Introductions

Vanessa Does it happened?

Not yet.. i follow his orders and everything is ok..

Vanessa Very hard!

Yes it is but after so long its something normal for me.. also i think its better having a release every 6-8 weeks and sometimes bonus releases (not more than 4 per year) than being without release at all..

karsten the „third“ Child is not growing up with her mother and was given away for adoption by her and her parents. There is no way for me of taking care

I did not know that adoption is possible without your consent, as a father you also have rights, or did you consent to the adoption?

Hi everyone!

I'm Nate, 19 yo male from Czech Republic. Currently I'm in first year at uni and I live on campus. I've been locked in chastity since I was 15 for my excessive masturbation habit. It wasn't forced on me, but I was more like talked into it. I'm quite glad I agreed as it helps with studies and sport. My parents had my keys first and when I found a boyfriend here (I'm bi) half a year ago, I him the keys.

My brother Jake (16) has been in chastity since last year; he went to study secondary school to the same city where I am. It was more like precaution given his relationship with girls so he doesn't do something stupid. Since we visit home just once a month for a weekend and we see each other quite a lot, I have one of his keys.

Nate

welcome to the forum

i am surprised that your parents agreed to give your boyfriend the key.

Angelina

I suppose they mainly agreed because of hygiene as cleaning the cage just once a month when I go home would be too little. True, they aren't much happy about it, but they understand. I'm still in the cage all the time so nothing has really changed there and of course, they still have one of the two keys.

Nate

Are you and Jake both Virgins? Very glad you are not doing anything with your boyfriend. Do you live together and has anyone else seen you and Jakes devices?

Nate Are you and Jake trying to cut down your masturbating even more so only released for cleaning?

Do you know of any other locked guys in person, only your parents must have got the idea from somewhere.

Shrop

We aren't. The point was to prevent excessive masturbation.
One of my friends is also locked, but my parents don't know him. I don't know where they got that idea, and I didn't ask.

Sin Yes, it really is. I also found it very weird at first... but it's just a different version of chastity... it's not a fetish game, it's in the original sense of chastity: purity. That makes the keyholder the opposite of a sex ot fetish partner.

karsten which one do you have?

karsten Hurt a lot and no relief by anal.

You need to train the muscles before you can do it

Nate 'm Nate, 19 yo male from Czech Republic

Hey and welcome

Nate briefly explained what it is and told me to put it on which I did.

Where did they know what size you need?

Nate When do you plan to habe sex with your boyfriend?

Vanessa

Thanks!

Since English is not my native, I don't really understand the difference between convinced and willing.
I would say I'm convinced as far as the excessive masturbation goes, but still a bit reluctant to wear a cage.
My brother is clearly a reluctant wearer, he only agreed because parents wouldn't let him move out otherwise.

And yes, we're supposed to wear it (at least) until marriage.
In my case, it's a little harder to explain the marriage, because two men can get "registered" at most in our country.

I think they wouldn't mind if we had sex. They know he's my boyfriend (although they would like to see a girl of course).
When they gave him the key, they said they are keeping one for a backup.

Well actually, many guys know about chastity cages, even when they are not using it and they are not into fetish.
When I change in the gym or before/after sports, they can see the bulge and subtle outline of my cage.
If they keep (secretly) staring, I can only think they know. But at the end of the day, I learned not to care about them.
A few guys actually asked (that's how we discovered with my friend Robin we're both caged), but that's quite rare to see.

Yes, Robin's parents locked him for excessive masturbation too.

Nate Since English is not my native, I don't really understand the difference between convinced and willing.

Convinced:you don't want it at first,but some arguments or some advantages make you wear one.

Willing:you want it at first.

Nate In my case, it's a little harder to explain the marriage, because two men can get "registered" at most in our country.

It should be considered as marriage,for the cage.

Nate When they gave him the key, they said they are keeping one for a backup.

So,no emergency key?

Vanessa

Thanks for clarification. None of us are willing wearers then, for sure.

As for the registration, there's a big problem that it's written in your ID. That means everyone who sees your ID and is homophobic (still quite common, unfortunately) will give you a hard time. It's one of the main reasons why nobody really does that.

My boyfriend has the main key, and we see each other nearly every day. My parents have one key for a backup. I don't think I really need to have an emergency key, as I never needed it and I could be tempted to unlock.

Nate Since English is not my native, I don't really understand the difference between convinced and willing.

i would explain it this way, a willing wearer is someone who wears the belt out of voluntary and deep conviction, i.e. someone who wants to wear the belt. a convinced wearer is someone who has advantages from wearing the belt (money from parents etc.).

Vanessa It should be considered as marriage,for the cage.

i think so too, until a few years ago same-sex couples could not get married in germany but could only register as a civil partnership, i think in my case my father would have accepted that as "marriage".