Introductions

Max9

It's alright if you give someone the power to punish you for things you are doing wrong. Even if you may not like the punishment for the moment, but you generally understand it and are ok with it. Of course, a punishment still has to be a punishment though.

And it's alright to give someone th power to protect you from doing something you generally wouldn't want to do, but you're trying to in some weak moments.

But it's NOT alright, if someone forces and by that abuses you against your will so you really have to suffer from it. Protection is alright, abusive behavior not.

Angelina

@reflexgnome

how would you rate the general relationship with your parents ? i ask because nobody can really keep you in the belt against your will. this is only possible if the emotional bond to your parents and the general (not only financial) dependency is very high

Vanessa

Angelina this is not possible with the chastity bra anyway

Right.

Angelina exactly what i mean, i always say that talking is very important. maybe @Lea could make a list with her parents in which they write down what is wrong and how it can be improved

It could help,sure..

Tobbe

Yes,if he has enough time,he would find out.

Laura Strange he addresses this question to @Vanessa

Maybe because he knows I'm an admin too,even if I don't use much the admin features.

Angelina but it would be a great pity if you left us

I agree;we must keep our martian troll!😉

Lea Yeah it was the main reason.

Can't you argue it is not possible to dress very sexy anymore with the chastity belt and the chastity bra?

Jengirl

Welcome!

You should wait before considering using chastity belts for them.

Renita Order a chastity belt for yourself and see if it suits.

Good answer!😉

reflexgnome

Welcome too!

reflexgnome

We're at least 2 others here who are still spanked.

And most of us are in chastity belt until marriage.

One of the reasons my parents decided to put me in chastity belt permanently(used as punishment before)is to make me focus more on my studies(and my work,now).

reflexgnome

She should have waited several years before using it...

reflexgnome

Not uncommon.Even if preventing masturbation is often considered as a nice side effect of preventing sex,for the parents.

Angelina this is only possible if the emotional bond to your parents and the general (not only financial) dependency is very high

I agree.

Renita

Ines Dos you Know that Kodiak are largest bears in the World.
It is amazing.

I think @reflexgnome should know it too 😃 11, 12, 12, 15

Megan

Renita Ines Dos you Know that Kodiak are largest bears in the World.
It is amazing.

I think @reflexgnome should know it too

What about Polar bears? Those are very large but I have never seen a Polar bear. I think I saw a Kodiak Bear with short hair in a zoo and the bear was eating fruit.

Lea

Vanessa Yeah they know it.

Roland

ines, I'd like to introduce myself. I am from Germany and a man in the middle of 40. I came across this forum by chance and now I got stuck here. last weekend I spent hours reading through the topics. apparently there are women who have to wear chastity belts voluntarily or not even today. that fascinates me. I'm still not sure if this and you are real or fake. if everything is correct, then a big compliment on how you deal with it in everyday life over months or years. well, I hope you will not resent my questions. I still have a lot of them.

Ines

Roland
Not resent at all and thanks. It is much better when we know with who we are talking.
Even moderation team try to avoid it, for sure here you will find fantasy stories, but we try to avoid it.
Wellcome.

Angelina

Roland

then only once officially welcome in the forum. as @Ines said it helps us a lot if we know with whom we speak, thank you

you are free to ask any question you like

Vanessa

Roland

Welcome!

We tend to avoid too much trolls or fetishists here.

The only troll welcomed is our martian troll! 🤣

Angelina

Megan

i googled it, the kodiak is the largest bear 🙂

Laura

Megan What about Polar bears?

Polar bears are not bears

BikelockFugitive

Laura Yes they are. They belong to the group of "Ursidae".

Chelsea

Hello everyone,
since I´m pretty new here I´d like to introduce myself.
My name is Chelsea and I´m a 20 years old transgender girl from germany.
I´ve had some pretty bad masturbation problems in the past
and could´nt really solve this problem eversince. I thought about chastity as a solution and I also got a chastity device but I could´nt endure more than a few days.
Due to a really bad relationship with my parents I can´t really talk to them about it, therefore I´m looking for here help or maybe some advice.

Wish everyone of you a nice and sunny weekend 😄

BikelockFugitive

Chelsea You could also just take therapy, find out what's missing in your life and get a permanent solution. You know the experiment with the rats and cocain water? That.
Btw, I always wanted to know: Bist du er / sie oder etwas anderes, quasi neutrum? Und wie spricht man mit dir und über dich? Always confused me.

Vanessa

Chelsea

Welcome!

Why do you want to stop masturbating?Do you feel you do it it too much,or do you feel guilty about doing it?

Angelina first of all you should find a suitable key holder, otherwise I would advise against the belt

I agree.

Angelina to make us all understand please write in english

Right.It is a bit frustrating when we can't understand a single word in a talk...

Laura

🤣

Chelsea

Thank you!

Yes,it makes sense.

Angelina theoretically I could also write in French, I have a translator 😂

I hope it works better than Google trad!😉 I've results with almost no sense,when translating texts,sometimes.

Chelsea She would´nt mind it but since we live like 200km away from each other its not really an option I guess ?

It could make the use of a chastity belt harder,yes.

Chelsea

BikelockFugitive Hmm yip I see, Ill consider that.
Uhm das kommt immer darauf an - bei mir sind die Pronomen sie/ihre aber bei zB Transkerlen dann er.
Transfemale die weiblichen Pronomen und Transmale die männlichen c:

Angelina

Chelsea

hi first welcome to the forum 🙂

um i still didn't understand if you are a woman in a man's body or a man in a woman's body sorry

first of all you should find a suitable key holder, otherwise I would advise against the belt

PS: ich bin auch aus deutschland, aber damit uns alle verstehen bitte schreibe auf englisch
PS: I am also from germany, but to make us all understand please write in english

Laura

Angelina but to make us all understand please write in english

Otherwise me and @Vanessa will start writing French 😂

BikelockFugitive

Angelina Laura Oh no frenches :c
https://youtu.be/CaNeh5UXDEU?t=39

Sorry 'bout that (and sorry about the Video : ^)), needed to write in german because I wanted to know the german pronouns. Won't happen again! (maybe)

Chelsea

Angelina Hello thank you for your warm welcoming 🙂 Uhm maybe I made it a bit unclear but Im a girl in a males body that´s why I want to be called she/her as well. If that makes sense to you but hesitate to ask 😄

Chelsea

Angelina first of all you should find a suitable key holder, otherwise I would advise against the belt

Yes I agree, I already talked about this with a very good friend of mine. She would´nt mind it but since we live like 200km away from each other its not really an option I guess ?

Angelina ok, then you are also seen by me as a woman 🙂

Thank you, that´s so kind! 🙂

Chelsea

Laura Alrighty I see, I´m sorry!

Angelina

Laura Otherwise me and @Vanessa will start writing French 😂

theoretically I could also write in French, I have a translator 😂

Chelsea

ok, then you are also seen by me as a woman 🙂

but mostly we say you (that's gender neutral anyway)

Saintprudence

Chelsea Welcome to our world, Chelsea, and know that there are those here who understand you. Particularly so in my case, as a trans woman who accepts the belt as a masturbation deterrent. What advice or support can we offer?

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