who knows about it and it is good to have someone to talk to about it. 🙂

other than that, i can't say that things have really failed, as an involuntary wearer, i've always taken great care not to have any avoidable emergencies. the silicone on the waistband was changed once. otherwise I can think of another unpleasant experience with the thighbands, but that doesn't fit the thread here

Sasha

Laura Yeah, I’d thought with how curious she was maybe. But she’s happy to not wear one lol

Damien

Laura Can't you just cut FS's cable using simple shears?

Not with the kind of shears from a usual household or garden. I had to shorten a chinese cable belt once and was surprised how much resistance the cables put up against my side cutters (and I'm a beachvolley player with hands roughly double the size of hers). The FancySteel cables are a bit stronger than the chinese cables, and the front cables of her belt were additionally protected with FS' little stainless tubes.
So yes, she could have ordered cable shears from amazon and cut the back cable of her FS belt to win back some of her freedom, but the (steel rolled) waist part of the classic FS belt she wore would still have to be removed by professionals.

Avery

When we went to the winter NCAA championships in March when we got to the arena we were informed we had to provide a urine sample. Usually, I go into an ordinary rest room to remove my belt before going into the locker room to change but they would not allow this because they would fear you want to be alone so you can cheat the test. So I had to go into the bathroom with the tester so she could observe me providing the sample. She never turned a hair about the belt, but I was mortified. Wouldn't be surprised if she had run into this before.

pestulens

Avery Now I have to wonder if the belt could have been used as a way to cheat the urine test? Given the lengths some people have gone to in the past for that kind of thing I wouldn't be surprised if someone had thought of it.

Damien

Avery Haha, if peeing in front of a foreign inspector is not awkward enough for you, do use the opportunity to share your lingerie preferences with her.

So you're another athlete here on the forum. Is female chastity for sporty girls? Is it the same ambition, discipline and disregard for inconvenience that go into sports training, and a chastity regime? Or is it really the cliché causality, of having more motivation and energy for sports when not wasting time on masturbation?

Rina

That sounds horrible! I hope she got things sorted out well...

I don't have any stories to share about chastity but I would also be horrified if chastity belt's lock is stuck!

Ines

pestulens

The most usual way to cheat is to change the urine.
I do not have any experience similar to @Avery but probably a chastity belt was not of her "interest".
If they want a hard cheater hunt, they ask for blood, but serology in my level is very unusual.

Avery

pestulens Now I have to wonder if the belt could have been used as a way to cheat the urine test? Given the lengths some people have gone to in the past for that kind of thing I wouldn't be surprised if someone had thought of it.

I'm not sure how you would manage cheating with the belt. It's almost impossible to avoid the test or postpone it. The presumption is you know you will flunk the test therefore you must be guilty. Maybe some styles of belts would allow one to hide a sample of urine somehow onboard and deliver that to the inspector. Almost certainly somebody's thought about it.

MissBlossom

I've never had any real emergencies, but I carry an emergency key at all times just in case. It's in a small envelope with my husband's signature across the seal.

There was one occasion, a very long time ago, when he forgot the key during a weekend getaway. I wasn't as obedient back then as I am now, and every time he suggested I take out the emergency key I pointed out that I was just fine and wasn't experiencing any emergencies.

Eventually he took it out of my purse and tore it open himself.

I probably deserved a severe punishment, but I think he let it slide because we were on vacation.

And he never forgot the key again!

Damien

MissBlossom I love it when the wearer makes full use of her limited possibilities to tease her keyholder. Sweet little episode.

MissBlossom

WriterAlexis I'm curious- for the girls here who are willingly locked, how careful do your keyholders have to be about key management?

Can they just leave them lying around?

My husband really shouldn't leave the key to his "greatest treasure" just lying around, but the danger would be losing it, not me finding it.

WriterAlexis If you did happen across it unattended, would you leave it alone?

That depends on where he left it.

On his night stand? Sure.

On the floor? In the car? On a table outside? On the ground? I'd definitely take it, and then I would spend the rest of the day arguing with myself about whether to give him grief about it when I returned it to him. lol

Would I take the belt off without his permission? No. As I've said before, I wear the belt because I obey my husband. I don't obey my husband because I wear the belt.

And I don't recall it ever happening. He's really very responsible. The worst he ever did was forget it at home, which I told about in MissBlossom

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Damien surprised how much resistance the cables put up against my side cutters

That is because the thin looking cables apparently really are some kind of stainless steel, cutting the same thickness of zinc-plated PVC-coated steel cable is significantly easier. But even then, for the diameter (which looks to be about 4mm) that is used by FS or for rear cables used by other manufacturers the correct tool are bolt cutters and if that is not available it makes more sense to either file or saw through it (which as you are cutting individual wires and in the process fraying the cable is surprisingly easy. But note that the same effect introduces another, and somewhat unpredictable, injury hazard into the process of cutting something off from someone).

Ines

Damien

About discipline, I think that is shared, about advantages I can not talk. I heard stories linked to boys, mainly, but I do not have experience for to compare.

Avery

Damien Is female chastity for sporty girls? Is it the same ambition, discipline and disregard for inconvenience that go into sports training, and a chastity regime?

I'm certain it's the same kind of character traits that can lead, or at least give a big boost, to success in both.

Damien Or is it really the cliché causality, of having more motivation and energy for sports when not wasting time on masturbation?

I doubt that. I still have difficulty lying in bed at night.

Damien

Avery could you elaborate on the difficulty?

Avery

Damien could you elaborate on the difficulty?

Well, lying in bed, it's quiet, there's nothing to occupy your mind, you're naked (at least I am), you think of some individual or situation that turns you on, you're horny to begin with from lack of release ... that's probably more than enough for this forum.

Damien

Thank you Avery I think I understand, that nightly phase could waste more time belted than unbelted :]