As I said in the other thread just now, I think it would be a great opportunity to give the belt another try, but not as a continuation of yourr previous arrangement, but as something completely new. Being locked by your lover should not be the same as being locked away from your lover.
just for fun and interest, should i wear a belt after after the wedding?
Chastity should always be about saving yourself for your partner... before marriage and after!! So, just in fun, I'm going to vote yes!!
Angelina Since you are already comfortable wearing it, I think it might be worth seeing how it felt to continue but with Camryn holding your keys. @Tere @Foxies @Yolanda @MissBlossom and others seem to feel it adds to their relationships with their partners and perhaps it will for you as well. If not then, feel free to retire it knowing that it served its purpose well
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I think you should take a good long break and give your poor brain some normal living before you decide whether to try it.
And don't think of it as doing chastity "again." It should be a completely new and different experience, entered consensually and under terms that serve your needs and desires and under a keyholder who always prioritizes your well-being over some demented ideal of security.
If you do try it, I think you should leave the door open for stopping or taking a break without any negative consequences, such as with a safeword, and you should only continue it long term if it is improving your happiness. It should serve you, not the other way around.
I would also suggest that you take a more relaxed approach to things like travel, doctors appointments, or swimming. Unless you have a diaper fetish (and no judgement towards those who do), just fly without the belt and use the bathroom if you need to.
And if you do try it out, and it gives you PTSD flashbacks and makes you miserable, give it up and don't look back.
For me, the answer is simple: if you're going to enjoy wearing a belt in your marriage, wear it. If you've had enough of it, then give it a rest.
My-steel belts make excellent flower pot holders for your terrace. Give your belt a break, and should you get sentimental for it in a few years, or the flower dies, you can always see if it still fits..
In my opinion, if you will be happy wear it, do it, you decide the regime, if not, never use it again.
Further this, in the poll I answered affirmatively: this a chastity belt forum!
Up to the wife.
Dear Angelina,
Does the result has impact to Your future?
Would wearing chastity belt and letting your wife hold a key would make you happy?
If the answer is yes, it would be okay.
Otherwise it shouldn't be used.
Martin Does the result has impact to Your future?
current no, that's why I used the humor tag
thank you very much for your answers. i think it's the nature of the forum that many have answered yes, as i said i just wanted to see how the forum thinks about it. currently i enjoy my freedom (more about this in detail in the other thread) and hope that the topic belt is history for me for now
Angelina and hope that the topic belt is history for me for now
"For now" means that there is still hope. But yeah, it might be a good idea to make sure the memory of involuntary wear is firmly in the past before finding a new purpose for the belt as more than an extravagant piece of decoration.
youdontknowme "For now" means that there is still hope.
it could also happen that i will become federal chancellor at some point, so i basically never rule anything out
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Angelina Now I imagine a chancellor wearing a chastity belt. And honestly, neither Merkel nor Scholz are people I want to imagine in any state of dress where the belt would be visible.
Almost want to make a pole like this for myself, but to afraid lol.
Happy you now have control of your keys, or your wife does? Either way itβs wonderful
Sabina Yeah, just assume that half to two-thirds of users are going to say "stay belted no matter what" just on general principle .
Saintprudence I suspect so.
Saintprudence Lol. There's lots of reasons to keep on wearing!
Eg...Chastity belts are also good for controlling your weight!! (Not that @Angelina could ever be tempted by chocolate or cake!).