Laura Why not try to persuade her?
Who should we persuade, @Christine or her mother?
Laura Why not try to persuade her?
Who should we persuade, @Christine or her mother?
Angelina Who should we persuade, @Christine or her mother?
@Christine should persuade her mother
Laura But this is exactly my point. @Christine definitely won't wear a belt again, but her mom keeps talking about it. Why not try to persuade her?
Yes, Christines mother should make a good example before she expect it from her daughter. But it doesn't mean that Christine automatically has to wear one. It is still her free decision, regardless of what her mother does.
Angelina then i wish you all the best and if you don't want to write anything here anymore, you are welcome to have my mail as well.
I was really touched by your positive messages and offer @Angelina. You're made me think again about my decision to leave. I think your kindness out-weighs any negativity I've experienced. I'm not ready to speak again right now, but will come back and chat at some point in the future. Best wishes and thank you very much. Jonas
Laura @Christine should persuade her mother
but then she would 100% end up in the belt herself, because the arguments for and against the belt are equally valid for both.
I'm glad, all the best and hope to see you soon
Renita Does she have a reason to worry?
No.
Renita She is single, right? Ask her if she has a boyfriend and if yes why doesn't she marry him.
I asked and she said it was none of my business. Then I suggested a chastity belt for her just in case using her own words. She promised to think.
Saintprudence where Christineโs mom accepts being locked into a belt without Christine also remaining locked for the long term.
She is a chastity belts fan, not me.
Angelina especially now that you don't live with her anymore, she doesn't see who you're seeing.
She expects, that I don't have sex at all since I'm single. But you guys are damn right. I can ask her the same.
Angelina because the arguments for and against the belt are equally valid for both.
But I don't sleep with guys.
Christine She expects, that I don't have sex at all since I'm single. But you guys are damn right. I can ask her the same.
for one thing you could have one night stands, also i think you have the same right as your mother, you are both single so the same standards should be used
Christine But I don't sleep with guys.
but you theoretically could anyway, either belts for both or no belts
Laura Take her measurements while she thinks
Jonas Well worth wearing again just for the pay back of seeing her mum in a belt!!
that's for @Christine to decide in the end, all I can say is that I wouldn't risk it.
Laura Did she mind?
No, coz she thought, that I was not serious.
Angelina I'm impressed how did you do it?
She wanted to think, rather than declined. So it was fair to not have more excuse from her.
We used the same measurement kit.
Angelina but consider that a belt for her would mean a high risk for you that you will end up in the belt yourself
No, the highest risk is if she refuses to wear. Nothing about me.
Jonas Well worth wearing again just for the pay back of seeing her mum in a belt!!
Not a payback, but she just must follow her own rules.
Jonas Is she trying to lead by example?
that would have been good, of course, but it would have been better if the mother had done it 3 years ago when she demanded that @Christine wear a belt.