just for fun and interest, should i wear a belt after after the wedding?

Sasha

Angelina Hopefully the initial shock and bad memories wears off quickly and this becomes a positive and loving experience for you.
And if not at least you know now

James

Sasha Hopefully the initial shock and bad memories wears off quickly and this becomes a positive and loving experience for you.
And if not at least you know now

@Sasha Plot Twist Upcoming: @Angelina's wife offers her a fateful choice - a night of dinner and dancing in heels at Neuschwanstein Castle or a lifetime in the belt, eh @Angelina? @.@

Angelina

James a night of dinner and dancing in heels at Neuschwanstein Castle or a lifetime in the belt, eh @Angelina? @.@

i'll take the dinner, at least it's only for one evening, but only if someone covers the costs for my foot operation afterwards 😉

youdontknowme Kaja's choice whether she wears the belt because teasing is fun, or because she needs to learn not to be greedy for pleasure. As long as she wears 😛

i admit i would like to see kaja wear a belt without orgasms for a while. maybe we should do a polls just for fun, but beware! It can quickly become serious 😉

Update:
thanks again for all your nice comments 🙂
my 48 hours are now over since yesterday evening. it was quite interesting how my wife tried to get me hot for the evening all sunday long and she was successful. the last few hours were a bit frustrating, but it was fun.
the belt will now be put aside for the time being. i don't know what i'm going to do with it in the future. it was a first small test and maybe more (even longer ones) will follow, but maybe not. i didn't develop a great love for the belt, but it didn't feel like it did with my father.

Kaja

Angelina Try it with some toy, you can use plenty of them. Plug, ben wa balls, egg, buttpllug, ...
It will be feel different and it will be more fun.

Spork

Kaja Try it with some toy, you can use plenty of them. Plug, ben wa balls, egg, buttpllug, ...
It will be feel different and it will be more fun.

Hah, I'm not sure fun is the right word. Depends upon how big the toys are, how long you have to keep them in for, and what happens afterwards. They can be fun, they can be incredibly frustrating, or they can be torture.

Milord

Spork managed by someone that loves you it will never be a torture.

Kaja

Spork I know. I have some experience with buttplug, egg and balls for longer wearing (and some at public too).
Im just missing only the chastity belt.

youdontknowme

Kaja that list sounds like you desperately need one 😈

Milord

youdontknowme

@Kaja its a game changer, you will love it even when you will hate it.

youdontknowme

Milord Kaja's choice whether she wears the belt because teasing is fun, or because she needs to learn not to be greedy for pleasure. As long as she wears 😛

JonesMacGyver

Angelina Wearing a belt with a married key-holder is very fun for us! Work into it gradually. It will be easier to get into it; however, it will take a little time to develop routines. Talk with your partner, and develop rules together. It will get interesting. I think the best thing for YOU is to stage "Emergency" keys that are available to you. Define what emergency means (pain, issues, doctor's appt and so on) and live life and have fun.

After you are back in, you could then suggest a belt for your partner. Mine declined with good reasons (and is what I expected.)

youdontknowme

Angelina but it didn't feel like it did with my father.

And that is the most important thing.

Milord

Angelina
Well done. You should be proud of yourself.

Spork

Angelina my 48 hours are now over since yesterday evening. it was quite interesting how my wife tried to get me hot for the evening all sunday long and she was successful. the last few hours were a bit frustrating, but it was fun.

Maybe you could try some "tie and tease" type stuff, without the belt?

Sasha

Angelina Sounds like this was an overall mostly positive experience for you.
Take your time with it, and see what feels right in the future

Damien

Thank you for going through with the experiment @Angelina! So, maybe @Kaja shares your size?

Angelina

Damien Thank you for going through with the experiment @Angelina! So, maybe @Kaja shares your size?

I don't think so, I'm very small and thin 😂

Spork Maybe you could try some "tie and tease" type stuff, without the belt?

How do you think we haven't been doing this for a long time? But that's not material for the forum 😉

Greatcornbow

Angelina

Why not have your partner decide for you?

Angelina

Greatcornbow Why not have your partner decide for you?

because she's not the type, she's not really a key holder type (not strict enough). However, I have a few ideas in my head, but I don't know whether I'll realise them yet

Angelina

OK, I've received a few messages via email and discord about what I meant with my hints here, so a short statement.

I'm currently considering taking part in "locktober" and being locked in chastity for the month of October. I want to know what it feels like over a longer period of time without force and I want to test whether Jenna's gel packs are a good idea despite her fake status.

Nothing has been decided, I'll keep you updated 🙂

Max9

Angelina what gel pads?

Spork

Angelina I'm currently considering taking part in "locktober" and being locked in chastity for the month of October.

I hope you go ahead with it, and enjoy it. Me and my other half are both doing it as well, we have plans for all kinds of fun.

Maija

Angelina what kind of rules are you considering? And what kind of equipment usage?

Tjc

Angelina I'm currently considering taking part in "locktober" and being locked in chastity for the month of October

I think this is an interesting development. Keys help by your partner for a longer term will certainly be different than keys help by your father. You are a good, thoughtful writer. I hope you will be able to share your feelings about the difference with us here.
There seems to be a lot more interest in "Locktober" this year. It has been a thing in the kink community for awhile but I have seen veiled mentions in other social media this year. Every month is mostly loctober for me but I/we have been considering being more publicly accountable this year.

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