just for fun and interest, should i wear a belt after after the wedding?

Joh

I suspected that you would do it sooner or later. Not because I think you secretly want to wear one, but because you want to give yourself a new perspective.

This is an opportunity for both of you to combine it with something positive. I wish you good luck and lots of fun.

Angelina

Milord Basically you need to be convinced to stay in.

i'm afraid my wife is not the type for that, i think i would have to decide the rules myself at the beginning and she has to enforce them on my instructions, but thanks for the idea

Sasha Look forward to see what you decide, if you’ll want the accessories and why, etc

I have not yet tested whether the bands and the bra still fit, one step at a time 😉

Joh but because you want to give yourself a new perspective.

right, i read a lot of experiences here from others that sound very different from my own, i would like to know if it is possible to perceive wearing the belt as something positive

Update:

There is no decision yet, but my wife and I are considering a 48-hour test next weekend, from Friday evening to Sunday evening. More details have not yet been decided, but I will keep you informed 🙂

Kaja

Angelina She has to wear one too!

Spork

I will say that using chastity in a relationship can be very enjoyable for both partners, and can make intimacy even more fun.

Angelina There is no decision yet, but my wife and I are considering a 48-hour test next weekend, from Friday evening to Sunday evening. More details have not yet been decided, but I will keep you informed 🙂

Good luck. I hope this goes well for you, and that your wife makes the very best of having you belted before she gives you your reward at the end.

Angelina

Kaja She has to wear one too!

but she doesn't have a belt any more 😂

Spork Good luck. I hope this goes well for you, and that your wife makes the very best of having you belted before she gives you your reward at the end.

ok, let's give it a chance. next weekend for 48 hours, i'm excited to get a new perspective 😉

Spork

Angelina Good luck. I hope your wife has a lot of fun for those 48h, and then you have more fun afterwards.

Sasha

Angelina I’m sure with her love and attention you’ll indeed get a new positive perspective. And I’m sure the “after party” will be fun too

Angelina

Spork

thank you, we will definitely have it 😉

Sasha

I hope so, of course I don't know what will happen afterwards, but it's worth a test

Joh

Angelina I I hope you enjoy it. I'm very excited to see what it will be like for you and hope you'll share it with us.

Angelina

Joh and hope you'll share it with us.

Of course, I'm happy to do it 🙂

Damien How did the padlock closing sound feel to your ears @Angelina ?

I'm not surprised that you're so interested in this 😉

Update:
i've been back in the belt for almost 24 hours now. last night was very emotionally challenging for me, it's just that i still see the belt as my father's educational tool, it wasn't easy to put it back on, but i wanted to know now, i want to know how it feels when my wife gets the keys.
At the moment it feels a bit strange to have this thing down there again after such a long time, I mean physically. Sleeping was a bit difficult, it was unusual. Mentally it is not as difficult as I thought, so I don't feel completely locked up now or under control of my father again, but I don't see that I can develop a new love for the belt either, we'll see how it goes tomorrow evening.

Damien

How did the padlock closing sound feel to your ears @Angelina ?

Milord

Angelina well... Different purposes have different outcomes. Up to you of course.

youdontknowme

Angelina I sure hope that even if you do not go back to wearing the belt on a regular basis, the experience of having your wife in charge of the keys will allow you to see less of your father's grasp in the belt.

Greatcornbow

Angelina i've been back in the belt for almost 24 hours now. last night was very emotionally challenging for me, it's just that i still see the belt as my father's educational tool, it wasn't easy to put it back on, but i wanted to know now, i want to know how it feels when my wife gets the keys.

Only one way to find out. Go for iit!!!

Sasha

Angelina Hopefully the initial shock and bad memories wears off quickly and this becomes a positive and loving experience for you.
And if not at least you know now

James

Sasha Hopefully the initial shock and bad memories wears off quickly and this becomes a positive and loving experience for you.
And if not at least you know now

@Sasha Plot Twist Upcoming: @Angelina's wife offers her a fateful choice - a night of dinner and dancing in heels at Neuschwanstein Castle or a lifetime in the belt, eh @Angelina? @.@

Angelina

James a night of dinner and dancing in heels at Neuschwanstein Castle or a lifetime in the belt, eh @Angelina? @.@

i'll take the dinner, at least it's only for one evening, but only if someone covers the costs for my foot operation afterwards 😉

youdontknowme Kaja's choice whether she wears the belt because teasing is fun, or because she needs to learn not to be greedy for pleasure. As long as she wears 😛

i admit i would like to see kaja wear a belt without orgasms for a while. maybe we should do a polls just for fun, but beware! It can quickly become serious 😉

Update:
thanks again for all your nice comments 🙂
my 48 hours are now over since yesterday evening. it was quite interesting how my wife tried to get me hot for the evening all sunday long and she was successful. the last few hours were a bit frustrating, but it was fun.
the belt will now be put aside for the time being. i don't know what i'm going to do with it in the future. it was a first small test and maybe more (even longer ones) will follow, but maybe not. i didn't develop a great love for the belt, but it didn't feel like it did with my father.

Kaja

Angelina Try it with some toy, you can use plenty of them. Plug, ben wa balls, egg, buttpllug, ...
It will be feel different and it will be more fun.

Spork

Kaja Try it with some toy, you can use plenty of them. Plug, ben wa balls, egg, buttpllug, ...
It will be feel different and it will be more fun.

Hah, I'm not sure fun is the right word. Depends upon how big the toys are, how long you have to keep them in for, and what happens afterwards. They can be fun, they can be incredibly frustrating, or they can be torture.

Milord

Spork managed by someone that loves you it will never be a torture.

Kaja

Spork I know. I have some experience with buttplug, egg and balls for longer wearing (and some at public too).
Im just missing only the chastity belt.

youdontknowme

Kaja that list sounds like you desperately need one 😈

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