I know that this isin't a kink site, but i think that's where you are going. For me one of the most difficult things is living our life in a vanilla world. "The big secret' is a hinderence between these two worlds. I see her as wanting to remove the hard line between the two worlds so you can be more open with each other and the life you seek. For the ladies on here, keeping their belt secret is a big thing. Most are not in a relationship and the thought of discovery is horrifying. By neccessity they live in a secret world and secrets are always work to bare. Big difference.
Am i normal?
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Avery for me it even makes me feel powerful ( over myself) because i can control my urges and also the urge ( when it happens) to ask to take the belt off
Anniegreen for me it even makes me feel powerful (over myself) because i can control my urges and also the urge (when it happens) to ask to take the belt off
Correct, methinks. That was a man who said it would make a female feel submissive.
toad For the ladies on here, keeping their belt secret is a big thing. Most are not in a relationship and the thought of discovery is horrifying. By neccessity they live in a secret world and secrets are always work to bare. Big difference.
It's not their choice, really. Most of the ladies here are forced into the belt. To make that fact public would risk the chance that their keyholders would be revealed as abusers (mothers, fathers, aunts) and the women don't want that (possible destruction of the family). I do not think women who make the chastity choice themselves are all that secret. I make no bones about not coming across.
