Sorry for the delay in responses, I just got my Internet privilege back. I will try to answer everything that was asked, and I apologize if I miss anything.
Sara2001 Do you think your can talk with your parents to get at least rid of the tightbands? I can tell you from my own experience that they are extremely limiting. I think your sister already tried to get rid of them, am I right?
It's funny you mention that, I have already tried talking to my parents, and my father is completely against the idea, because he wants to remove any temptation of cheating on the belts purpose. my sister also tried to get rid of them with similar results.
Sara2001 How strict are your parents in other aspects? Do you have to follow strict rules or are they very open minded?
I'm not really sure how to answer these questions. there are just a lot of rules in my house, way more than anyone else in the school I go to for sure, but really that's just how things have always been for me. As for open minded, that really depends on what my suggestion is, and how equivalent it is to the original plan that was presented in terms of end result.
Lea Hi! Are you nervous because of chastity belt?
I am nervous of the chastity belt, for sure. I mean just look at them, they're intimidating to look at, but i'm more nervous about how i'm going to feel when it's been locked on and the realization hits that I can't remove it the first time I really want to. maybe that's dumb or something idk.
Lea What kind of belt do you have?
I don't have it yet, because I know it's coming from overseas and it has to be custom made to order or something like that. I do know that its from a company called My Steel ( or possibly Mysteel?) and it was called like 'total' or something. I also know that my dad ordered something called a secondary shield and thigh bands.
Lea Do you have any sex/masturbation experience?
I can safely say that I have not had sex. I'm just not comfortable answering the other question (sorry)
Vanessa When should it be delivered?
Not sure, My dad just said 'soon enough'.
Vanessa So,you accepted it willingly,and think they're right to make you wear one?Do you accepted it quickly,or do you protested at first?
I accepted it. it was not a quick thing by any means. I protested as much as I could without breaking rules at first. I protested after the initial conversation also when I thought I had some good points to make. That time I said things I wished immediately i could take back and not just because I didn't want to be punished. when the time comes, I won't fight it being put on, but I can't promise anything beyond that to anyone, even myself already knowing that i'm not the kind of girl that can be so restrained as to maintain a lady-like decorum at all times without serious effort in the best of conditions.
Vanessa So,you're expected to wear it until marriage too?Even if you move out before?
wear until marriage is my parent's plan, yes. I hadn't even given thought as to what would happen if i were to move out before that happens, so I have no idea if they'd expect me to remain belted, but if I had to guess i'd say they would expect that.
Vanessa Why not unlocking these during sports and locking the thigh bands again after it?If he monitors you,he could be sure you wouldn't try anything sexual,and,anyway,your chastity belt would prevent you to do it.
that's definitely an idea! i'll see if it can go anywhere.
Vanessa Have you/would you have a dress code?
I don't have a dress code like a hard written one other than my school uniform if that's what you meant. That being said, I have been asked to return items that were determined by my parents to be 'too revealing', so there is some form of loosely interpreted code, but I have never felt too limited by it, even if some stuff gets returned.
Vanessa You talked about dating,would it be more free or more limited?Have they to "approve" your boyfriend/girlfriend?
it will be much more free. they have to approve any boyfriend that is allowed into the house after I'm belted, but i'm free to pick from anyone in the area, and if I think they're good enough to call my boyfriend, then i'll be expected to bring the boy around to the house.
Vanessa About being in control of your body,it makes me wonder if it would be a chastity belt(preventing anything sexual)or an abstinence belt(same belt,but allowed to masturbate)?
Chastity belt. its meant to prevent me from being tempted by 'sins of the flesh' (as my dad refers to it) as much as it is to keep me virginal until my wedding day.
Megan Every person is a little different so this whole put a cheese grater in you shorts mindset to make a quick buck when CB shops go bankrupt and change hand every couple of years has got to stop for those of us who are serious and not looking for toys.
I'm not sure what you mean? but also, thank you for your kind words about clothing.
