Tenn__Man I think my father and my boyfriend are by no means mysogyny. My father has very traditional values about roles in the family and sex before marriage but not because of him being raised very religious or traditional, but because he and my mother experienced how much better a relationship like that is (for them).
For Daniel it's not that much of a difference. He would never force me in such a kind of relationship and my long term happiness is his top priority. We have decided to live this lifestyle because we feel it gives us harmony, peace and happiness, not because we think that any other lifestyle is wrong. What works for us not necessarily works for anyone else. It just feels right for us even or because it's very strict.