Renita No, just approved by the moderators.

How can the moderator sure if it really a boy or girl or an adult?

      Joh Making it more difficult for the same person to say they are under 18 in one thread and participate in "spicy talk" in another would already do a lot to keep the forum clean.

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          youdontknowme I understand the intention but I see no way to proof the gender or age if you do not want an official ID.

              Probably a bit like arm wrestling or tug of war. First one to fill out the entire length (or, if there is a time limit, whoever is over the center line when the time runs out) wins.

                Ines A very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very BORING area for them. Believe me.

                I disagree, so let’s just test it and see who’s right

                In general, however, implementation is difficult. What do we do with users who we don't know how old they are and who don't want to say their age, or who lie about their age?

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                    Joh How can the moderator sure if it really a boy or girl or an adult?

                    A way how they talk. Not a rocket science.

                    Joh I see no way to proof the gender or age

                    No need to prove anything. Only matters how others perceive them.

                          Renita not applicable here, but in my adult community, we have a separate place where only people that we meet in person can enter. We do a lot of meeting (they are mostly called “munch” )

                          Here it can be a picture with a paper in hands where it’s written nick and the site name. Or a lot of other possibility.

                            Renita No need to prove anything. Only matters how others perceive them.

                            If a thread should be only for women it is necessary to know if the told gender right.

                                Angelina who lie about their age?

                                Up to them

                                Angelina we don't know how old they are

                                Minor guessed.

                                Angelina I disagree

                                I can assure you that I personally will take the issue and it will be very boring area.

                                        Joh If a thread should be only for women it is necessary to know if the told gender right.

                                        The idea is not so much to know whom we are talking to. The idea is to make sure that all the spicy stuff gets put into an area where nobody can claim to be a minor, so any spicy fantasies about minors can be snuffed out quickly and with prejudice.

                                            Joh
                                            I think any attempt in that direction is going to fail, u less you want to implement professional age verification systems (which don't come for free).
                                            Rather than engaging in a guessing exercise who is what he/she claims to be, why not accept people at what they claim to be.
                                            There will always be fakes and trolls.