Sabina Graduation will end the learning phase in my life, for which my mother feels responsible
I thought, that it's after high school.
Sabina And I can say 'this arrangement doesn't suit me, I'm giving up the belt'
You didn't say it when you were not let go to the party without the belt. Why could it be different next time?
Laura Will you move out from parents?
Probably no.
Laura dating' means a romantic relationship with a person you have regular meetings with.
Please tell your definition
Ok, I correctly suspected that the problem was in the meaning of the word. In Polish, this meaning is much narrower - dating is only the act of going on dates, e.g. to a restaurant, cinema or for a walk. It may or may not mean you are in a relationship with that person.
Laura active way" mean sex?
This means that I will start looking for a partner more actively (e.g. through a dating app) than relying on accidentally meeting someone. This will mean a greater likelihood of premarital sex, because in such relationships there is usually sex first, then marriage.
Laura Would you mind to share your thoughts because it's an interesting discussion?
There can be thousands of such scenarios, so I will rather not describe them, because life is not enough for that. I will limit myself to the one that would suit me best: In October I return to the university and meet a handsome, wise and modest boy of a similar age. We start meeting each other at the university on the occasion of classes and slowly make friends. Then we start meeting in our free time (we go on dates). We talk during them about our views on various matters, including sex. I tell him that I would like to keep my virginity until marriage and I tell him my secret and he accepts it. Our relationship develops and ends with a wedding. On my wedding day, my mother gives the key to my belt to my husband. And then we live happily ever after. 
Laura I tried to convince my parents that I don' t need a belt anymore because I was mature enough. Still virgin and belted
If necessary, I will not convince anyone of anything, I will just declare that the belt wearing is over. I have a feeling that your family is much more obsessed with virginity than mine. My mother takes a very utilitarian approach to this issue, simply not wanting her daughter to have any difficulties in her studies due to pregnancy.
Joh your chastity is very important to you
Yes, chastity is something important for me, but no 'very', especially when I compare myself with other girls from the forum...
Renita I thought, that it's after high school.
That's how Google translate translated 'end of studies' from Polish.
Renita You didn't say it when you were not let go to the party without the belt.
Having to wear a chastity belt to meet girlfriends wasn't just too much of a problem for me. Therefore, I did not take advantage of the possibility of resignation, which will be definitive, so I cannot waste it.
Sabina Probably no.
Then probably the belt will stay on
Sabina In Polish, this meaning is much narrower - dating is only the act of going on dates, e.g. to a restaurant, cinema or for a walk. It may or may not mean you are in a relationship with that person.
Then why does your belt prevent it?
Sabina because in such relationships there is usually sex first, then marriage.
It only depends on you
Sabina I will just declare that the belt wearing is over.
And they can let you go and live on you own
Sabina simply not wanting her daughter to have any difficulties in her studies due to pregnancy.
Then she should teach you how to use birth control pills 
Laura Then why does your belt prevent it?
Because every date is a risk of him discovering my chastity belt. Of course, I can take such a risk, but only with a really cool guy, and I just haven't met one yet. 
I've known my parents for 22 years and I know what I can expect from them. Please don't judge everyone by your family relationships.
Laura Then she should teach you how to use birth control pills
She think that steel panties are the most perfect form of contraception 
Sabina Having to wear a chastity belt to meet girlfriends wasn't just too much of a problem for me.
Then why did you even ask? The problem is not this meeting itself, the problem is that you've got refused.
Sabina Because every date is a risk of him discovering my chastity belt.
Don't worry. You are not alone, I have the same fear.
Sabina She think that steel panties are the most perfect form of contraception
Honestly, depending on the way the belt is built etc., this isn't even that good of a form of contraception. I mean, hypothetically speaking, if someone were to orgasm on your chastity belt, the probability of sperm getting where they want to get isn't exactly zero, isn't it? The belt might prevent having penetrative sex, but having penetrative sex isn't the only way one could get pregnant.
Sabina Because every date is a risk of him discovering my chastity belt
Just don't get closer
Sabina Please don't judge everyone by your family relationships.
I'm just speculating. And my situation is different
Sabina She think that steel panties are the most perfect form of contraception
My parents think the same
Lukas if someone were to orgasm on your chastity belt, the probability of sperm getting where they want to get isn't exactly zero, isn't it?
It is with secondary shield
Laura It is with secondary shield
Sure, but given what I know about this from my sister's belt, it's still a piece of perforated metal and ejaculate is a liquid. I'm not saying that it's actual that probable or anything, but as we say in Germany "Man hat schon Pferde vor der Apotheke kotzen sehen".
(not seriously trying to make a point here, just a bit of banter)
Lukas It would probably end up being a huge effort to impregnate someone through/around a chastity belt. I reckon the chance that a condom breaks is going to be higher than enough sperm making its way into her body to have a realistic chance of getting her pregnant unless you are literally collecting the seed in a syringe and squeezing it through the shield or something. Like sure, with enough effort and a sufficiently virile man you could probably engineer a pregnancy, but I would think those who consent to wearing a belt also do not want to get pregnant in the first place.
youdontknowme As I said, not trying to actually make a point, just joking around a little. 
Lukas In that case, the better contraception is to lock up both partners in chastity, which will make it harder to gather enough sperm to overwhelm the defenses of her belt.
Sabina Because I wanted to be able not to worry about whether someone noticed my belt or not.
I understand what you wanted. But why did you think you mom might unlock your belt?
Because you found it reasonable, your mom didn't. And you were wrong.
Sabina What kind of keyholder would agree to all the wearer's requests...
Nobody 
And neither your dating concerns. Maybe we can continue in Dating while in chastity?
Renita But why did you think you mom might unlock your belt?
The first time I decided it was worth a try. Then I tested to see if she changed her mind until she threatened me with punishment for repeating the same questions 
Renita Maybe we can continue in Dating while in chastity?
Of course
