Introductions

Laura

Dalila because she did not have a modern belt.

What kind of belt did she have?

Dalila

Laura Hello Laura. It was made of leather and it was not practical. She only wore it when she went out. She no longer has it.

Joh Hi Joh. Normally once or twice each month. I assume that everyone here is also wearing a belt. Do some people not get releases? That would be difficult.

Joh

Dalila Yes. At certain times.

How often do you have time for yourself?
Take care that it will not change. To have the possibility to do so is very important for your development.

Joh

Dalila Normally once or twice each month.

This is something but not much. I am older than you and I would expect min. 2 times per week would be good. You are younger and in development. You should get more time for yourself.

Dalila I assume that everyone here is also wearing a belt.

Oh no. I do not wear one and will definitely not wear one.
We have several members who are interested in CB for different reasons. For their partner or children.
What I want to make clear is that as long as the decision to wear it is based on a really free basis and the consequences are really understood, then it's fine. Otherwise I am against it!

Angelina

Dalila Im do not know what you mean with "see it exactly like that". But I can tell you right now that understand the arguments.

you understand the arguments, but do you agree with the arguments? there is a big difference and that is what i meant when i asked. "see it exactly like that?"

Dalila I assume that everyone here is also wearing a belt. Do some people not get releases? That would be difficult.

for one thing, not everyone here wears a belt and for another, there are wearers (like me) who have no breaks. and yes it is extremely difficult

Vanessa

Dalila understand the arguments.

But,even if you understand the arguments your parents have,do you agree?

Dalila It was made of leather and it was not practical.

Not wearable for everyday life,it seems.

Angelina there are wearers (like me) who have no breaks.

Like me too.

Angelina yes it is extremely difficult

I confirm...🙁

Dalila

Angelina Vanessa I believe that I understand the arguments and I have agreed. My opinion is that it is a trade. I lose some personal freedom but I gain control over my life.

Angelina Vanessa It must be very hard having no breaks. Why do you not have them? and how do you manage?

Renita Yes they restrict it, but it is not totally forbidden.

Renita

Dalila No, some families restrict.

How about yours?

kat_anders

Vanessa no breaks for me too

Renita

Dalila Yes they restrict it, but it is not totally forbidden.

Would they unlock your belt for it if you ask?

Angelina

Dalila but I gain control over my life.

how exactly do you mean that. what control would you lose if you did not wear the belt?

Dalila It must be very hard having no breaks. Why do you not have them? and how do you manage?

it's hard and for me it's just because my father wants it. managing is a difficult word, i would say if you don't have the key like me, you have no other choice 🙁

ZeynepFox

welcome to the forum and thank you for the very warm welcome 🙂

i understand the idea, but the question would be for what period. you have a partner and you want to get married, so the question for me is when and if you should wear the belt also after your wedding ?

Vanessa

Dalila I understand the arguments and I have agreed

So it seems voluntary wearing.

Dalila It must be very hard having no breaks.

Sure!

Dalila Why do you not have them?

Parents' decision,I'm not allowed to masturbate.

Dalila how do you manage?

It's very hard!

ZeynepFox

Welcome!

Willingly wearer?

ZeynepFox I think I may also get spanked at least sometimes.

Do you agree with it,too?

Dalila

ZeynepFox Hello. Warm greetings to you as well. How do you plan to learn to wear the belt. I do not think you can immediatly start wearing it 24/7.

Renita Would they unlock your belt for it if you ask?

No, but I that is part of what I agreed to.

Angelina how exactly do you mean that. what control would you lose if you did not wear the belt?

I feel proud that I can learn to wear it and live with it. I feel like I have chosen the path of moderation with my body as it matures which will prevent me from going astray. Sometimes it is hard and frustrating, but it is making me stronger.

ZeynepFox

Hello dear friends,

I am Zeynep, a 19 years old girl from Germany and an office clerk in a big hospital in Wiesbaden.

First of all, I want to say hello to everyone and send you many warm hugs. 😊

My spouse and I want to marry within the next years and his family has agreed under the condition of getting shown my respect for traditional chastity (a big issue in Islam). So they want me to wear a chastity belt and to give them the keys after getting used to it.

I will soon call Petra from My-Steel and ask for an appointment. It seems that a My-Steel Total with a metal wire may be suitable for me. 😊

Many kisses - Zeynep 🤗

ZeynepFox

Angelina My fiancé and I have talked a lot about wearing the belt after marriage. According to Islamic ethics, women should be submissive and always focus on the sexual desires of their husbands. I will also be obligated to let my husband enjoy my body whenever he wants. This way of life will certainly be supported by 24/7 chastity. So I will definitely continue wearing it after marriage. 😊

James

ZeynepFox Apart from the belt, what other discipline etc is expected?

Angelina

ZeynepFox

i wrote something about this in another thread. would that mean you can't have orgasms at all? or only if you were trying to have children?

ZeynepFox

James Our marriage will hopefully be based on love and respect. So I do not want to use the word punishment. However, generally, Islamic education for females also includes spanking - without harming the body of course.

Usually, this is done as an over the knee spanking on the bare bottom. I think I may also get spanked at least sometimes.

Avery

ZeynepFox generally, Islamic education for females also includes spanking

Well, that would make school more fun

James

ZeynepFox Indeed; have they discussed the thighbands or bra as well?

Joh

ZeynepFox Our marriage will hopefully be based on love and respect. So I do not want to use the word punishment. However, generally, Islamic education for females also includes spanking - without harming the body of course.

Usually, this is done as an over the knee spanking on the bare bottom. I think I may also get spanked at least sometimes.

From your posting it sounds like it is ok for you and you accept it.
What will happen if you can't accept something at his rules and behaviour? Do you have regular conversations where you can express your views? Does he consider your point of view?

ZeynepFox

Joh What will happen if you can't accept something at his rules and behaviour? Do you have regular conversations where you can express your views? Does he consider your point of view?

Communication and understanding is important to us. We express our views and respect each other. In case of having different views, I submit and obey, but he always considers my point of view. The spankings should not be seen as punishment, but rather a help for female personality development. There is also a special level of intimacy, when I lay on his knees and his hand goes down on my bare bottom. I enjoy it. 😊

ZeynepFox

Vanessa Willingly wearer?

I will soon meet Petra Möbus in Eppertshausen and get a My-Steel Total. 😊 I will voluntarily wear it for the family of my fiancé and to stay a good Muslim girl. After the training period, the keys will be given to my mother and my future mother-in-law. Contemporarily, I do not wear a belt, but my mother inspects my hymen each weekend - a Turkish tradition which also helps to stay chaste.

ZeynepFox

Vanessa Willingly wearer?

I believe in female submission and chastity. So I want to become a 24/7 wearer.

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