Should probably have said Hi before I made my first post elsewhere!
I'm interested in chastity as a topic, but I don't wear or know anybody wearing in real life. I guess that's all I can say for now; I'm not sure how long I'll stick around either, I mostly lurk in places like this.
I do want to use this opportunity to thank Ines for her reply to my first post, though - I honestly expected to get banned right away for "trolling", so seeing understanding instead is very nice. I'm aware that I was intruding into a community unbidden.
To make my stance clear: I've got absolutely no issue with consenting adults doing whatever they want to themselves or each other. I know that "consent" is sometimes difficult to define when one party willingly gives up agency (common in a lot of BDSM or adjacent relationships), but that's for the people involved in such a relationship to to discuss and decide. It's sometimes a thin line between mutual enjoyment and actual abuse when "abuse", even playful, is already "part of the deal."
Furthermore, I have absolutely no issue with fantasies, no matter how strange or depraved one might find them. It's not real, it doesn't harm anybody. That's what fantasy is for. I'd much rather see people engaging with their desires thorough fantasies than trying to repress them or acting on them in the real world.
I wasn't aware that there was an ongoing discussion about how the forum should be moderated regarding chastity belt usage on minors; it was just an accident that I brought up similar concerns at the same time. Again, thank you Ines for your reply, and please rest assured that I fully support you choosing a lifestyle which fits for you! ^_^
