Guaranteed virginity until marriage

HHelen

Angelina so from time to time you try to shorten the breaks (every second night, every third night etc.) ?

Well, I don't take it off unless she explicitly asks.

Angelina

so she has to ask every time she wants a break at night ?

Vanessa

Angelina well, i think on the one hand it is very difficult to ask this question because you probably were afraid of the answer, on the other hand your parents probably weren't sure themselves in the beginning. so i think it would have been fair from the moment your parents made this decision to tell you themselves

Yes,and I didn't want to gave them bad ideas.

You may be right,they may have needed some time to decide they should make it permanently wearing for me...

Angelina with the small but important difference that you sometimes have breaks 😉

Which can be very helpful!

Amira

It's totally awful!

HHelen She does, but I would prefer otherwise.

Not surprising!

HHelen Not now.

Good for her!

Angelina your daughter would never agree

Logical.

HHelen

A bit shaming for her;is it the purpose,hoping the shame would be big enough she prefer to not ask?

HHelen

Angelina so she has to ask every time she wants a break at night ?

Yes.

Vanessa A bit shaming for her;is it the purpose,hoping the shame would be big enough she prefer to not ask?

That's exactly the reason, she should feel herself ashamed.

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,and I didn't want to gave them bad ideas.

understandable

Vanessa You may be right,they may have needed some time to decide they should make it permanently wearing for me..

but they should have said it immediately, as far as I remember you know about it by chance, right?

Vanessa It's totally awful!

you wrote that very honestly

Vanessa A bit shaming for her;is it the purpose,hoping the shame would be big enough she prefer to not ask?

without wanting to give anybody bad ideas, but the idea is actually very intelligent

Vanessa

Angelina but they should have said it immediately, as far as I remember you know about it by chance, right?

I guessed it after several months with it on...

Angelina you wrote that very honestly

Yes,I know it way too well(and you too).

Angelina without wanting to give anybody bad ideas, but the idea is actually very intelligent

But doesn't worked well,it seems!😉

HHelen That's exactly the reason, she should feel herself ashamed.

But it seems it is not the case,or not enough to make her stop asking.

Jonas

Which is shameful too.

Jonas

HHelen And, as a side-effect, you discover how often she's having solo sex.

Angelina

HHelen That's exactly the reason, she should feel herself ashamed.

does it have an influence, so she asked for fewer breaks from time to time ?

HHelen

Jonas you discover how often she's having solo sex.

I like this word. Initially I was skeptical, it could prevent "solo sex" effectively, but she can't do it even without thighbands.

Angelina does it have an influence, so she asked for fewer breaks from time to time ?

Yes, it works this way.

Vanessa or not enough to make her stop asking.

It's not my goal. Just less.

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,I know it way too well(and you too).

that is true (unfortunately)

Vanessa But doesn't worked well,it seems!😉

I think it depends on how high the shame threshold is. 😉

HHelen Yes, it works this way.

So it seems she is a bit uncomfortable to ask?

Jonas

i'm more honest, i say masturbate 😉

Vanessa

HHelen I like this word. Initially I was skeptical, it could prevent "solo sex" effectively, but she can't do it even without thighbands.

Logical with a secure belt.

HHelen Yes, it works this way.

I'm surprised.

HHelen It's not my goal. Just less.

How often is your goal,so?

Jonas

HHelen I like this word.

Yes, "solo sex" neatly sums up the problem: A secret, sexual, relationship with yourself.

HHelen

Vanessa Logical with a secure belt.

And I like it.

Vanessa How often is your goal,so?

Not more than once a week. And when she becomes a student it should be more rare.

Angelina So it seems she is a bit uncomfortable to ask?

I hope she is ashamed.

Kurt

Jonas Yeah you can describe it that way. But I see nothing bad in it. Because before you can love somebody else you have to love yourself first. 😉

Vanessa

Angelina I think it depends on how high the shame threshold is. 😉

Sure,but for now,she still ask often,it seems.

Angelina So it seems she is a bit uncomfortable to ask?

Understandable.

Angelina i'm more honest, i say masturbate 😉

Me too,generally.But "solo sex" work,too.

Kurt

I agree.

HHelen And I like it.

Not surprising!

HHelen Not more than once a week. And when she becomes a student it should be more rare.

That is not often,even if better than nothing.Less would be hard for her...

But,why less often when she becomes a student?

And what if she hasn't reduced(or not reduced enough in your opinion)when she's a student?

HHelen I hope she is ashamed.

Do you think it is the case?

Jonas

Kurt Yeah you can describe it that way. But I see nothing bad in it.

I used to feel the same way. Now I see masturbation as a sexual short-circuit.

Kurt

Jonas After some time yes. But when you begin to explore masturbation, it's a good way to find out how your own body works and even what he is capable of. And if you learn how to please yourself (where and how to touch...) you can learn how to please others (especially if your partner has the same gender).
And in my case it helped me to understand my own needs (and so called fetishes) better.

Jonas

Kurt I understand this and would have thought as you do in my 20s, but, looking back, I think such exploring is better done with a partner.

Jonas

HHelen Not more than once a week. And when she becomes a student it should be more rare.

A generous allocation in comparison with some on here.

Angelina

HHelen I hope she is ashamed.

hmm... you hope? i thought you could notice it by how often she asks.

HHelen And when she becomes a student it should be more rare.

i think once a week should also be possible during the studies, at least on weekends.

Kurt

HHelen I hope she is ashamed.

And what is when the opposite effect taking place? By questioning again and again maybe she lose the shame.

HHelen

Angelina i thought you could notice it by how often she asks

No, it depends on other things.

Vanessa But,why less often when she becomes a student?

Because she shouldn't waste her time and energy for it.

Vanessa And what if she hasn't reduced(or not reduced enough in your opinion)when she's a student?

It will be my choice only, because we know, the belt works.

Kurt By questioning again and again maybe she lose the shame.

If she asks too frequently, the secondary shield will remain locked for longer time.

Jonas

Vanessa But,why less often when she becomes a student?

Maybe she's expected to control herself more and more as she gets older? A lot of people see masturbation as a phase young adults are supposed to pass through.

Angelina

Vanessa And what if she hasn't reduced(or not reduced enough in your opinion)when she's a student?

i fear the abstinence belt will then become a chastity belt 🙁

Kurt By questioning again and again maybe she lose the shame.

that's right, it can have a habitual effect

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