Single again chastity
Angelina i have to be careful not to come across as racist
The truth is not racism. Racism is making up excuses for exploiting, mistreating or harassing another group of people.
Ines men only with origin in countries where girls are no more than an animal
Let's be honest: mainly Negroes and Arabs (which does not mean that all blacks and Arabs act like this).
Ines serious cultural development problem
You missed your calling: you should be a diplomat, not a doctor...
Andrew You missed your calling: you should be a diplomat, not a doctor...
I can be very harsh, with it.
For me it is the world upside down, but I like boys to be kind.
I like to feel cared for, even if that means that sometimes they do not let me do something, I assume it as a lesser evil because I love what I get in return.
Many of these people come from countries where women are not protected, we are not valued, we are, as I said, animals that we have value.
Arriving here, mainly single men, the problems begin. Here even with social services since many workers are women.
Andrew The truth is not racism. Racism is making up excuses for exploiting, mistreating or harassing another group of people.
of course, i see it exactly like that, but you have to be very careful in some circles, some people are so sensitive that the word migration alone is enough to be pushed into the racist corner.
Angelina like you permanently or are there differences?
Only when she is alone.
Angelina do you then go to her and she has a few hours and has to be locked up again when you leave or how?
Yes, this is pretty much the way how it works. I make sure she always has it on without me.
Angelina is everything working well or are there problems?
She is trying to avoid the belt for obvious reasons, but without any luck. I hope she enjoys it when she meets her men.
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Christine She is trying to avoid the belt for obvious reasons, but without any luck. I hope she enjoys it when she meets her men.
How long do you plan to keep her protected in this way?
For example could she come to you and say she was wrong about the whole thing and ask not to use the belt any more?!
Are you showing what wearing a belt is actually like (kinda teaching her a lesson as it were), or will she really have to wait until marriage before having sex again?
Christine "She must obey her own rules."
To be honest, your mother seems even more bound to her belt than you were to yours. At least you could move out, she can never escape the rules because she applied them to you for so long.
It all depends. How strict are you going to be with her?!
Christine She is trying to avoid the belt for obvious reasons, but without any luck.
how do you actually plan for the future? i mean you stopped using the belt after you moved out, what would be a scenario for your mother where you would say "now we are in the clear and you don't need it anymore"?
Jonas or will she really have to wait until marriage before having sex again?
that wouldn't really be fair because @Christine stopped after she moved out, so I'm asking for a similar scenario for the mother.
Jonas say she was wrong about the whole thing and ask not to use the belt any more?!
Coz she needs sex badly?
Jonas will she really have to wait until marriage before having sex again?
I hope so.
Jonas At least you could move out, she can never escape the rules because she applied them to you for so long.
She doesn't depend on me at all and she can stop at any time.
curious Are you allowing her any breaks to masturbate
I don't care. Her belt is not always on.
Angelina what would be a scenario for your mother where you would say "now we are in the clear and you don't need it anymore"?
Why would I say it? What's wrong with her continuing to wear it?
Angelina that wouldn't really be fair because @Christine stopped after she moved out
I don't have sex after I moved out.
Angelina Jonas or will she really have to wait until marriage before having sex again?
that wouldn't really be fair because @Christine stopped after she moved out, so I'm asking for a similar scenario for the mother.
@"Christine removed herself physically from the rules imposed upon her. Her mother can do the same any time by simply refusing to wear her belt, but to do so she would have to break her own rules. Either she accepts she was wrong about chastity, or she wears the belt until marriage. It's checkmate.
Christine Coz she needs sex badly?
Yup. This is the crux of the matter. Chastity belts allow people to overrule or master some of their strongest bodily urges and to instead do what their minds have decided is right in the cold light of day.
I think your mother probably will choose to wear the belt you got her and to stick to her own rules. And I think overall this is the most remarkable turnaround I've read about on this forum!!
This is, of course, the most important reason TO keep her belted.
Sometimes I'll say to someone, at least partially as a joke but sometimes a little bit seriously, "perhaps you have to accept that you really do deserve to be belted." This is a bit of circular logic to me sometimes -- "clearly you are locked in a belt, therefore the evidence says you belong there" -- but in the case of your mother, she deserves to be belted and she deserved to remain locked until marriage and the keys handed over to the custody of her spouse.
Nothing at all. Your mother strongly believes that unmarried girls must wear the belt and stay chaste. She is unmarried and we know she has had sex in the past. It's best that she remain under control.
Christine Why would I say it? What's wrong with her continuing to wear it?
let me put it this way, you both start out under different circumstances. you wore the belt for completely different reasons than your mother does now. i understand that you want her to feel some of her own medicine, but how far should that actually go?
Jonas Her mother can do the same any time by simply refusing to wear her belt, but to do so she would have to break her own rules.
Not quite, with @Christine it was also about the fact that she lived with her mother and was financially dependent on her until a few months ago, that's what I mean by different conditions. @Christine didn't wear the belt after she moved out, is there a comparable scenario with her mother?
Jonas Either she accepts she was wrong about chastity, or she wears the belt until marriage
But she was not wrong, it works as it should.
Jonas I think your mother probably will choose to wear the belt
She already did. Otherwise she wouldn't wear it.
Saintprudence This is, of course, the most important reason TO keep her belted.
I agree. And if she asks for break for this purpose, she will be denied.
Saintprudence and the keys handed over to the custody of her spouse
I told her.
Saintprudence Your mother strongly believes that unmarried girls must wear the belt and stay chaste
That's why she didn't argue about the belt.
Saintprudence She is unmarried and we know she has had sex in the past
Not so in the past because me, but very recently. And it made me angry.
Renita You don't do the same.
It might be an option.
Angelina i understand that you want her to feel some of her own medicine
No I don't. I really care about her chastity now.