youdontknowme This has always been a tough issue for me here on the forum to defend myself. The girls do live with me and yes I provide for their financial well being, as most parents do. I have done the best I can to raise the girls to be strong, independent, and well educated as that is the best way to prepare themselves for the future.
I also believe that the wearing of chastity belts is the best way to protect them from temptations and potentially dangerous sexual activity with unwanted and unforeseen consequences. Through much, and I mean much dialogue, I have been able to convince the girls that despite the challenges of long term wearing of chastity belts, ultimately, in the long run it it is best for them. I don't want to go over all of this again, as I have explained in many other posts, but the girls are free to exit their belts. They know that it is my wish for them to wear the belts, but they also know they can opt out and I will love them regardless. If that qualifies as "coercion", I am not really sure what else I can say.
As for Monica and Jane, it is a totally different situation. I am fortunate that I did not have to deal with any of this crazy behavior that Monica does. How much pressure she puts on Jane is something I have no control over, but I will say this... I have done my part to make sure Monica spends a lot of time getting Jane to see the benefits of wearing one, although I know that won't be easy.
At the beginning with Susan, when I first asked her to start wearing a belt, we would spend hours and hours talking about it, arguing about it, why I felt it was necessary, what she was giving up, what she was gaining, etc. These were often times very long and difficult discussions. Eventually I won over her trust that this was the right thing to do, but it was not easy. When she first started wearing it, during the ramp up phase at the beginning, I had her wear it every day right when she came home from school, and for a longer period each day. Most importantly she knew I was committed to the process and I think that was important for her to see that this was not something I was going to push off to the side and forget about it.
At the beginning I know she dreaded it, but in time she gradually accepted it. I think this was because of the talks we had nearly every day. Eventually Susan would come home and bring the belt to me to put on her, I did not have to ask. That was a very special moment for me. When we got to the point when it was time for her to go 24/7, a few months later, we both knew what it meant. There is a trust and love between us now that was greater than it was before. I consider myself very lucky that Kate was able to see Susan go through the process, as it made it much easier when the two of us sat down to discuss her getting her own belt. The girls are different for sure and there are different challenges with each. But I can say that no way would any of this have been possible without regular and constant dialogue between all of us.
I am hoping that Monica and Jane can get to that point, and I have told her all about the above. It is important that each side understands what the other wants. There has been a lot of hurt inflicted from both sides so I am not sure if it will be possible. It sounds like though they are having some productive dialogue that may not have existed before, at least not in a very long time. Monica has my support and I will help where I can. I think the belt can do much good in curbing her slutty behavior, but only if it is used in the right way.
