• PollFemale
  • just for fun and interest, should i wear a belt after after the wedding?

Sasha Now that I'm in the full chastity gear set, almost wondering what people would say about me after marriage

That depends on how you've developed and whether you're sure you won't fall back into old habits. Then I would congratulate you on what you have achieved and that you are happy in your marriage. I assume that you have found the right man who gives you what you need to be happy.

Sasha almost wondering what people would say about me after marriage lol.

You wear the belt for a specific reason that is not related to any specific views on the morality of masturbation. Unless your future spouse is planning to continue your remedial education (and I feel like you should only marry after you believe you can handle independence), the belt, if it were used, would fulfill a different purpose than it does now.

I always feel as if it is a waste for someone who already has the experience and training for long-term wear to turn their back on chastity completely, but you and your spouse would have to define any new use - and you should probably also spend some unbelted time between being belted for disciplinary/educational reasons and being belted for... ahem... marital reasons, just to put a clear dividing line between those uses.

    youdontknowme I always feel as if it is a waste for someone who already has the experience and training for long-term wear to turn their back on chastity completely

    As a totally personal opinion, for me it sounds like "after so many years of training to be in jail it's a waste to turn back to it. Even if free you can add some bars to your house..."
    Personal idea NOT applied to @Sasha

      Milord I believe that chastity can be a wonderful thing (but one that requires a lot of practice before you can turn it into a lifestyle thing), and with regular releases it would be a very different experience from the one she has right now. To my naΓ―ve mind, it would be more like wearing orange or striped clothes after a jail sentence, rather than voluntary house arrest.

      But ultimately it is something she has to decide for herself.

      Sasha
      Well, that is up to you.
      How do you want your future to be?
      Do you want to continue being belted (if so, how strictly)? What do you expect from your husband, etc?

      Sasha Now that I'm in the full chastity gear set, almost wondering what people would say about me after marriage lol.
      Hope its going well for you @Angelina

      I'm fine thanks and I don't feel the need to wear the belt again yet. As for you, it would probably depend a lot on what you want after your wedding and how your husband would act as key holder πŸ™‚
      and don't take this too seriously, I created this thread because a few users asked and I still find it very funny that the majority are for yes πŸ˜‚

        MissBlossom Yet? lol

        i think i've said a few times that i generally never rule anything out in life πŸ˜‰

        Laura Even for your wife? πŸ˜‚

        i don't understand the question, should my wife wear a belt or are you asking if she wants me to wear one?

          Angelina should my wife wear a belt or are you asking if she wants me to wear one?

          If you want her to wear one

            Laura If you want her to wear one

            no, there is no reason for that

            • Joh replied to this.

              Saintprudence
              Yes but I couldn't help but ask her.
              I took into account her statement that she describes herself as submissive in her relationship rather than dominant.

                Angelina i think i've said a few times that i generally never rule anything out in life πŸ˜‰

                Heels for Christmas then, dah-ling? πŸ˜‰

                  Joh Not even you yourself as a sign to your wife that you belong to her? πŸ˜‰ 🀣

                  for this we wear wedding rings πŸ˜‰

                  Joh I took into account her statement that she describes herself as submissive in her relationship rather than dominant.

                  uhh? i have never described myself as submissive in the relationship, my wife and i have always been equals right

                  James Heels for Christmas then, dah-ling? πŸ˜‰

                  only if the christmas punch was too strong πŸ˜‚

                  • Joh replied to this.

                    Angelina uhh? i have never described myself as submissive in the relationship, my wife and i have always been equals right

                    I I find the time I will search your comment.

                    Angelina uhh? i have never described myself as submissive in the relationship, my wife and i have always been equals right

                    James Heels for Christmas then, dah-ling? πŸ˜‰

                    I found it but I remembered it wrong.

                    Angelina in the family relationship with my father i am rather submissive while in the relationship with my girlfriend i am rather the somewhat dominant part (but only a little πŸ˜‰

                    I mixed it with your father.