toad For the ladies on here, keeping their belt secret is a big thing. Most are not in a relationship and the thought of discovery is horrifying. By neccessity they live in a secret world and secrets are always work to bare. Big difference.
It's not their choice, really. Most of the ladies here are forced into the belt. To make that fact public would risk the chance that their keyholders would be revealed as abusers (mothers, fathers, aunts) and the women don't want that (possible destruction of the family). I do not think women who make the chastity choice themselves are all that secret. I make no bones about not coming across.