Tasha's stuff

Joh

Renita If you let your parents put on a chastity belt, you can't talk about setting boundaries anymore.

It is only on you to what you agree. In the end you can set boundaries for every topic if you want it. The open question is if your really want it?

Renita

Tasha You don't have to give up control over everything in life to your parents

That's why I'm asking how about you and relationships in your family.

Tasha

Renita what are you asking me ? I don't see ant questions in your messages. Or have I missed them by any chance?

Angelina

Renita If you let your parents put on a chastity belt, you can't talk about setting boundaries anymore.

well, but parental control on a mobile phone/laptop is something completely different. an adult can buy their own mobile phone at any time and do whatever they want with it, their parents don't even have to know about it. @Tasha has her own business and can certainly always buy another mobile phone financially if her parents come up with such ideas, but go to the locksmith and ask for a spare key for your chastity belt ...

Tasha

Angelina if the parents are evil, there is always the nuclear option of bringing the authorities in. I don't think my parents would ever do anything of that sort. As I mentioned before, they are really good parents, except for the belt.

Renita

Tasha what are you asking me ?

How far can your parents go if they take off the belt in the car right before arrival?

Angelina @Tasha has her own business and can certainly always buy another mobile phone financially if her parents come up with such ideas

It's not about money. She must agree anyway. And it doesn't prevent running the business.

Angelina but go to the locksmith and ask for a spare key for your chastity belt ...

But she doesn't do it. Then what's a difference?

Tasha

Renita She must agree anyway.

I agree to it because I chose to.

Tasha

Renita How far can your parents go if they take off the belt in the car right before arrival?

With regards to the belt, they are very 'strict'. But not with other parts of life

Angelina

Renita But she doesn't do it. Then what's a difference?

i just wanted to point out that it is more absurd to believe that an adult woman can bypass a child safety lock on her smartphone just as badly as a chastity belt. you somehow make it sound like this.

Laura Then it's called self-employment, rather than business

self-employment is a business.

Laura Right, but if she had other employees, she would assign her work to them

the best bosses are the ones who work with you 😉

Laura

Tasha Okay so i logged on from the desktop, much better than the phone UI.

Yes, I know. Although flarum supports smartphones, I don't like it

Tasha But not with other parts of life

Are you free to do whatever you want as long as you have the belt on?
For example, go for a sleepover

Renita

Tasha With regards to the belt, they are very 'strict'. But not with other parts of life

How about your Internet activity?

Angelina it is more absurd to believe that an adult woman can bypass a child safety lock on her smartphone just as badly as a chastity belt

First one might be more difficult.

Angelina the best bosses are the ones who work with you

But not instead you 😃

Tasha

Laura Okay so i logged on from the desktop, much better than the phone UI. Maybe I should start using the desktop for this task too

Tasha

Laura go for a sleepover

Going to a sleepover isn't common here, but I have went to my friends house to spend the night (I might be using the phrase "spend the night" wrongly, I only mean SFW intentions). It wasn't that big of a challenge.

I am not a party person so I haven't went for any late-night parties. I have travelled alone from different venues (when I was writing exams) at night, stayed at a hotel with friends too (although this was not really planned - we didn't have a means to get back home due to a protest happening)

Laura

Tasha Do you have to tell parents where you go to?

Tasha

Laura they haven't scolded me when I didn't. I always do tell them, just in case something happens to me, they know where I am. They don't seem to care much, I've went to hang out with both boys and girls, went to houses of boys for the day, they haven't said anything. They know very well I'm "protected". Never been allowed without the belt obviously

Tasha

@Xander currently I want to focus on the business itself, not looking for a partner at the moment

(Didn't want to clutter the introductions channel)

Laura

Tasha currently I want to focus on the business itself,

Why does it take all your time?

Tasha

They are strict about the "no going outside without the belt" policy. Where I go with the belt on they don't seem to care a lot. They do make me come back before it's night time - unless it was discussed before. I did get in trouble for that when I forgot to mention i would be staying at the school hostels for the night for finishing up decorations. They weren't too pleased with me the next day 😂

Tasha

Laura mainly because I ~~love what i do~~ am a workaholic (i do love it a bit too much). I'm not saying getting a relationship will make my business go down, but it would certainly mean I have less time. Also, I'm not attracted specifically to anyone at the moment so 🤷‍♀️ And I also feel 20 is a bit too young for being in a relationship (my opinion)

I'm open to finding a partner, but I'm not actively looking for

Edit: clarity

Milord

Tasha

@Xander is about to buy a ticket for India 😏

Laura

Tasha I'm not saying getting a relationship will make my business go down, but it would certainly mean I have less time

Then it's called self-employment, rather than business

Milord

Laura we normally use self employment when you work alone, business if you have employee, even part time. It's @Tasha case, so business seems correct

Tasha

Laura I need to spend time on it because I have to manage part time people and the clients. If you prefer to use "self employment", all good. I just call it a business because I'm making money, and spending money on it

Laura

Milord Right, but if she had other employees, she would assign her work to them

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