dorothea My mum wasn't aggressive about it at all. Maybe or certainly she has been thinking about this for the last few years. And with sentences like, if you ever have your own belt, or a belt like that would fit you well, always work towards it.
Once my aunt got the idea that I should wear one, she made it clear that she would buy as many as needed until I got one that fit properly. I did go to someone that she found that helped make adjustments. She made sure that i could not use comfort as I reason not to wear one.
dorothea OK, that's how my mom sees it too. However, she is not aggressive, but still somehow respectful.
The three-month test phase should be exactly the same. We also talked about an exit strategy, just like yours.
Good it is important that you not rush into this. It takes time. As for a plan to get it off if you want it off you should take the time to write it all down on paper. Once I made the commitment to wear this thing AJ wanted me to see it in writing. But it has advantages for me to so she know the rules if I want it off. We have made changes to the document a few times and we both sign it.
dorothea Yes, my mum and my aunt also have a belt like that. My mum sometimes has it for a few weeks when my dad is away at work for a long time.
Of course they both support me, but my mum also makes sure that everything is safe and works.
About self-pleasure, my parents never said that you would go to hell because of it or anything like that. But they have always made it clear that something like that is not welcome.
And somehow I think that's okay, but sometimes you just can't resist it.
It must be weird having 2 keyholders. AJ does everything, locking, unlocking, monitoring during showers, etc. Security checks to make sure it is comfortable and fits well. Self-Touching is not allowed and AJ is pretty strict about it. That is the hardest part for sure.
