Laura Bell

Would this one be better? https://www.my-steel.de/comfort-chastity-belt-system-in-chains-style-or-double-activ-for-women

Not so sure on the chains it looks like they might nip.

Damien Oh i thought i said in a previous post. I only want to wear a belt when i am out of the house on a night out. I have no intention of letting some one else being in control of the keys.. My intention is i can put it on before i go out leave the key at home and when i come home i can unlock myself the next day.

Damien Well i am not trying to protect my virginity that is long gone. The two main reasons behind my thinking is firstly i am very nervous when i travel by myself. There has been a few times where i had stayed home because it would be difficult getting back home by myself. Secondly i am done with one night stands, I meet someone i like and i go to their place and we have sex. The next morning i have to do the walk of shame home with people looking at me. Also the one night stands almost never turn in to a relationship.

Laura Oh really so i can not do it myself.

It did say in the 1st line of the description that you could measure yourself.

So i need to aske a friend or go to Germany i guess.

So i finally managed to get the DVD working. I had to put it in to my old laptop as it had a DVD player. Once i seen the videos that look like they were recorded in the 80's i had a pretty good understanding what i needed to do.

I asked a friend of mine to come round on Tuesday evening as i need some help with something but i did not tell her what i needed help with. Tuesday evening comes round and i finally spill the beans on my idea of getting a chastity belt. I asked her not to tell any of our other friends or her husband as I want to be the one that tells them about this.
I was immediately bombarded with a million questions. Why do you want to do this, they look really uncomfortable, what happens if you need to use the toilet, what happens if you lose the key, they are really expensive, how is that going to work when I am on my period, what happens if something happens and I have to go to hospital, etc. After about 90 min of explaining myself to my friend she came round to the idea of the reasoning of getting myself a belt and why i would want one. So i showed her a few websites and the measuring kit that i had. Once she seen the kit i think she knew i was quite serious on getting a belt for myself. So i showed her the videos of the measuring process and she started to give suggestions on what would be the best option to go for. After some discussion we both thought that a hip belt would be the easiest to hide and live with. So using the kit and the video instructions we measured myself for a hip belt. With having a friend for help and the aid of the video it was pretty easy to get an accurate measurement. We repeated the process 4 times and we came out with the same result.

So once that was all over we opened a few bottles of wine and started discussing the subject a bit more and she said that she understands my thinking but it is a bit messed up. Once she reassured me a little I decided to be brave and went ahead and ordered myself a belt with my friend’s feedback on what would be the easiest to live with. I / we decided that a hip belt with thong back would be the most discrete. Going through the options with my friend we landed on the long front shield as we thought the extra lock might poke through my clothes and be seen. There were other options on the form but I did not have any idea what they were so I just added the most expensive lock as I thought it would be the least likely to break or have problems.

By the end of the night it was not regretting telling my friend about my idea and that she seemed fairly happy with my logic even though she thought it was a bit messed up. When going through a few of the websites my friend she did discover that chastity belts for men exist. She told me that she really liked the idea of her husband wearing one as it would make him desperate and she could tease him. I doubt that she will get him one she just likes the idea of it.

Right now i am feeling pretty nervous and excited about it's arrival. I know it is going to be difficult at the beginning learning how to wear it but i think it is going to put my mind a ease when i am traveling. So I guess I just have to wait a few weeks before my belt arrives and see how it works out.

Renita I have no idea why they would do that. But that is what the did do. They also sent me a Neosteel branded ball point pen. I do not fancy using it there is a chance some one might actually recognise it and then know.