just for fun and interest, should i wear a belt after after the wedding?

Angelina

youdontknowme Maybe you are sparking something in her. Never took you for the sub in the relationship before.

i'm not either, because of my upbringing i was always the slightly more dominant one in our relationship/marriage, but i think it can't hurt either of us to take the other position from time to time 😃

Padre Is it a Chinese bra because you can adjust it? Great you can and will wear it.

I meant the chains that hold the bra, there are locks at the back that we have adjusted slightly

Sasha Please let us know how things go and evolve.

well, it's the fourth day now and last night i was really aroused for the first time, i really wanted an orgasm when i was lying in bed with my wife. the fact that she was lying underneath me, having an orgasm and i always had the necklace with the keys in view didn't help either.
i asked her (of course in the game and to test her somehow) if she would open my belt, clear no! then i asked if she would at least open the bra, also here clear no! she said ‘you will only get this pleasure again in november, until then no orgasms, never’.
somehow it arouses me, it is also interesting to see my wife so dominant, still loving of course.
later my arousal was gone and my wife was happily satisfied, i think the whole thing is a lot of fun at the moment and offers new facets both for our marriage and for my views to the belt.
I will gladly inform you further 😃

youdontknowme

Angelina but i think it can't hurt either of us to take the other position from time to time 😃

Angelina somehow it arouses me, it is also interesting to see my wife so dominant, still loving of course.

Angelina i think the whole thing is a lot of fun at the moment and offers new facets both for our marriage and for my views to the belt.

Sounds lovely. Glad you could experience this new perspective.

Padre

Angelina
Sounds as a wonderful and great experience. You now start to appreciate your gear more than before. Maybe you don't want to end it when this month is over.

Sasha

Angelina Sounds like you’ve both discovered an unexpectedly fun dynamic regarding your chastity.

Milord

Angelina Very well done! You should be proud of yourself

Angelina

Padre Maybe you don't want to end it when this month is over.

after october is the end, at least for now, we'll see what comes after that

Maija you could ask your wife to add thighbands for the last days of the challenge haha

youdontknowme And handcuffs for the last night while we're at it...

i could do a poll here, but i think i know what the result will be 😂

Short update:
day 8, i admit i'm starting to want an orgasm very much, but my key holder is very strict about it, when i shower she makes sure i don't touch myself until i'm locked in my belt and bra again. otherwise everything is going well, except that it drives me crazy to see the keys around her neck all day long 😂
as @Spork suggested we are currently considering small punishments when I ask for a release, do you have any ideas? 😉

Maija

Angelina you could ask your wife to add thighbands for the last days of the challenge haha

youdontknowme

Maija And handcuffs for the last night while we're at it...

Owl

Maija you could ask your wife to add thighbands for the last days of the challenge haha

😁 👍️

You know, Angelina, ...

Angelina 24/7 chastity, no sex, no masturbation for me, but I can (and should) give my wife regular orgasms
i wear the belt and, if possible, also the bra, NO THIGHBANDS!!!! We have now decided to use the bra because we want to avoid selftouching [...]

... this ALL CAPS WITH 4 EXCLAMATION MARKS really hands it on a plate to call for your personal Locktober "boss fight"!!!! ;-)

PS: Just as my my sadistic part hopes that Ines (long shall she reign!) finally takes on the Bra Boss. At least for some days. 🎶 "Wake me up, when Locktober ends ..." 🎵

Milord

youdontknowme

@Maija is a good and chaste girl and will never think about this kinky stuff.

Spork

Angelina i asked her (of course in the game and to test her somehow) if she would open my belt, clear no! then i asked if she would at least open the bra, also here clear no! she said ‘you will only get this pleasure again in november, until then no orgasms, never’.
somehow it arouses me, it is also interesting to see my wife so dominant, still loving of course.

Oooh, good for her. If you're not careful she might start adding punishments for every time you ask to get out.

Damien

Angelina can a spanking among lovers even be considered punishment?

youdontknowme

Angelina An hour in the bands. Doubling each time you ask again on the same day.

Kaja

Angelina genital spanking? Brest punishment (like clamps)?

Padre

Angelina we are currently considering small punishments when I ask for a release, do you have any ideas?

Add thighbands. Spend the night in them or longer if needed. You hate them so that's a punishment 🤣
Do you also have a block piece for the bands?

Of course there will be a risk you will start liking the bands also 😆

Angelina

Damien can a spanking among lovers even be considered punishment?

I don't know, but it's completely out of the question because of my personal convictions

youdontknowme An hour in the bands. Doubling each time you ask again on the same day.

i knew someone would mention the bands, at least it might make me think twice about asking for a realease, we will talk about it 😉

Milord

Angelina In a relationship like your punishement should be a light and teasing moment ("funishment").

Writing 20 times "Good girls don't ask for release"
Having to cook something very enjoyable for her and serve her as a waitress
Prohibition to use letters while using whatsapp and messenger (only emoji allowed)
Obey every order for a set amount of time (good to try some Ds scenario)
Stay tied on the sofa while you see together a movie she likes a lot (My wife asked for whipping instead of seeing "Interstellar" 🙂
Do some domestic chores in a very slow way (like cleaning kitchen with toothbrush)
Tickling (old but gold!)

Just for start. Feel free to ask for more.

youdontknowme

Angelina i knew someone would mention the bands, at least it might make me think twice about asking for a realease, we will talk about it 😉

That is the idea. Something you know you can emdure, but very much do not want to. Perfect punishment to discourage bad behavior.

Angelina

Kaja genital spanking? Brest punishment (like clamps)?

no, such methods are not our style

Milord Writing 20 times "Good girls don't ask for release"

youdontknowme That is the idea. Something you know you can emdure, but very much do not want to. Perfect punishment to discourage bad behavior.

Padre Add thighbands. Spend the night in them or longer if needed.

ok, so my wife and i have now agreed on a mixture. if i ask for a release (and my wife determines what she feels as such), then i have to write 100 times ‘a good chaste girl does not ask for release, but respects the decision of the key holder’. I think that will keep me busy for an hour or two. during this time I also have to wear the thighbands (with chain through all D-rings, including the crotch).
i'm starting to wonder if i'm not going too far, i'll definitely watch my words, but i wanted to know 😃

WriterAlexis

Milord

My wife asked for whipping instead of seeing "Interstellar"

Taking "Do not go gentle into that good night" a bit literally.

Milord

WriterAlexis Interstellar. I mean....

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