I know firsthand that new girls do not fit their chastity belts perfectly. I think sometimes that is why peole wind up in thighbands and bras and that those a cruel and dominating.
I do not like those
Cruel and dominating accessories
Megan
Interesting post, Megan, but in my opinion you are wrong about bands.
I can not understand the "chastity" bras, but them and the bands, obviously, are hugely dominant, but no cruel.
The bands,sweet, for most of girls here are a part of our belts as the padlocks or secondary shield.
And nobody says that secondary shield is cruel.
Bands have a powerful psychological effect about us, and that and the plus of security justifying absolutely the need of them.
strictfather
No. Not at all, to feel caressed and protected is not cruelty.
You have been amongst us for some weeks, but it seems you still do not understand fully implications for all of us.
For me, a single chastity belt even without secondary shield, if girl is forced, is cruelty.
Thigh bands simply make belt more secure and complete.
Ines to feel caressed and protected
this is the point. every time you refer to your situation you confirm this your feeling. meanwhile, reading other people words, they feel CB not as a "protection" and a "caress" but more as a "forced" situation to live with because there is no escape (because of consequences on their familiy, life, economy,....). Let's explain better your "caressed and protected" idea to Camrine and Emilie and their girlfriends. I think (i can also be wrong, they can respond about it) they will disagree with your idea about the wonderful (!?!) CB world.
I think Camrine and Emilie will be more happy with their girlfriends without the CB wall.
I accept and respect you have your idea about your CB life, but i disagree you can think to adapt your viewpoint to everyone around....
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Ines Thigh bands simply make belt more secure and complete
yes, true, but from parent point of view only. From wearer point of view it make belt more difficult to wear. you can't negate problems created by thight bands (and don't talk at all about chastity bra).
I think you always have to see both sides. I think it has advantages and disadvantages. @Ines sees the whole surely much more romantic because there is no compulsion, but it is a family tradition, with you the compulsion stands in the first place why you consistently argue against it. Ines and you will not come on a point of view, because you approach the matter completely differently. of course I sometimes annoy about my chastity clothes, but in other situations I also see positive effects.
please try to see both sides of your answers 
i agree
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strictfather
No. As I said a lot of times, I do not agree the idea of make a girl wear a belt.
For me, is even harsh, but the crude fact is that there are girls that are wearing, so here, my agreement or not, is not the point.
Since parents point of wiew? No. You can ask I think all of us, and we can like or dislike the bands (I guess response, girls, just rhetoric), but all of us can say you that yes, belt is much more secure.
And well, no doubt about are more complicated of wear, but at least me, maybe the only non "forced"wearer in the forum, I like the feeling that provide to me.
For me, the bra I can not talk about it, but I think is some exaggerated device.
@strictfather , maybe you are seeing all the chastity belt as a tool for punish or for fix errors (I remember when you arrived here), but in some wearers, is source of good feelings. Even Angelina that uses it in a very strict regime talks about positive elements.
I really like you are here with us, as father, I am glad to help you with some curiosity, but I think you should not make statements as you made.
Try to talk with us, and you will see that we are heterogeneous reality, even, maybe sometimes I would fight against my belt, and maybe another girl can go happy to the bed feeling the love of her parents, even she does not like her belt.
And I have not to explain nothing to Emilie or Camrym, they are intelligent beings with her own approach to the belts. If they like or dislike is entirely their bussiness, and I am sure they have very good reasons to think this way.
Wonderful CB world...I talk here about my experience, I can not invent an alter ego and begin to write about my miserable life, but I am not here in order to convince anybody, we are different, thankfully. And I like wear my belt as another girl, sadly, can hate wear it. Chastity belts are same for all of us, differences come of our parents or our regime. And I feel sorry of girls forced to wear one (how many times I have said that?).
Maybe the difference is that I feel myself accepted here, with my mild wearing style, and even the girls that are in hard times see my approach logical due my circumstances. As I usually say, if my circumstances were different, my approach would be different too.
And I am sure that in any of my posts I have tried to export my point of wiew. If do you want we can enumerate posts in which you sentence about our lifestyle, using a brand for every behavior or experience. Prudence is wise advisor.
But at the end I think I am free to express me here, at least until Laura does not say anything against it 
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Very long post, sorry.
Ines I do not agree the idea of make a girl wear a belt
ehm... why do you wear a CB? because you feel "caressed and protected". but if you don't agree the idea of make a girl wear a belt then you shouldn't like to wear one and feel caressed and protected. ehm.... i don't see the logic.....
Make a girl wear, I try to express "force a girl to wear".
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All we are different persons, so a thing can be valid for me and for nobody else. I am not able to find a single problem in my philosophy.
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strictfather et's explain better your "caressed and protected" idea to Camrine and Emilie and their girlfriends. I think (i can also be wrong, they can respond about it) they will disagree with your idea about the wonderful (!?!) CB world.
I think Camrine and Emilie will be more happy with their girlfriends without the CB wall.
Yes,of course Emilie would like me to not have to wear such devices.It is now more than one year and half since we told each other "I love you!" for the first time,and we've never been able to be totally intimate.She has never been able to look at me between my legs,and even less touch me with a finger or her tongue here...However,I never had the same feeling that Ines,but I can understand her point of view.
Ines belt is much more secure.
I agree,it is more secure with the thigh bands,even if already very well secure...
Don't you think your point of view is influenced by how it went when you suggest it for your daughter?
If she has not been against it,but said something like" Ok,I know I've behaved badly,and a chastity belt can help me to improve,so it's ok,order one for me,please.",do you think you would still have the same opinion about chastity belt and the ones wearing it?
No offense here,just an idea...
Ines Not at all, to feel caressed and protected is not cruelty.
O don't think my tightbands add anything to the security of the main purpose of preventing sex with another person. There ONLY purpose is to prevent masturbation, but this is not the initial job of a chastity belt for woman.
Tightbands doesn't prevent rape, pregnancy, any sexual disease, virginity and so on.
They just make it impossible for us to masturbate with a lot of bad side effects.
I think they are cruel, I don't more complete with them. I feel they are just cruel because masturbation is nothing dangerous and difficult enough to almost impossible with the chastity belt only.
Ines Even Angelina that uses it in a very strict regime talks about positive elements.
That's true for the belt, but is it true for the tightbands and the bra?
Ines And I am sure that in any of my posts I have tried to export my point of wiew.
That's absolutely true and I agree to almost anything you say.
On the other hand, at least for me, being forced to wear a chastity belt is easier for me to accept then being forced to wear tightbands because I see the validity of the reason of a chastity belt but not the one of the tightbands.
Sara2001
I can understand fully your approach, but in My case, the reinforcement of the security of my belt, and the way that make me feel a bit powerless, make me feel much more secure even I do not like much them.
I do not like wear bands but yes the consequences of wear them.
I would wish I could explain me better in English 
Angelina I hate them and I don't think this will change soon 
But at least I more or less get used to it much better. I still try to run something and get a hard break from the tightbands and in this situations I feel the strong urge to destroy something (not necessarily the tightbands, just something ), but most of the time it's kind of manageable.
I think because of my sisters it's now even more unlikely that my situation will change anytime soon.
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