Introductions

Vanessa

Andyhhh

Welcome!

Some of us here consider chastity like a life style,too.

Never had a girlfriend holding the keys to your chastity cage?

Angelina I think I'd break a few bones trying to copy that. 😂

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Angelina and for that I was punished and I honestly regret it now 😉

Would you feel the same if not punished?

Angelina how would it be if you both are locked up and change the keys ?

It could be a good idea!But it would need strong willpower from both partners.

Angelina this is not a long time 😉

Sure!😉

Angelina good idea without a keyholder the concept does not work 😉

It is not true chastity,at least,if we have our keys.

Andyhhh

However,many of us here haven't got an orgasm since months or years...🙁

That's a long time!😉

Andyhhh And the less sexual-active one may be more dominant (he/she can stay in chastity longer lol)

Yes,if not equal about it,someone would have an advantage.

Angelina I mean I could definitely do without for 20 days, even without the belt 😉

In my case,without the chastity belt,I would have troubles to stay 20 days without an orgasm...

Angelina you can't know that until you have a relationship

I agree.

Andyhhh

Vanessa Never had a girlfriend holding the keys to your chastity cage?

Ever had a gf. After a year of dating I finally told her about my hobbies. But unfortunately, she was not interested about this at all, not a member of us...I even gave her the key directly. But after a few days, when I began to beg for the release, she agreed easily 😂 She just has no intention to control somebody

Vanessa However,many of us here haven't got an orgasm since months or years...

The chastity belt forbids me from orgnasming and erection at the same time. I'm afraid there would be some problems with my physical function after mouths or years with belt on (erectile dysfunction)

Andyhhh

Vanessa That's a long time!

Would you be able to have some masturbation break during your chaste period? Who's in charge of your keys? 😅 I have an impression that you mentioned in previous post, i can't remember.

Angelina

Vanessa Would you feel the same if not punished?

probably not, but in this case i have to admit that the punishment also had positive effects 😉

Vanessa In my case,without the chastity belt,I would have troubles to stay 20 days without an orgasm...

you have managed 3 years, so 20 days are quite possible, of course some willpower is necessary 😉

Andyhhh I'm afraid there would be some problems with my physical function after mouths or years with belt on (erectile dysfunction)

this is actually one of the biggest discussions here in the forum, when we discuss about male chastity, you probably won't get a unanimous opinion here

Vanessa

Andyhhh Ever had a gf. After a year of dating I finally told her about my hobbies. But unfortunately, she was not interested about this at all, not a member of us...I even gave her the key directly. But after a few days, when I began to beg for the release, she agreed easily 😂 She just has no intention to control somebody

Not surprising that,if she didn't like it at first,she didn't refuse to give you the key.

Andyhhh he chastity belt forbids me from orgnasming and erection at the same time. I'm afraid there would be some problems with my physical function after mouths or years with belt on (erectile dysfunction)

I think it is risked,yes.

Andyhhh

My parents hold the keys,and no,I haven't had an orgasm since 3 years now..🙁 Masturbation is forbidden,and now,totally impossible for me!🙁

Angelina probably not, but in this case i have to admit that the punishment also had positive effects 😉

Yes,if we think porn is always bad.

Angelina you have managed 3 years, so 20 days are quite possible, of course some willpower is necessary 😉

Without the chastity belt?No chance! 😉

Amira

Angelina you have managed 3 years, so 20 days are quite possible, of course some willpower is necessary

I'm sure my willpower would last for at least 20 minutes!

Angelina

Vanessa Without the chastity belt?No chance! 😉

if i would get the keys now, i wouldn't be able to wait 20 days 😉 but as soon as i had some fun, i think it's quite possible to give it up for a certain time 😉

Amira I'm sure my willpower would last for at least 20 minutes!

because now you wear the belt you would do it immediately when you are free, i am talking about the time after the "pressure" is released 😉

Vanessa

Amira

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Angelina if i would get the keys now, i wouldn't be able to wait 20 days 😉 but as soon as i had some fun, i think it's quite possible to give it up for a certain time 😉

Probably,but not 20 days,in my case!😉

Andyhhh

The average for women seems to be every other day,for men,it seems to be once a day.

Angelina but for my father 0 orgasm until marriage the only right number 🙁

My parents think similar,now!🙁

Sara2001 Yes, my life changed drastically during the last year 🙂

Mainly due to your relationship,I think.

Sara2001 I think it makes a giant difference to being forced in a 0 orgasm situation or to willingly give up control about your orgasms, even if the result is the same.

I think so,too.

Angelina

Does it mean,that,even if you still don't like your chastity devices,you understand more why you have to wear these,in your father's opinion?Does it helps you fight less against these?Or hate these a bit less?

Andyhhh

Angelina if i would get the keys now, i wouldn't be able to wait 20 days 😉 but as soon as i had some fun, i think it's quite possible to give it up for a certain time 😉

I think 20 days is a quite healthy frequency for 'having fun'. In that case, I don't think you need a chastity belt at all 😂 But it seems your father don't think so, feel pitiable for you 🙁

Angelina

Andyhhh

thanks, i think i would do it a little bit more often than every 20 days, but once i could stand it

but for my father 0 orgasm until marriage the only right number 🙁

Andyhhh

Sara2001 I don't think sex before marriage is a big sin or something like that. I would definitely marry someone who had sex with every girl he could get before marriage, but I think if to people love each other and have a healthy and stable relationship, sex is a good thing in this relationship, even if it only lasts for a while without marriage.

Hello Sara, I meant no harm to reply such an early post (maybe it disturbs you). You know, I‘m new here, I just trying to get to know to each of you. I can't agree with you more for your opinion! That's right, I think everybody should enjoy the delight from sex and not to feel sin. I don't know if your mind has changed after such a long time. And I also understand your family environment, and feel sorry for you. Being in chastity belt and unable to masturbate maybe means you can foucus more on studying or something like that. You can think of it as a good thing anyway.
There are so many posts in the past year, I can't read them all. Your story and your opinion attract me. Hope you had a good time 😀

Angelina

Andyhhh

interesting thanks to you i also read the post again 😉

@Sara2001

I have this feeling that less than a year ago you were a completely different person. 😂

Sara2001

Angelina I have this feeling that less than a year ago you were a completely different person. 😂

Yes, my life changed drastically during the last year 🙂 My opinion is still more or less the same, it is just more detailed.

It became very clear for me that I am a very strong supporter of consensual nonconsens. I think if someone (like me), decides to give power to another person as a free decision, that is more then fine, but my opinion about anything that is forced hasn't changed, even if I see that forced wearing leads to behaviour that is more pleasing for the one who forces us.

I think it makes a giant difference to being forced in a 0 orgasm situation or to willingly give up control about your orgasms, even if the result is the same.

Angelina

Sara2001 but my opinion about anything that is forced hasn't changed, even if I see that forced wearing leads to behaviour that is more pleasing for the one who forces us

so in something it is with me too, i have to admit that in the last months my attitude has also changed a little bit. i am still against forced wearing a chastity belt, but my father and i have both taken a step in the right direction. he understands why i don't like it, why i fight against it and that it is not meant against him but against the belt (even if he does not want to change the basic situation). but i have also looked at what he wants to achieve and his motivation is not bad even if i think the measures are exaggerated. we understand better what the other person wants to say by the behaviour 🙂

whereas it is of course different for you, because your friend takes a different role than in most other relationships

What matters is that you're still happy 🙂

Angelina

Vanessa Does it mean,that,even if you still don't like your chastity devices,you understand more why you have to wear these,in your father's opinion?Does it helps you fight less against these?Or hate these a bit less?

i still fight a lot, even if it is not as much as in the beginning and i still hate the devices 🙁

but the relationship with my father has improved because we understand each other much better 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina

Your reactions and feelings are logical,and the side effect of improving your relationship with your father is nice!🙂

Epicurus

Welcome!🙂

Without a keyholder,it is not true chastity,I think.

Epicurus an online keyholder

Don't you think it is a bit risked,to ask for someone you don't know much?

Epicurus Also haha yes the best keyholders are people in person like girlfriends/boyfriends/wives/husbands

I agree.

Epicurus

Hello everyone. I am a 19 year old guy from the UK, with more knowledge of male chastity and male chastity cages than the average person, but I not so much knowledge about female chastity belts. I enjoy chastity not because I want to preserve my purity or anything like that, but I self-lock and keep chaste for quite long periods of time because I am more interested in the BDSM aspect of chastity. I do not have a keyholder yet. I look forward to many interesting conversations to be had on this forum 😊.

Angelina

Epicurus

then once officially welcome to the forum,

but you have to remember that we are not really a bdsm forum, we write a lot about the original purpose of the belt

PS: without a key holder it is not chastity (just my opinion)

Epicurus

Angelina

It's good to be welcome, this forum feels like a nice little community.

I know, I realise this is not a BDSM forum. At least it's not about consensual BDSM.

Although I have always been interested in finding out more about chastity, my personal chastity journey is only beginning. Once I am adjusted to the cage and can wear it 24/7 indefinitely without having to unlock for breaks, I will get an online keyholder (it's easier than you think if you know where to look). Good to know that you don't consider self locking real chastity 😁😉 just joking.

Angelina

Epicurus , I will get an online keyholder (it's easier than you think if you know where to look). Good to know that you don't consider self locking real chastity 😁😉 just joking.

ok I don't understand the system of online keyholder (and I don't want to understand it because it goes too much in the direction of bdsm 🙂 )

I thought you were holding the keys yourself, so I had to point that out 😉

Epicurus

Angelina

Yes I have been keeping myself locked intermittently for the last 2 months, I'm still adjusting to my new cage so little chafing is still common.
I won't go into details but it's the exact system as you have except the online keyholder tells you the safe combination at the end so you get the key. Simple

Angelina

Epicurus

probably works with locked boxes or time locks and the online key holder knows the combination correctly ?

well i think you would like it more if the keyholder is a person from your inner circle that you can trust 100% 😉

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