Guaranteed virginity until marriage

Vanessa

Jonas I think you have to be very firm with cravings. They exploit any weakness. I wouldn't allow myself smoking-breaks when trying to quit smoking or drinking breaks if I were quitting alcohol (thankfully, alcohol is one thing that's not been a problem for me!! Yay!! 🤣 )

As to chastity, (consensual chastity I mean), the body will crave sex and try all manner of things to get you to give into it.

I don't mean doing breaks,but reducing it step by step.For example,if smoking 20 cigarettes a day,reduce it to 15,and,after some time,10,then 5,then 2,then 1,and finally,0.

HHelen That's why she should get used to it in advance.

Do you plan to make her wearing it at night more often soon,like a training?

HHelen Of course, I'm going to.

Good.

Angelina

Yes...

Ines

I agree,but,if it is an abstinence belt at first,it should not be used as a chastity belt,if the wearer don't agree with it.

Jonas

Vanessa I don't mean doing breaks,but reducing it step by step.For example,if smoking 20 cigarettes a day,reduce it to 15,and,after some time,10,then 5,then 2,then 1,and finally,0

Ah, I tried this, but I found cutting back to be a torture. You're left always craving and waiting for your next chance to smoke. Better to go with a clean break ...in my personal view.

Angelina

Vanessa I don't mean doing breaks,but reducing it step by step.For example,if smoking 20 cigarettes a day,reduce it to 15,and,after some time,10,then 5,then 2,then 1,and finally,0.

that's how i meant it and that's how i would advise every smoker who wants to quit but has problems to do so as well.

Vanessa I agree,but,if it is an abstinence belt at first,it should not be used as a chastity belt,if the wearer don't agree with it.

that's exactly how it is and if so, the deal should be discussed again completely anew

Jonas Ah, I tried this, but I found cutting back to be a torture. You're left always craving and waiting for your next chance

I try the same thing every year after christmas with chocolate, not comparable, but also very difficult. 😂

HHelen

Vanessa Do you plan to make her wearing it at night more often soon,like a training?

I want her to wear it for few days without break.

Vanessa

Jonas

I guess each people react differently.But I understand you.

Angelina that's how i meant it and that's how i would advise every smoker who wants to quit but has problems to do so as well.

I would do it this way,too.

Angelina that's exactly how it is and if so, the deal should be discussed again completely anew

Right.

HHelen I want her to wear it for few days without break.

Starting when?And how much days?

Angelina do you think she will accept it ?

Personally I doubt it.But not sure @HHelen would give her the choice...

Angelina thank you, although i don't actually intend to be successful 😂

🤣

Jonas

Angelina I try the same thing every year after christmas with chocolate, not comparable, but also very difficult.

Good luck!! 😂

Angelina

HHelen I want her to wear it for few days without break.

do you think she will accept it ?

Jonas Good luck!! 😂

thank you, although i don't actually intend to be successful 😂

Jonas

Angelina thank you, although i don't actually intend to be successful

😂 🤣 😂 You know yourself well!!

HHelen

Angelina do you think she will accept it ?

I'm sure.

Vanessa Starting when?

In summer before her university.

Vanessa And how much days?

For a week.

Jonas I don't think @HHelen would force anything on her daughter

Of course, it's not a option.

Angelina so why should it be different now?

Because an university.

Angelina she really seems to have a very convincing character

Proper education.

Angelina

Jonas

I know that I can't do without chocolate and coffee, and I don't want to. 😂

Angelina

Vanessa Personally I doubt it.But not sure @HHelen would give her the choice...

But then she would risk a very bad relationship with her daughter. because the deal was rather voluntary in the beginning. if it comes to force now, it can end very badly.

Jonas

Angelina Vanessa Personally I doubt it.But not sure @HHelen would give her the choice...

But then she would risk a very bad relationship with her daughter. because the deal was rather voluntary in the beginning. if it comes to force now, it can end very badly.

I don't think @HHelen would force anything on her daughter, but I do think she must be very convincing indeed. I'd be interested to know how much her daughter buys into the whole idea of chastity at this point.

Vanessa

Angelina

But it seems it is going this way...Even if I agree,it could badly damage her relationship with her daughter.

HHelen I'm sure.

Why?

HHelen In summer before her university.

Does she know?

HHelen For a week.

It would be very hard for her...

Angelina

Jonas but I do think she must be very convincing indeed.

probably, apparently there was no big discussion when the daughter was supposed to wear the abstinence belt, so why should it be different now? she really seems to have a very convincing character

Jonas

HHelen For a week.

It would be useful to ensure she can satisfactorily deal with her period with the secondary shield in place.

Angelina

HHelen For a week.

so one week completely without a break ?

HHelen Proper education.

well, i think i have that too, but i still have a different opinion.

Ines

Jonas
Yes. But even a serious regime, is not a "throw the key and forget", a chastity regime includes a lot of releases for good reasons.

HHelen

Jonas It would be useful to ensure she can satisfactorily deal with her period with the secondary shield in place.

Why? I wouldn't insist it.

Angelina so one week completely without a break ?

Yes.

Vanessa Does she know?

Still too early to talk about.

Jonas

Ines I was talking about the necessity of learning to cope with menstruation as secondary shield use increased. "Throw the key and forget" would be gross neglect and not applicable to this situation.

Angelina

Vanessa But it seems it is going this way...Even if I agree,it could badly damage her relationship with her daughter.

Well, at least she can't say afterwards that we didn't warn her

Vanessa

Angelina

Sure.We've given advices,if she don't take these into account,it would be her choice.

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