Doro's theme.

Susan

dorothea This can also be possible without a belt, but one careless action and something might happen.

This is exactly what my aunt says

Susan

dorothea She says this too!

dorothea

Joh But I still don't understand how you have more time when you're not touching yourself

I don't know, but I didn't actually say that I had more time.

Joh

dorothea I don't know, but I didn't actually say that I had more time.

Sorry, false expressed myself.
You mentioned you will have more energy for others without self pleasure. I would like to understand how you come to this conclusion.
Did you pleasure yourself too often to have less energy or were you too distracted to concentrate on anything else?

dorothea

Milord you mentioned a belted aunt. Can you explain better her relationship and her reasons, if she’s married or not

She is married. She wears the belt because she shouldn't have any self-pleasuring.

Milord

dorothea since up to now you said you indulge in self pleasuring, do you think it’s ok to forfeit it completely or you have discussed about having some “me-time”?
Feel free to avoid answer if you are not comfortable with this question

Joh

dorothea She wears the belt because she shouldn't have any self-pleasuring.

How did this decision happen? Because she did pleasure herself or her husband demanded it or something else?

dorothea

Angelina Has one already been ordered? From which company?
i would first see how it works with the belt and if you can reach 24/7 with it, only then can you think about wearing a bra (in my opinion)
A complete set was ordered, so a bra is already there, but has not yet been used.

Now my training is such that I wear the belt from 8 a.m. to 10 p.m.
The first overnight stays will take place at the weekend.

Angelina

dorothea The first overnight stays will take place at the weekend.

this is certainly one of the most critical points, you shouldn't be disappointed if it doesn't work the first time and your mum should also show understanding, it's very difficult. Much sucess

youdontknowme And then we have people like Angelina's dad who takes a very keen interest in his daughter's sex life.

even if you are right, it sounds strange in that context. of course he had a great interest, otherwise he would never have put a chastity belt on me, but it is no higher than what is the case in other similar cases

dorothea

Susan It must be weird having 2 keyholders. AJ does everything, locking, unlocking, monitoring during showers, etc. Security checks to make sure it is comfortable and fits well. Self-Touching is not allowed and AJ is pretty strict about it. That is the hardest part for sure.

My dad only has one key for security. Everything else is done by my mom 😉

Susan She made sure that i could not use comfort as I reason not to wear one.

My mum sees it similarly 😃 However, some restrictions do not represent a loss of comfort in her opinion.

Ines

dorothea Everything else is done by my mom 😉

The usual for most of us here.

Susan

dorothea My mum sees it similarly 😃 However, some restrictions do not represent a loss of comfort in her opinion.

AJ feels the same way. Restrictions are not defined as a loss of comfort.

dorothea

Milord do you think it’s ok to forfeit it completely or you have discussed about having some “me-time”?

We talked about it. The result is that there is a trial of 3 months over 24/7. Then we will talk about it again.

dorothea

Joh You mentioned you will have more energy for others without self pleasure.

Maybe I didn't say it well enough, but that's not what I said, that's what my parents think. Please remember, I didn't ask for the belt, but I accept wearing it.

For my parents, every second of self-pleasure is saved energy for other things.

Laura

Susan It must be weird having 2 keyholders.

Why? Parents should be equal

Ines

Laura

I am much more comfortable with female handling.

Susan

Laura Why? Parents should be equal

To me it would seem weird if a man was a keyholder and did any unlocking or putting the belt back on.

Milord

Ines

Most fathers are totally uncomfortable to in my experience

dorothea

Ines I am much more comfortable with female handling.

I also prefer it with my mum. A padlock check is ok, but most other things are better not.

WriterAlexis

Milord

How so?

Milord

WriterAlexis

I relate of course to my experience, as specified. All my friends with daughters are very uncomfortable with staying near her genital area. Even bath is very complex and is done in the most awkward position to lessen contact. After puberty they prefer to carve out their eyes to avoid seeing their girls nudes.
Of course no chastity belt involved

Ines

Milord After puberty they prefer to carve out their eyes to avoid seeing their girls nudes.

Absolutely.

youdontknowme

Milord After puberty they prefer to carve out their eyes to avoid seeing their girls nudes.

Probably depends on attitudes towards nudity in the households. If they are used to only seeing nude people in sexual situations, probably. If they are practising nudists, probably not. I reckon most families over here are somewhere in-between though.

And then we have people like Angelina's dad who takes a very keen interest in his daughter's sex life.

Kaja

Milord Not in my country. I sometimes see my father privates and he sees me (breast more often). Nothing wrong nothing sexual. We are one familly.
He was changing my diapers at past. He know me 😀.

Joh

dorothea Maybe I didn't say it well enough, but that's not what I said, that's what my parents think. Please remember, I didn't ask for the belt, but I accept wearing it.

Ok. I understand but I asked you to get your view on this.
Do you think it's worth doing without and that you'll really get more out of it?
Or are you just doing it while your mum and aunt are doing it?

Milord

dorothea thanks for answering

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