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icaasi I don't have statistical information. I know that there are 4 people for sure who wear a belt. Me, mum, sis, and a cousin.
Violence - unfortunately - is kind of high in some areas. Not so much in rural areas but in cities yes violence does happen. Harassment also happens, I've faced some of it too. But eventually you learn which areas are better to be in and naturally have higher alertness.
Laura from what I could gather, my dad and his sister, both knew about chastity belts. They are kind of from a "IT" background - my dad was part of handling communications and infra management for the army - so that could be where they know it from. Also, he knows where to get chastity belts made (from the local supplier) that could have played a part too.
I've kind of talked with my cousin, but like my brother, too much of a age difference, the connection with them never felt that I could bring it up - unlike my sister.
I don't know if my aunt is belted (seems unlikely)
Let me know if I answered your question. I have a feeling I probably raised more confusion than clearing it
Renita Your statements contradict each other.
Handling old communication equipment during his time and being tech savvy (or care enough to set up parental controls) in the modern age isn't really the same. What he dealt was different. Also I did say from a "kind" of IT background, they had some access to the internet, so it might have been how he was introduced to chastity. I haven't asked (and won't), I can only speculate.
Or maybe he just doesn't care about the whole parental control stuff? I don't know
Tasha Handling old communication equipment during his time and being tech savvy (or care enough to set up parental controls) in the modern age isn't really the same.
IT is more a way of thinking.
Tasha Or maybe he just doesn't care about the whole parental control stuff?
Having your sister as an a bad example? Hard to believe.
Tasha Having her phone taken away, restricted screen time. I'm not proud to say it, but she was also punished pretty hard
Would you agree to have parental controls on your devices to avoid such punishments?
Renita Hard to believe.
I mean for my devices, he hasn't found any reasons.
He could put locks on my sister's phone, which he did for a while (that's what I mean by restricted screen time) but then took it off after a while. Not sure why he did that.
I should clarify, he brought the phone for her, so it's "her" phone but ultimately he paid for it. I plan on giving mine to her if I decided to upgrade mine.
If you mean a blocklist on porn and sexy sites, I could maybe accept that, but still, it's not something I would really like. I like having control over my phone. And watching or reading porn/erotica doesn't get me to a orgasm so what's the point.
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Tasha from what I could gather, my dad and his sister, both knew about chastity belts. They are kind of from a "IT" background
So, from the Internet. Just wondering if not from this forum
Tasha I don't know if my aunt is belted (seems unlikely)
Is the belted cousin her daughter?
Tasha I like having control over my phone
But you don't. Google does
Tasha Have you ever had to wear/undo a chastity belt while in a car? I had to today and it was super weird. Is there a way to do it without making it super awkward?
No, I never have. For starters, you would have to take off your seatbelt if the car were moving, which is dangerous.
If I really needed to, for some reason, I would probably do it under a blanket. I normally wear dresses and skirts, which would probably make it easier than with pants.
However, my husband prefers to unlock and lock me himself, which would also complicate this, especially if moving.
I'm with @Laura. Just take it off at home.
MissBlossom Hi Miss, I wasn't given much of a choice. If I has the choice, I would have removed it at home and offered to stay close to my parents.
Tasha
You could try pointing out that their obligation to protect your physical safety is more important than whatever motivated them to do this.
They should not be making you take off your seatbelt while moving, even at low speeds.
MissBlossom I will talk to them the next time it happens. Don't want to stir things up now