Laura, Merry Christmas.
I agree with you. A belt would have kept me safe from making mistakes. I wish my mother had the foresight to realize that. In popular culture, chastity belts are regarded as cruel. Wrong. Cruel is allowing a young girl to plunge headlong down rapids she's not ready to navigate.
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Mary A belt would have kept me safe from making mistakes. I wish my mother had the foresight to realize that
I guess, she didn't know about chastity belts for this purpose by that time
Mary In popular culture, chastity belts are regarded as cruel.
And something ancient from the Middle Ages
Mary Cruel is allowing a young girl to plunge headlong down rapids she's not ready to navigate.
Great, we have one more apologist
Laura Honestly, can't imagine it
Especially as they had sex before.
Laura @BikelockFugitive wouldn't agree
It is very strict.Good if you're happy with it,but I feel it a bit like abuse.You've almost no freedom of any sort...
Giving birth control pills was pretty wise.Even if not wanting you to have sex soon,it should prevent unwanted pregnancies if you do it.I was supposed to not have sex,even when I dated a boyfriend,but my parents always agreed(and advise me)to take the pill and always have a condom in my bag(even if it should not be used...).
Oh,yes,I understand it.They may want her to be used to it as soon as possible too,and to not have to take care too much about hiding it at the start(easier in Winter).I wonder if she got it as a gift,as she feared...
I'm not sure you would have liked that much...
Vanessa
Thank you for your nice words! We had a bit of a longer talk about the belt and the rules regarding it. We agreed that I should wear it most of the time and that I am allowed to touch myself when I am out of it. And I get time out of it every week for at least 2 hours on a day withouth school. And my Mom said it is a nice side effect that I can't reach myself when I am in it. *rolleyes"
I hope for her she avoided it,but she'll write her again soon!
Oh,very good for you to be allowed to masturbate!I guess it wasn't an easy subject to discuss,but it seems it was worth it.
Sure,you'll be frustrated when wanting to orgasm while wearing the belt,but,at least,you could relieve your needs regularly!
But why do your mother like the side effect of preventing masturbation?
It is hard and awful,but we can do it...
Right,it would be fair,at least!
Not the right time to ask it,after getting "good" rules!
Yes,it won't be easy to wait until the next opening,the frustration will be hard,but,at least,you don't have to wait too long between two openings.