Laura, Merry Christmas.

I agree with you. A belt would have kept me safe from making mistakes. I wish my mother had the foresight to realize that. In popular culture, chastity belts are regarded as cruel. Wrong. Cruel is allowing a young girl to plunge headlong down rapids she's not ready to navigate.

    Mary Spending money inappropriately is impossible, since I have no cash and my credit card is set up so he has to approve every transaction.

    Where do your paychecks from work go to?

    Mary I wish my mother had the foresight to realize that

    Me too.

    Mary A belt would have kept me safe from making mistakes. I wish my mother had the foresight to realize that

    I guess, she didn't know about chastity belts for this purpose by that time

    Mary In popular culture, chastity belts are regarded as cruel.

    And something ancient from the Middle Ages

    Mary Cruel is allowing a young girl to plunge headlong down rapids she's not ready to navigate.

    Great, we have one more apologist

    Laura Honestly, can't imagine it

    Especially as they had sex before.

    Laura @BikelockFugitive wouldn't agree πŸ˜ƒ

    🀣

    Mary

    It is very strict.Good if you're happy with it,but I feel it a bit like abuse.You've almost no freedom of any sort...

    Giving birth control pills was pretty wise.Even if not wanting you to have sex soon,it should prevent unwanted pregnancies if you do it.I was supposed to not have sex,even when I dated a boyfriend,but my parents always agreed(and advise me)to take the pill and always have a condom in my bag(even if it should not be used...).

    Angelina

    Oh,yes,I understand it.They may want her to be used to it as soon as possible too,and to not have to take care too much about hiding it at the start(easier in Winter).I wonder if she got it as a gift,as she feared...

    Mary

    I'm not sure you would have liked that much...

      Vanessa
      Thank you for your nice words! We had a bit of a longer talk about the belt and the rules regarding it. We agreed that I should wear it most of the time and that I am allowed to touch myself when I am out of it. And I get time out of it every week for at least 2 hours on a day withouth school. And my Mom said it is a nice side effect that I can't reach myself when I am in it. *rolleyes"

        Amira

        this is very good for you, you have enough breaks and are sometimes allowed to touch yourself πŸ˜ƒ Congratulations that your chastity belt has become a abstinence belt πŸ˜ƒ

          Amira

          hmm I'm still alive too πŸ˜‰

          but you're right it's extremely hard and requires a lot of strength

          Amira And my Mom said it is a nice side effect that I can't reach myself when I am in it. *rolleyes"

          What about hers since she’s such a fan? πŸ˜‰

            Amira Too scared to ask and see what her reply is I guess?

              Ines
              Hm, but it is already pretty hard to wait till the next "opening" I can't imagine how bad it would be to know to not ever can again!

                Amira

                @Ines could do it but does not do it voluntarily πŸ˜‰

                I think it's pretty hard for you because you don't wear the belt for a long time yet, it's still pretty hard for me even after almost a year, so enjoy your current condition πŸ˜‰

                Angelina

                I hope for her she avoided it,but she'll write her again soon!

                Amira

                Oh,very good for you to be allowed to masturbate!πŸ™‚I guess it wasn't an easy subject to discuss,but it seems it was worth it.

                Sure,you'll be frustrated when wanting to orgasm while wearing the belt,but,at least,you could relieve your needs regularly!

                But why do your mother like the side effect of preventing masturbation?

                Amira

                It is hard and awful,but we can do it...

                James

                Right,it would be fair,at least!

                Amira

                Not the right time to ask it,after getting "good" rules!

                Amira

                Yes,it won't be easy to wait until the next opening,the frustration will be hard,but,at least,you don't have to wait too long between two openings.

                  Vanessa

                  i think (and hope) that nothing bad happened at @Lea, i think if she would have gotten a chastity bra or tighbands, she would have already written here πŸ˜‰

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