just for fun and interest, should i wear a belt after after the wedding?

Kaja

Angelina Some edging? Using sex toy or hand/mouth? sex toy under your belt to grow up your arousal and frustration?

Angelina

Kaja genital spanking? Brest punishment (like clamps)?

no, such methods are not our style

Milord Writing 20 times "Good girls don't ask for release"

youdontknowme That is the idea. Something you know you can emdure, but very much do not want to. Perfect punishment to discourage bad behavior.

Padre Add thighbands. Spend the night in them or longer if needed.

ok, so my wife and i have now agreed on a mixture. if i ask for a release (and my wife determines what she feels as such), then i have to write 100 times ‘a good chaste girl does not ask for release, but respects the decision of the key holder’. I think that will keep me busy for an hour or two. during this time I also have to wear the thighbands (with chain through all D-rings, including the crotch).
i'm starting to wonder if i'm not going too far, i'll definitely watch my words, but i wanted to know 😃

Spork

Angelina i have to write 100 times ‘a good chaste girl does not ask for release, but respects the decision of the key holder’.

What happens if you get bratty half way through and change the lines you're writing to something unauthorised? 😆

youdontknowme

Spork I would think the bands only come off if 100 proper lines are submitted for every rebellious outburst that came before

pestulens

Spork at what point dose this conversation just turn into writing fan fiction about real people?

Angelina

Spork What happens if you get bratty half way through and change the lines you're writing to something unauthorised? 😆

then i'll be sitting at the desk with the bands for much longer 😂

youdontknowme I would think the bands only come off if 100 proper lines are submitted for every rebellious outburst that came before

That's exactly how it is

youdontknowme Finding things to do with the belt now that the original purpose, maintaining virginity until marriage, has been fulfilled?

you also hit the nail on the head here and don't take the whole thing too seriously, i just want to try out a few unusual things and see how it affects me, my wife and our marriage. that's why it's only for october, it's supposed to be a temporary experiment 😃

WriterAlexis

pestulens

Several days ago?

Maija

pestulens you don't have to participate

youdontknowme

pestulens I mean, is that not the very premise of this entire thread? Finding things to do with the belt now that the original purpose, maintaining virginity until marriage, has been fulfilled?

Owl

pestulens

Maybe we didn't understand the question. Are you worried about general veracity of the events? Or hinting that we are about to spoil Angelina's thread with our tweaks?

pestulens

Owl It was mostly just a joke about how the speculation seemed to be getting a bit out of hand. In retrospect, I guess it came off a bit more confrontational than I intended.

Padre

Angelina it's supposed to be a temporary experiment 😃

Looks like it is a great success already. 😄
Everything is included, belt, bra, and even the bands. It makes you a better person 😃

Tjc

Angelina I am glad that the two of you are having fun with this and also, maybe, learning something about yourselves.

Angelina

Padre Everything is included, belt, bra, and even the bands. It makes you a better person 😃

am i not a good person? (irony) and the bands are not used yet, i can keep quiet if i have to 😅

Sasha but shorter times between releases seems like something you both might be into. Seems that way at least

nothing is currently planned after october as far as the belt is concerned, never say never but i think i need a normal sex life again for now

Sasha

Sounds like you’re both getting into it, and possibly establishing what could be a fun dynamic in the relationship.
Doubt you continue wearing it a month at a time, but shorter times between releases seems like something you both might be into. Seems that way at least

Sasha

Angelina Given your experience with the belt and her apparent willingness, could keep you locked with daily releases after you’ve pleased her. Or something like that.
Not pushing, just an thought that came to mind

Milord

Tjc what a lot of people miss is that bdsm is a great journey of self discovery and self awareness. I find very beautiful to hear this from @Angelina

Angelina

Sasha Not pushing, just an thought that came to mind

no problem, i will ‘analyse’ everything in detail after october 😉

Conrad If it was me I would probably have some hard feelings associated with that experience and want to spend a long time out of the belt to let it all go.

well, i got married and didn't wear the belt for a year and led a normal sex life. now i want to give the whole issue a different angle and try to find a different (more positive) connotation to the belt

Conrad

The reason I voted no is because I thought you were pressured into wearing a belt in the first place. If it was me I would probably have some hard feelings associated with that experience and want to spend a long time out of the belt to let it all go.

Padre

Angelina no problem, i will ‘analyse’ everything in detail after october 😉

Maybe create a new poll for it so we all can help you decide 😆

Joh

Angelina It is great how you both find a new point of view of your belt.
As a punishment you could also get corner time during which you have to think about a given topic. If the result is not sufficient you repeat the time.

Angelina

Padre Maybe create a new poll for it so we all can help you decide 😆

i'd better leave it (i'm afraid of the result 😂 )

Joh As a punishment you could also get corner time during which you have to think about a given topic. If the result is not sufficient you repeat the time.

is certainly an idea

Update:
I'm halfway there, I admit it's not easy, especially because my wife gets a kick out of teasing me when we lie in bed together and I give her orgasms, but she should have her fun too. tonight it's that time again and I've prepared the gel packs, I'm curious to see if that works to ease my arousal a bit 😃

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