Tasha is mainly reduce.. forced sex (not sure if I can use the word here) and teen pregnancies from my understanding.

forced sex is always a crime no matter what age and there are contraceptives against teenage pregnancies, this law simply criminalises teenage couples in love

Tasha The correlation seems more towards thier mood than my behaviour.

seems very arbitrary and somehow illogical to me. i'm glad you have breaks (even if not many) but i don't really understand your parents' goal

Tasha I was a bit surprised on the showers too, but not quite sure what happened there. I'm not going to discuss it with them regardless.

yes, here too it is better if you don't discuss it, but this is another point that is absolutely illogical

Tasha yeah I'm going to talk about it with them soon, I need to find a good opportunity to.

i've never had the opportunity to get breaks myself, but how do you negotiate that without it being very embarrassing? being locked in a chastity belt by your parents is obviously something uncomfortable, but then asking if you can get breaks to masturbate? How do you do that without it being totally humiliating? Question goes out to the whole community

            Angelina but then asking if you can get breaks to masturbate?

            Ask for Demand your me-time without any explanation. Everybody will know but nobody will say

              Angelina this law simply criminalises teenage couples in love

              Nothing more to say on my side. That's how it is here.

              My parents claim (as I've said before) they use the belt to prevent pre-marital sex and excessive masturbation. I'm okay with thier goals but not the way they execute thier goal. As I said before, I'm okay with being belted outside home, more releases are all I want.

              They aren't that "strict" on rules or previously agreed upon things. They change things (usually for the better) as they see fit. I can't understand what thier thought process is, but I don't question it unless it's a worse outcome.

              Not much conversation happens about the belt in my home. They behave as if nothing happens regarding the belt/cage - unless there is something seriously wrong with it as the one time it happened with my brother. The last time i negotiated (fought pretty much) for releases I just brought it up before sleep, on a day my parents seemed happy. It turned into a bit of a fight but eventually things settled down. But yeah it did take some courage to ask/demand it to them.

              While @Joh makes a good statement of ask/demand, it does take some courage to go ask for it, (especially for me) without it turning into super awkward/ have a worse outcome.

                  Tasha It is your life and you have to do the work. 😉 We can only give you some tips, maybe another view at the situation, some arguments for discussion but in the end you have to face it.
                  I think it's a good start to let them know that you understand their point of view and their leadership concerns. But now you're an adult and you want to handle it yourself. Ask them to carry the CB out of the house but you have your regular time at home without the CB. This should be so that it doesn't take you away from your life because you are too busy with yourself. I think you will know best.

                    Tasha My parents claim (as I've said before) they use the belt to prevent pre-marital sex and excessive masturbation.

                    Have you ever talked to them about a belt without secondary shield?

                        have you ever talked of piercing. They make locking rings for that. It would prevent intercourse. But also allow for much more freedom of movement, comfort and me time. Sounds like a workable solution.

                          toad They make locking rings for that

                          That's a popular fetish forum fantasy, not a workable solution. I find more realistic the lady who reported spending more than a year receiving, stretching and healing the necessary nine labia and - in her case - vch piercings, only to find that her rings create repeated infections and irritations, which isn't exactly surprising.

                            toad I'm not sure rings near a sensitive area is a good idea. I have ear piercings for jwellery and it wasn't comfortable for a while. Now too, they need regular cleanings otherwise I get infections.

                            I did get the piercings willingly. Most women have/had one so I wanted one too.

                                Tasha I have ear piercings for jwellery and it wasn't comfortable for a while. Now too, they need regular cleanings otherwise I get infections.

                                I got my ear piercing long time ago. It needed some weeks to heal but since than I hand never any problem. If you get problems from time to time or when you are not careful with cleaning it looks like your healing ability is not the best. A piercing of a sensitive part of you is certainly not what you should do. It probably won't go well.

                                  Tasha My parents claim (as I've said before) they use the belt to prevent pre-marital sex and excessive masturbation. I'm okay with thier goals but not the way they execute thier goal. As I said before, I'm okay with being belted outside home, more releases are all I want.

                                  Did you have a opportunity to talk with your parents and negotiate better agreement for you?

                                    Tasha

                                    have you ever thought about how this could all end? in other words, under what conditions is wearing the belt definitely over for you?

                                    toad Sounds like a workable solution.

                                    to me, this sounds more like a solution that is hazardous to health, at least if it is to be used over a longer period of time

                                          Angelina to me, this sounds more like a solution that is hazardous to health, at least if it is to be used over a longer period of time

                                          My concern with using piercings there to enforce chastity would be assaults, plus the obvious infection risk.
                                          There’s enough damage done when assaulted, can’t imagine how much worse it would be if piercings were in play

                                            Today is Sunday. Parents were free.

                                            Reading the fourm for a while, and a few helpful souls pushing me to make a better deal with my parents, I decided to ask. From the way I write it might seem it went down like a business deal but I'm not the best story/experience teller.

                                            I asked them what thier ultimate goal was. They mentioned the same I did before in this forum - pre-marital sex, excessive masturbation. I said I agree with them, but I would like a bit more freedom with my belt either in the form of longer showers on a weekend perhaps or more frequent unblockings. I could kind of feel it becoming awkward, but I just wanted to try my luck. My dad did bring up my previous issues with playing with myself for a long time and how it would affect my time I would be able to spend on my business/ life in general but apart from that there were only a few off hand comments on how I might go back to my old habits (which I did say back about how I was mature now)

                                            So, the outcome. Not going into much detail about my sister, it's still no school (summer break of sorts) for my sister, she is at home with me, still belted. So my mum asked me if I would keep wearing it till my sister starts school again so as to not make her feel singled out. I was okay with that, i wouldn't feel good if only I had to wear the belt while my sis didn't.

                                            The real outcome that they promised is longer showers on weekends (nice) and promised once in a month unbeltings, if I am able to control my self (pretty sure I can), they said we can do perhaps 2 a month (very nice).

                                            The conversation was just between my parents and me so I think my sister doesn't know about it yet, not quite sure how she will react. Once school starts I'm sure she won't be made to wear the belt (I wasn't, because it's a hassle for them to put it on and off daily) But I'll try to explain it to her.

                                            I would really like to thank the members who interacted with me to kind of push me to discuss this with them.

                                            TLDR: I talked to my parents, i am - will be - in a better situation now. Hopefully a even better situation in the future.

                                              Tasha I congratulate to your negotiation and new agreement.

                                              I am happy we could encourage you to take the next step in your life.

                                                Tasha very happy for you, and congratulations for your mindfulness about your sister feelings.

                                                  Angelina under what conditions is wearing the belt definitely over for you?

                                                  Well they say marriage is the end point. But i suppose moving out eventually, or discussing (fighting) for it also would work.

                                                      Tasha I think what she meant is, what would it take for you to tell them you absolutely refuse to wear it anymore give me the keys now.
                                                      For example, refusing any breaks going forward. Or demanding you wear thigh bands, etc.

                                                          Tasha

                                                          that sounds like an improvement, i'm happy for you, of course there's always room for improvement, but i think in your situation a compromise is the best solution for you and your parents. it's nice that you're taking your sister into consideration 🙂

                                                          Sasha I think what she meant is, what would it take for you to tell them you absolutely refuse to wear it anymore give me the keys now.

                                                          so i kind of meant both, what endpoints are for herself and for her parents

                                                                Tasha Do you See a Change for a picture of your Typ of belt?