Christine she refused to give it to me, unless it's locked in place.

This is the correct path. I accept that you'll never wear a belt again if that's what you choose, but you should not be given access to your own older belt. The only purpose it serves is ensuring your chastity, and if you're not wearing it, it's safest in her hands.

    Lana Her mother can always change the lock entirely if she suspects.

    that's right, i hadn't thought of that. but that would mean more work for the mother, which she probably doesn't want.

    Saintprudence

    well i have to disagree, after my wedding i will of course keep my belt myself, probably in some box in the closet or attic, because even though i don't like it, it was a gift and so it is mine

      Angelina true enough! You make an excellent point. Though I imagine you will never again be belted once it comes off, so there’s less of a concern that you’ll undermine the security. Christine will be living under the prospect of being locked up for real again, and it’s less secure if she has access to tamper with it.

        Saintprudence The only purpose it serves is ensuring your chastity, and if you're not wearing it, it's safest in her hands.

        Best way to ensure that, if one day, you have to wear it again, it will do its job as well as it has before.

        I must also say that if she doesn't want to wear it she shouldn't wear it again.

        Kaja You still can use it for some play with Camrine πŸ˜‰

        haha, that's not going to happen. i can't use what i consider an educational tool as a toy, it just has a different meaning to me than putting it on the same level as a vibrator. πŸ˜‚

        Saintprudence Christine will be living under the prospect of being locked up for real again,

        well, we should hope not πŸ˜‰
        however, should the case arise again, a new belt can always be ordered or the padlock changed. πŸ˜‰

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          Angelina if you had the belt yourself, you could make a key copy for this emergency, that's what she wants to prevent.

          No, she says that the belt is not a toy.

          Lana If you have an angle grinder, you can take the risk of being locked, and when you are in your apartment, you can destroy the lock first and later the belt

          Do you suggest to accept her offer, let her lock me and then cut off the belt?
          What for? Just to make sure she doesn't have a belt for me anymore?

            Kaja Educational tool πŸ˜€. LOl.

            so it always depends on what you use the belt for, my father uses it as such with me so i see the belt as such

            Christine No, she says that the belt is not a toy.

            so she doesn't want you to have the belt because she doesn't want you to be able to use it as a toy?

              Angelina so she doesn't want you to have the belt because she doesn't want you to be able to use it as a toy?

              She wants me to have the belt, but not the keys. Coz it becomes nothing, but a toy if I have the keys from it.
              Ofc she didn't give up the idea of putting the belt back on.

                Christine Ofc she didn't give up the idea of putting the belt back on.

                Sure, I can understand that.
                even at the risk of being censored, but how does it feel to have orgasms again after many years of chastity? different from before? it was 3 years for you too, that's why I'm asking.

                  5 days later

                  Angelina but how does it feel to have orgasms again after many years of chastity?

                  Not much difference. If you are asking about sex, then I didn't have it yet.

                    Christine Not much difference. If you are asking about sex, then I didn't have it yet.

                    did it take a long time to reach the orgasm? or was it quick/faster?

                      Angelina did it take a long time to reach the orgasm? or was it quick/faster?

                      I don't remember how it was before.

                      Renita Do you plan it soon?

                      Are you asking if I'm in a relationship?

                      Angelina you do that when you've found the right one

                      But not instantly.

                        Christine But not instantly.

                        of course not and then @Renita's question comes into play again. do you currently have someone you can imagine dating or are you already dating? πŸ˜‰