Ines I understand you and I apologize (also for going off topic).
I just have the impression that he purposely ignores reasonable and polite criticism of his way of engagement.

    cantsolvethecaptcha Sorry. If only have my schoolenglish. Im not much in priactice, I try to get help from google Translator but this maschine also makes mistake. Sorry if you know a geram cb forum i will go there. I try to integrate myself so that you wont complain anymore.
    Ich versuche die Sachen zu lesen mal gehet es gut und mal weniger gut

        Joh

        I know your intention is right, but I think he has enough. We will see his evolution.
        Calm.

        Joh It would be nice if @stefan would follow the hints.

        Yes, agree. We will see. Message has been sent.

            stefan I try to integrate myself so that you wont complain anymore.

            Perfect. If you follow rules you will not have any problem.
            But, please, take your time and read threads.

              stefan What kind or brand of cb do you wear that you can wear it 24/7 ?

              My-steel.

              stefan Where do you live in?

              In apartments.

              stefan Did anybody notice that you are locked ?

              Hard to say. Nobody mentioned to me.

              stefan are you still locked and living by mom ?

              No.

              stefan Does she wera a belt too?

              No.

                          Christine

                          may i ask how your relationship with your mother has changed since you stopped living with her and wearing a belt? has it gotten better or worse?

                              Angelina has it gotten better or worse?

                              It was never bad. And it's hard to say.
                              She is asking more about my relationships and if it's time to start wearing a belt again.

                                  Christine She is asking more about my relationships and if it's time to start wearing a belt again.

                                  understandable, i think she is naturally worried now. nevertheless, i think it is good that you have taken the step to decide for yourself again. you can always wear the belt again, but it should be your decision.

                                      Angelina i think she is naturally worried now

                                      She worries more about sex.

                                      Laura Why don't you suggest her the same?

                                      First, I don't care about her sexual life. Second, even if she agrees, it still means belt for me.

                                      Laura You are both in the same situation now

                                      This is a good argument.

                                              Christine She worries more about sex.

                                              Does she have a reason to worry?

                                              Christine First, I don't care about her sexual life.

                                              She is single, right? Ask her if she has a boyfriend and if yes why doesn't she marry him.

                                                    Laura I’m having a hard time envisioning any scenario where Christine’s mom accepts being locked into a belt without Christine also remaining locked for the long term.

                                                        Christine She worries more about sex.

                                                        yes, that's what I mean, she's worried about what your sex life will be like, especially now that you don't live with her anymore, she doesn't see who you're seeing.

                                                        Christine Second, even if she agrees, it still means belt for me.

                                                        good argument, i think then better no belt for any of you

                                                        Saintprudence I’m having a hard time envisioning any scenario where Christine’s mom accepts being locked into a belt without Christine also remaining locked for the long term.

                                                        that's right, there would be no reason for that. one scenario i can imagine is if christine was married and her mother wasn't, then there would be an argument, albeit a weak one.

                                                                Saintprudence where Christine’s mom accepts being locked into a belt without Christine also remaining locked for the long term

                                                                But this is exactly my point. @Christine definitely won't wear a belt again, but her mom keeps talking about it. Why not try to persuade her?

                                                                    Laura But this is exactly my point. @Christine definitely won't wear a belt again, but her mom keeps talking about it. Why not try to persuade her?

                                                                    Yes, Christines mother should make a good example before she expect it from her daughter. But it doesn't mean that Christine automatically has to wear one. It is still her free decision, regardless of what her mother does.

                                                                        Angelina then i wish you all the best and if you don't want to write anything here anymore, you are welcome to have my mail as well. 🙂

                                                                        I was really touched by your positive messages and offer @Angelina. 🤗 You're made me think again about my decision to leave. I think your kindness out-weighs any negativity I've experienced. I'm not ready to speak again right now, but will come back and chat at some point in the future. Best wishes and thank you very much. Jonas