Guaranteed virginity until marriage

Angelina

so that she no longer gets breaks every night, but only very rarely and the belt slowly develops from a abstinence belt to a chastity belt?

HHelen

Angelina so that she no longer gets breaks every night

She does, but I would prefer otherwise.

Vanessa Do you still plan it?

Not now.

Vanessa

Angelina I think this is actually the worst situation because it makes the situation for the girl worse than it was planned 🙁

I agree.

Ines

Right.

Angelina right, so for example i found it very bad that the parents of @Vanessa didn't tell her when she had to wear the belt permanently from a certain point on. i guess she didn't know until a year later that it would be from now until the wedding

Yes,I needed time to understand I wouldn't have it off anymore until my wedding...Even if I may have known sooner if I asked it directly to my parents.

HHelen I would want her to wear the secondary shield 24/7 with short breaks like @Laura .

Good for her you haven't though about it more,so!Do you still plan it?

Amira

Ines But I think you should accept I am right in most of cases.

even if something is based on different opinions you always have good reasons for your points.

Vanessa Yes,I needed time to understand I wouldn't have it off anymore until my wedding

yes, I can rely to that feeling! I don't even want to think about how long the belt is going to be my companion!

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,I needed time to understand I wouldn't have it off anymore until my wedding...Even if I may have known sooner if I asked it directly to my parents.

well, i think on the one hand it is very difficult to ask this question because you probably were afraid of the answer, on the other hand your parents probably weren't sure themselves in the beginning. so i think it would have been fair from the moment your parents made this decision to tell you themselves

Amira yes, I can rely to that feeling! I don't even want to think about how long the belt is going to be my companion!

with the small but important difference that you sometimes have breaks 😉

Vanessa

Amira yes, I can rely to that feeling! I don't even want to think about how long the belt is going to be my companion!

It is hard to know we're going to have it on for years...And imagine without any releases!

Amira

Angelina with the small but important difference that you sometimes have breaks

I can't even imagine how it would make me feel if I didn't have these breaks! I don't envy you about that!

Vanessa

Angelina well, i think on the one hand it is very difficult to ask this question because you probably were afraid of the answer, on the other hand your parents probably weren't sure themselves in the beginning. so i think it would have been fair from the moment your parents made this decision to tell you themselves

Yes,and I didn't want to gave them bad ideas.

You may be right,they may have needed some time to decide they should make it permanently wearing for me...

Angelina with the small but important difference that you sometimes have breaks 😉

Which can be very helpful!

Amira

It's totally awful!

HHelen She does, but I would prefer otherwise.

Not surprising!

HHelen Not now.

Good for her!

Angelina your daughter would never agree

Logical.

HHelen

A bit shaming for her;is it the purpose,hoping the shame would be big enough she prefer to not ask?

Angelina

Amira I can't even imagine how it would make me feel if I didn't have these breaks! I don't envy you about that!

well, for that i know about when i will probably get married, if i did not know that, i would probably be about to explode

Angelina

HHelen She does, but I would prefer otherwise.

so from time to time you try to shorten the breaks (every second night, every third night etc.) ? because this way the abstinence belt could become a chastity belt

it seems like you want to but you think your daughter would never agree

HHelen

Angelina so from time to time you try to shorten the breaks (every second night, every third night etc.) ?

Well, I don't take it off unless she explicitly asks.

Angelina

HHelen

so she has to ask every time she wants a break at night ?

HHelen

Angelina so she has to ask every time she wants a break at night ?

Yes.

Vanessa A bit shaming for her;is it the purpose,hoping the shame would be big enough she prefer to not ask?

That's exactly the reason, she should feel herself ashamed.

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,and I didn't want to gave them bad ideas.

understandable

Vanessa You may be right,they may have needed some time to decide they should make it permanently wearing for me..

but they should have said it immediately, as far as I remember you know about it by chance, right?

Vanessa It's totally awful!

you wrote that very honestly

Vanessa A bit shaming for her;is it the purpose,hoping the shame would be big enough she prefer to not ask?

without wanting to give anybody bad ideas, but the idea is actually very intelligent

Vanessa

Angelina but they should have said it immediately, as far as I remember you know about it by chance, right?

I guessed it after several months with it on...

Angelina you wrote that very honestly

Yes,I know it way too well(and you too).

Angelina without wanting to give anybody bad ideas, but the idea is actually very intelligent

But doesn't worked well,it seems!😉

HHelen That's exactly the reason, she should feel herself ashamed.

But it seems it is not the case,or not enough to make her stop asking.

Jonas

Which is shameful too.

Jonas

HHelen And, as a side-effect, you discover how often she's having solo sex.

Angelina

HHelen That's exactly the reason, she should feel herself ashamed.

does it have an influence, so she asked for fewer breaks from time to time ?

HHelen

Jonas you discover how often she's having solo sex.

I like this word. Initially I was skeptical, it could prevent "solo sex" effectively, but she can't do it even without thighbands.

Angelina does it have an influence, so she asked for fewer breaks from time to time ?

Yes, it works this way.

Vanessa or not enough to make her stop asking.

It's not my goal. Just less.

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,I know it way too well(and you too).

that is true (unfortunately)

Vanessa But doesn't worked well,it seems!😉

I think it depends on how high the shame threshold is. 😉

HHelen Yes, it works this way.

So it seems she is a bit uncomfortable to ask?

Jonas

i'm more honest, i say masturbate 😉

Vanessa

HHelen I like this word. Initially I was skeptical, it could prevent "solo sex" effectively, but she can't do it even without thighbands.

Logical with a secure belt.

HHelen Yes, it works this way.

I'm surprised.

HHelen It's not my goal. Just less.

How often is your goal,so?

Jonas

HHelen I like this word.

Yes, "solo sex" neatly sums up the problem: A secret, sexual, relationship with yourself.

HHelen

Vanessa Logical with a secure belt.

And I like it.

Vanessa How often is your goal,so?

Not more than once a week. And when she becomes a student it should be more rare.

Angelina So it seems she is a bit uncomfortable to ask?

I hope she is ashamed.

Kurt

Jonas Yeah you can describe it that way. But I see nothing bad in it. Because before you can love somebody else you have to love yourself first. 😉

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