Academic incentives for belt use

Lea

Renita It works for male, too.

Renita

Lea It works for male, too.

It works differently for men.

Lea

Angelina achievements does not need to be necessarily associated with breaks.

Joh

Lea achievements does not need to be necessarily associated with breaks.

In which way do you mean this?

Angelina

Lea achievements does not need to be necessarily associated with breaks.

do you think you could perform better if you were given breaks as motivation, i.e. if you reach a certain grade you get a break? do you think that would be a viable option?

Sasha sorry if I confused you.

I probably just missed it or didn't think about it, thanks for explaining it again 🙂

Avery Have you ever posted this before in the past 5-6 years or whatever it's been?

at least 100 times i wrote that i was in the belt so that i wasn't distracted from school, studies etc (according to my dad), so yes

Tjc

Renita Differently in what way?

Renita

Tjc Differently in what way?

Men in chastity will be obsessed with relief rather than academic success.

Avery

Angelina my performance at school and university was a reason for my father to put the belt on me

I have been resisting for a long time but I'm going to call B.S. on this one. Have you ever posted this before in the past 5-6 years or whatever it's been?

youdontknowme

Avery I can think of ways to argue that it is technically not inconsistent, but I will not appoint myself as Angelina's attorney for this purpose

Sasha

Angelina Pretty sure I mentioned a long time ago that I got breaks for good grades. I think I did anyway, but yes that was always part of the arrangement, sorry if I confused you.

Lea

Angelina Well, I don't know, probably yes.

Kate2

Angelina do you think you could perform better if you were given breaks as motivation, i.e. if you reach a certain grade you get a break? do you think that would be a viable option?

I am living this right now. I am not wearing the belt because my grades were not good, there are other reasons as I have explained in another topic. But I was told the belt will stay on with no opportunity for "me time" unless my grades improve this coming semester. Let's just say this has been the summer from hell so I am highly motivated to do well in school when it starts back up again in September.

Angelina

Lea Well, I don't know, probably yes.

you still wear the belt permanently, don't you? are you studying now? Then that could be a deal with your parents, right?

Kate2 Let's just say this has been the summer from hell so I am highly motivated to do well in school when it starts back up again in September.

i hope you will succeed. i don't think this form of motivation is right because i think you should have the same rights as your sister, but i think any motivation to do better at school is good for now

Kate2

Angelina I think so too, but AJ reminds me of how my sister went orgasm free for like a year and a half when she first started wearing. And she had a BF too and they used to try all sorts of stuff but nothing worked. I am going to study hard, that is all I can say.

Angelina

Kate2

well, i felt it was just as unfair for Susan to have to wear a belt when you didn't, i thought that was wrong too. i think you should both always have the same rights and responsibilities, it prevents internal tension between you and you can support and help each other better

Sin

This place is weird

Tjc

Renita Men in chastity will be obsessed with relief rather than academic success.

I think that this is true fro some men and maybe for most. But with a secure device and and firm help from the keyholder so it is clear that relief will be allowed only under the terms of whatever the agreement was, the obsession goes away fairly quickly and the focus can be on the success.

Kaja

Tjc I dont think so. We hve the same function of brain with my bf. With longer and longer time we think more and more about sex. It ends in situation tht we can not even read a book or watch a movie. Sex completly fills our brains. There is no concentration, no anything other.

Renita

Tjc and firm help from the keyholder so it is clear that relief will be allowed only under the terms of whatever the agreement was

While it's not required for a girl, e.g. she can remain chaste for a long time.

Tjc

Kaja This is interesting to hear. Often I have heard the belief that when women are belted, their desire and arousal drops off. Thank you for the information. I think there is probably a lot of individual variation and every situation is different. If the relationship has a focus on the control and the denial as some have described, that increases the arousal. This would be different from a relationship where the belt is just a clinical tool to prevent intercourse and masturbation.

Kate2

Angelina There were times when my sister was jealous that I was not wearing a belt. I knew my time would come, AJ was clear on that. It has made us closer for sure. She deals with it better than i do, but it is nice to have someone to support me.

Angelina

Tjc Often I have heard the belief that when women are belted, their desire and arousal drops off.

yes and no, i would describe it like a wave movement. there are periods when the arousal is stronger and periods when it is weaker. for women who wear the belt 24/7 it can sometimes be helpful to try to suppress it somehow, to get it out of your head, then you are less aroused and wearing the belt is easier

youdontknowme

I think it is important to keep in mind that while there may be trends for various sexes, there is also a lot of individual variation in those things - which depends not just on a person's nature, but also on what their lifestyle is like.

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