Zoe Sorry for butting in. 🙂
No problems! I'm really glad you've started talking on here again, I found your initial experiences really fascinating.
Jonas The keyholder is there to enact the wearer's will, where that will is temporary blotted out the by sex drive.
That's a very interesting thought. Guess it doesn't really make a difference to the point, but how many wearers woke up one day and decided, they need metal underwear with a lock.
People tend to do a double take when they see a chastity belt. They laugh or are a bit shocked at the idea and then they move on ...but some for some of us the idea kinda sticks. It intrigues, it fits, it somehow feels right.
I often find putting it on myself voluntarily, when I get a "holiday". Weirdly I feel safer and calmer wearing it most of the time.
Yep. That's the kind of feeling! I feel the same. In my 20s I would have thought of a belt a as a fetish item, but now I see it's part of who I am, who I want to be. I feel better with my belt and I act better too.
For me until yesterday, I felt always in control of it, as I knew where the spare keys are.
😄 Yes, ofc. That's a big step up. Not a game any more. You lie there and it hits you that you really cannot take off the belt and the realisation can hit you like a plank of wood.
It can feel so stressful, so frustrating and even makes me panicky on times but, for me at least, there is always this strong undercurrent that chastity enforced by a belt, is right for me.
¯_(ツ)_/¯ Okay, if that's who I am, then fine. That is who I should be.
