All we are different persons, so a thing can be valid for me and for nobody else. I am not able to find a single problem in my philosophy.

strictfather et's explain better your "caressed and protected" idea to Camrine and Emilie and their girlfriends. I think (i can also be wrong, they can respond about it) they will disagree with your idea about the wonderful (!?!) CB world.
I think Camrine and Emilie will be more happy with their girlfriends without the CB wall.

Yes,of course Emilie would like me to not have to wear such devices.It is now more than one year and half since we told each other "I love you!" for the first time,and we've never been able to be totally intimate.She has never been able to look at me between my legs,and even less touch me with a finger or her tongue here...However,I never had the same feeling that Ines,but I can understand her point of view.

Ines belt is much more secure.

I agree,it is more secure with the thigh bands,even if already very well secure...

@strictfather

Don't you think your point of view is influenced by how it went when you suggest it for your daughter?

If she has not been against it,but said something like" Ok,I know I've behaved badly,and a chastity belt can help me to improve,so it's ok,order one for me,please.",do you think you would still have the same opinion about chastity belt and the ones wearing it?

No offense here,just an idea...

      Ines Not at all, to feel caressed and protected is not cruelty.

      O don't think my tightbands add anything to the security of the main purpose of preventing sex with another person. There ONLY purpose is to prevent masturbation, but this is not the initial job of a chastity belt for woman.

      Tightbands doesn't prevent rape, pregnancy, any sexual disease, virginity and so on.

      They just make it impossible for us to masturbate with a lot of bad side effects.

      I think they are cruel, I don't more complete with them. I feel they are just cruel because masturbation is nothing dangerous and difficult enough to almost impossible with the chastity belt only.

          Ines Even Angelina that uses it in a very strict regime talks about positive elements.

          That's true for the belt, but is it true for the tightbands and the bra?

          Ines And I am sure that in any of my posts I have tried to export my point of wiew.

          That's absolutely true and I agree to almost anything you say.

          On the other hand, at least for me, being forced to wear a chastity belt is easier for me to accept then being forced to wear tightbands because I see the validity of the reason of a chastity belt but not the one of the tightbands.

                Sara2001
                I can understand fully your approach, but in My case, the reinforcement of the security of my belt, and the way that make me feel a bit powerless, make me feel much more secure even I do not like much them.
                I do not like wear bands but yes the consequences of wear them.
                I would wish I could explain me better in English 😟

                    Sara2001

                    no my positive words apply only to the belt, the tighbands and the bra i hate 🙁

                    it is correct that tighbands are only there to restrict us and to take us every possibility under the belt to come.

                    did you get used to wearing the tighbands 24/7 better ?

                        Angelina I hate them and I don't think this will change soon 🙂

                        But at least I more or less get used to it much better. I still try to run something and get a hard break from the tightbands and in this situations I feel the strong urge to destroy something (not necessarily the tightbands, just something 🙂 ), but most of the time it's kind of manageable.

                        I think because of my sisters it's now even more unlikely that my situation will change anytime soon.

                            Sara2001
                            that's exactly what I meant when I said she's hurting you.

                            Because she couldn't pull herself together, your father won't take any more risks with you two.

                                Sara2001 There ONLY purpose is to prevent masturbation, but this is not the initial job of a chastity belt for woman.

                                Tightbands doesn't prevent rape, pregnancy, any sexual disease, virginity and so on.

                                They just make it impossible for us to masturbate with a lot of bad side effects.

                                However,when we've to wear our chastity belt with the secondary shield on,it is pretty clear that one of the purpose of our belt is to prevent us to masturbate,too.

                                Sara2001 masturbation is nothing dangerous and difficult enough to almost impossible with the chastity belt only.

                                I agree!

                                Ines

                                You like some parts of it and dislike others.If you've the choice,with no consequences on your family,what would you decide?Wear them or not?

                                Sara2001 I hate them and I don't think this will change soon

                                Probably not,it is very unpleasant and very restrictive.I can't even imagine how I would feel if I had to wear it permanently,and go out with these on...

                                Sara2001 I think because of my sisters it's now even more unlikely that my situation will change anytime soon.

                                I think too your father will be even more strict and will take care both of you have no chance to cheat,due to what she did...Even if you behaved better than her(at least,since you started to wear it permanently...).

                                Angelina that's exactly what I meant when I said she's hurting you.

                                Because she couldn't pull herself together, your father won't take any more risks with you two.

                                Yes,it seems it is exactly the case,even if a bit unfair for Sara...

                                              Vanessa

                                              you can try it 😉

                                              go outside with the tighbands and test if you can handle it 😉

                                                  Angelina you can try it 😉

                                                  go outside with the tighbands and test if you can handle it 😉

                                                  Yes,but no! 😉

                                                  I'm sure it isn't a pleasant experience to do!

                                                      Vanessa You like some parts of it and dislike others.If you've the choice,with no consequences on your family,what would you decide?Wear them or not?

                                                      Well some parte are easier to wear, but as you know in my opinión bands are part of my belt, so I can not imagine wear one without the other.
                                                      For me is pretty easy wear all my belt, and sometimes ask for some release, secondary shield or bands.
                                                      Maybe only thing that I would like would be a bit longer chain 😉

                                                        Vanessa

                                                        it is not a pleasant experience 🙁

                                                        but so you can get an idea of what some of us have to go through every day here. Wearing the tighbands outside is much harder than at home because the obstacles are bigger and there is a danger that someone will see you walking funny or slow.

                                                        try it 😉

                                                            Angelina funny

                                                            Funny??? 😂
                                                            I walk slower than normal (thankfully for my mates because everybody says I walk and talk very fast 🤗) but... Funny??!!! 😂

                                                                Ines

                                                                I meant rather funny for others if you stumble constantly because you run too fast 😉

                                                                • Ines replied to this.

                                                                    Angelina
                                                                    With a chain, you can feel some pulls, but you do not stumble sensu strictu.
                                                                    I can see that a chain is exponentially easier to fit than the padlock😕

                                                                        Ines

                                                                        with the lock I feel the pull only if it is already too late, then I stumble 🙁

                                                                        luckily no one has ever noticed when anyone asks me a question i say i stumbled across the floor

                                                                          😕.
                                                                          A chain is far more easy. And secure.
                                                                          I feel sorry of see that you even fall.