Angelina we are currently considering small punishments when I ask for a release, do you have any ideas?
If you're not into pain stuff, your options can include behaviour restrictions, tying, or humiliation. Your least favourite thigh bands, for example, can both be a behaviour restriction and tying. Writing lines is a good one, particularly if you're made to dress up for it to further get you turned on. Another good punishment for asking for things is to be gagged for a while, or to have to wear a butt plug. Ideally here you're looking for something that's enough of a deterrent to correct your behaviour, but not so terrible that it will damage you or be on your hard no list. For me, I mostly find pain funny rather than scary, and I don't mind being tied up for a while, so humiliation is most effective: sometimes my other half will put me in nappies, which I really don't enjoy, particularly since they can be worn in public.