toad I'm not sure rings near a sensitive area is a good idea. I have ear piercings for jwellery and it wasn't comfortable for a while. Now too, they need regular cleanings otherwise I get infections.

I did get the piercings willingly. Most women have/had one so I wanted one too.

      Tasha I have ear piercings for jwellery and it wasn't comfortable for a while. Now too, they need regular cleanings otherwise I get infections.

      I got my ear piercing long time ago. It needed some weeks to heal but since than I hand never any problem. If you get problems from time to time or when you are not careful with cleaning it looks like your healing ability is not the best. A piercing of a sensitive part of you is certainly not what you should do. It probably won't go well.

        Tasha My parents claim (as I've said before) they use the belt to prevent pre-marital sex and excessive masturbation. I'm okay with thier goals but not the way they execute thier goal. As I said before, I'm okay with being belted outside home, more releases are all I want.

        Did you have a opportunity to talk with your parents and negotiate better agreement for you?

          Tasha

          have you ever thought about how this could all end? in other words, under what conditions is wearing the belt definitely over for you?

          toad Sounds like a workable solution.

          to me, this sounds more like a solution that is hazardous to health, at least if it is to be used over a longer period of time

                Angelina to me, this sounds more like a solution that is hazardous to health, at least if it is to be used over a longer period of time

                My concern with using piercings there to enforce chastity would be assaults, plus the obvious infection risk.
                There’s enough damage done when assaulted, can’t imagine how much worse it would be if piercings were in play

                  Today is Sunday. Parents were free.

                  Reading the fourm for a while, and a few helpful souls pushing me to make a better deal with my parents, I decided to ask. From the way I write it might seem it went down like a business deal but I'm not the best story/experience teller.

                  I asked them what thier ultimate goal was. They mentioned the same I did before in this forum - pre-marital sex, excessive masturbation. I said I agree with them, but I would like a bit more freedom with my belt either in the form of longer showers on a weekend perhaps or more frequent unblockings. I could kind of feel it becoming awkward, but I just wanted to try my luck. My dad did bring up my previous issues with playing with myself for a long time and how it would affect my time I would be able to spend on my business/ life in general but apart from that there were only a few off hand comments on how I might go back to my old habits (which I did say back about how I was mature now)

                  So, the outcome. Not going into much detail about my sister, it's still no school (summer break of sorts) for my sister, she is at home with me, still belted. So my mum asked me if I would keep wearing it till my sister starts school again so as to not make her feel singled out. I was okay with that, i wouldn't feel good if only I had to wear the belt while my sis didn't.

                  The real outcome that they promised is longer showers on weekends (nice) and promised once in a month unbeltings, if I am able to control my self (pretty sure I can), they said we can do perhaps 2 a month (very nice).

                  The conversation was just between my parents and me so I think my sister doesn't know about it yet, not quite sure how she will react. Once school starts I'm sure she won't be made to wear the belt (I wasn't, because it's a hassle for them to put it on and off daily) But I'll try to explain it to her.

                  I would really like to thank the members who interacted with me to kind of push me to discuss this with them.

                  TLDR: I talked to my parents, i am - will be - in a better situation now. Hopefully a even better situation in the future.

                    Tasha I congratulate to your negotiation and new agreement.

                    I am happy we could encourage you to take the next step in your life.

                      Tasha very happy for you, and congratulations for your mindfulness about your sister feelings.

                        Angelina under what conditions is wearing the belt definitely over for you?

                        Well they say marriage is the end point. But i suppose moving out eventually, or discussing (fighting) for it also would work.

                            Tasha I think what she meant is, what would it take for you to tell them you absolutely refuse to wear it anymore give me the keys now.
                            For example, refusing any breaks going forward. Or demanding you wear thigh bands, etc.

                                Tasha

                                that sounds like an improvement, i'm happy for you, of course there's always room for improvement, but i think in your situation a compromise is the best solution for you and your parents. it's nice that you're taking your sister into consideration 🙂

                                Sasha I think what she meant is, what would it take for you to tell them you absolutely refuse to wear it anymore give me the keys now.

                                so i kind of meant both, what endpoints are for herself and for her parents

                                      Tasha Do you See a Change for a picture of your Typ of belt?

                                          Angelina the day it starts interfering with me making money or living "comfortably" would be when I'll start to object to wearing the belt.

                                              Joh you can see from the less number of messages, I've been super busy. I haven't forgotten

                                                  Tasha The reason why you posted less IS Not obvisly. It could also less interest in Posting after you archived you new agreei.
                                                  Your Info make it clear. Thank you.

                                                    Tasha or living "comfortably" would be when I'll start to object to wearing the belt.

                                                    could happen as soon as you start a relationship, what is your attitude towards it?

                                                        Angelina Hi, dating is quite uncommon herex most marriages are arranged by the parents. (I am not a city)

                                                        If I decide to date, it would be for eventually marrying them and loving and living with them so in that case yes, the belt will obviously come off.

                                                        Currently I'm not into a one-night stands or short term relationships.

                                                            Tasha Hi, dating is quite uncommon herex most marriages are arranged by the parents.

                                                            Do they have someone in mind for you?

                                                                Laura not at the moment. They haven't told anything about it