Introductions-2

Anne

milkymilo yes, FS is from your region... Australia correct?

milkymilo

Anne yes they are based in Australia, and I am in New Zealand. Although totally separate countries as we are geographically close....well in our terms lol so the post service and customs is a lot cheaper and easier between the two countries in most cases. Plus we looked at option and all like the look of the FS P1 belt so made it an easy decision

milkymilo

Renita As for my mother no she has not raised the question yet as its only been 6 months and everytime I have gone back it has been with my aunty. Its about a 4hour drive back to where my mum is so we have always gone together or a 40min flight but I am not a fan of the little plane flying up and over the southern alps

If I start making the journey myself that is a good point and something to discuss moving forward and see if my mum is keen. Its not that my aunt accompanies me as in a chaperone sense its just hand to travel together or my mum comes here. Plus when I do go back it is only normally for a few nights at max so can forgo a unlock and just have a few soaks in the bath

Renita

milkymilo and see if my mum is keen

And if she is strict enough to keep you belted.

milkymilo Plus when I do go back it is only normally for a few nights at max so can forgo a unlock and just have a few soaks in the bath

You need to have the key available shortly in case of emergency, etc.

Anne

milkymilo And what is your agreement about wearing belt or how do you expect , that you will wear belt? How long, what are rules and conditions...?

Laura

milkymilo but they explained their reasoning and that my aunty wears and cousin wore

They had the good reason, but they had to tell it in advance rather than after you have arrived to the farm. If I got such surprise I would probably refuse or at least take some time to think.

milkymilo

Laura well I did get time to think, it wasn't as if I was locked in a belt straight away, that would have been crazy and yeah I would have certainly panicked there. They talked about it and I agreed and we got the belt measured and ordered. It was not a busy time of year so got the belt in about 6 weeks so was fortunate there

milkymilo

Renita yes I agree with the emergency key and I have one. It is in a plastic tube with a security seal on it so I cannot use the keu without ripping that off. They I would have some explaining to do. Are there bettter options for an emergency key ? I am hear to learn as much as I can from other

pestulens

milkymilo It Seems like the same basic setup many people use for emergency keys. If you are interested there is an entire thread on the subject here: https://unwedchastity.org/d/717-emergency-key/176

Renita

milkymilo yes I agree with the emergency key and I have one. It is in a plastic tube with a security seal on it so I cannot use the keu without ripping that off.

I would have opened it right away 😃

milkymilo Are there bettter options for an emergency key ? I am hear to learn as much as I can from other

Mine is in mom's safe. I always have to ask her to unlock the belt.

milkymilo I was not alone in this as my cousin was also belted for 10 years until she recently got married.

Did she live on the farm all the time?

milkymilo

pestulens thank you for that I will have a read through thread

milkymilo

Anne My aunt and uncle are a big believer in no sexual intercourse before marriage. It is something that enforced for my cousin and is something that they would like to ensure for me whilst under their roof and their care. I was happy to honour that wish of theirs and they suggested in the chastity belt to help ensure that and have that extra piece of mind. My aunty told me about her wearing it and I also spoke to my cousin in depth about it and agreed to wear one myself.

I think they are a bit worried with nature of the countryside as there are quite a few farm workers and especially around shearing time alot of people on the farm so I will be out and about helping and cooking for the shearing gangs so adds that piece of mind for them and indeed me tbh

How long for? at this stage the duration I am here or until/if I decide to get married.

The rules are pretty simple. I wear it, keep it discrete. It can only be removed with my aunties permission and under supervision and that is for cleaning or medical visits

Anne

milkymilo And do you want to stay locked after marriage like your aunt? Is she lockem by your uncle or how it is?

Laura

milkymilo My aunt and uncle are a big believer in no sexual intercourse before marriage. It is something that enforced for my cousin and is something that they would like to ensure for me whilst under their roof and their care. I was happy to honour that wish of theirs and they suggested in the chastity belt to help ensure that and have that extra piece of mind.

How about your mom? Does she share these values? If so, why did she let your aunt belt you, rather than did it herself?

Joh

milkymilo I'm guessing you've had your own sexual experience and know what it feels like. How do you cope with the desire when you can no longer satisfy yourself?

milkymilo

Anne yes she is locked by my uncle alot of the time. I have not pried too much into their personal life. I guess whether I stay locked would be up to my future husband

Damien

milkymilo whether I stay locked would be up to my future husband

Sometimes, country girls your age flock to the cities, offices, unis, with a wider choice of both friends and potential partners as a side benefit. You went the opposite way, and while you already told us you love the country life and your new role in it - is there any social waterhole near your home/workplace to mix and mingle?

Anne

milkymilo Yes understand, I think that if you already once start to wear belt then is good to continue.

milkymilo

Damien yes there is a local pub and there is often events on in and around the local community. The local memorial halls here used to be a big meeting point years agi with dances but that is an era long gone now. I think people are alot more mobile these day with everyone having cars and internet and cell phones. Well that is what my aunty and uncle have told me. They are in their 50s

As for the local watering holes they are fine for a quite drink or family meal but my aunt and uncle always make it a thing to leave before 7 as things get a bit rowdy most nights. As my uncle puts it these boys work hard and party hard. But then I am not a drinker. Not every really been drunk. Had a few glasses of wine at certain occasions and been a bit tipsy maybe but never been a drinker so not a culture I am wanting to be involved in

milkymilo

Laura yes she does share these values but never felt the belt was in order. Funny enough I am around more boys here in the country than I was in the city as I was at Christchurch Girls High School so was avoiding boys day to day and after school activities social event often evolved around our church group where many on the boys were well behaved and thankfully had the same values

Mithras

milkymilo I really like the relaxed attitude with which you accept the chastity belt as part of your life!

Anne

Mithras yes it was nice
Is around you or do you know some others which wore or wear belts?

milkymilo

Joh no not really, guess you do not know what you are missing if you have not had it before

Laura

milkymilo yes she does share these values but never felt the belt was in order.

Because she never wore one?

milkymilo I was in the city as I was at Christchurch Girls High School so was avoiding boys day to day and after school activities social event

Were you allowed to go outside alone tonight?

milkymilo guess you do not know what you are missing if you have not had it before

Welcome to the club 😂

Damien Edit: Do you want to open a "Aunty's Farm" (or whatever) thread so we don't fill up introductions?

Or I can split out later

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