My daughters potential chastity

toad

I appreciate your concern for your daughter. Poor impulse control and not caring about consequences spells addict to me. I've had my bout with alcohol and drugs, i used to feel the same way. New love and sex are pretty powerful things and very hard to overcome rationally. Seems to me there is a big difference between a young belted virgin, and a young woman in love who enjoys sex. At her age she will most likely follow her boyfriend rather than you. Perhaps talk with him and explain your views for her future. He should be concerned about her overall welfare and perhaps can help her do better in school. There are millions of sexual active young women who finish college. So i don't see sex as the problem. Implants for pregancy work well with no care. Belt or not, i doubt she'll give up her boyfriend and bad habits Love and pleasure are powerful forces. However after all of that; as an old man locked in chastity, i can truthfully say i wish i had be locked in my teens with the key given to longterm girlfriend or wife. It would have been a positive motivational force in many worthwhile areas. Sex is fun, but it creates many problems for both men and women. Try to remember the love you have for her just as the love you have for your husband will enable you to transend all problems. She will grow up whether she wants to or not.....life is like that.

Kaja

PigtailSam There is one solition. The word is contraception. We are saying it all the time but your ears are stuffy and your mind is clouded.

James

Kaja

I really don't understand why you insist on name calling as if you are in elementary school.

Kaja

I am going to assume you know this isn't a casual subject at the best of times.

PigtailSam

Kaja that doesn’t prevent stds. A doctor won’t force it on her if she I unwilling. No need to be rude . I heard the suggestion.

Kaja

PigtailSam Abortion.

PigtailSam

Kaja that isn’t birth control and would be a last resort. I’m not religious, but I’d much rather a chastity belt be used then abort a baby.

James

PigtailSam

I understand quite well the dynamics at play here. I expect she's quite academically gifted in select areas despite the social issues?

PigtailSam

James I understand quite well the dynamics at play here. I expect she's quite academically gifted in select areas despite the social issues?

Not gifted academically because she doesn’t try. But she is smart. She is fine socially. Just doesn’t care much about anything but her boyfriend and me.

Kaja

PigtailSam This post say one thing for us. The problem is in you. You want to be her messiah, new Jesus. It is not what she needs. She needs love ans profesional help and not medieval torture from medieval mind.

James

PigtailSam

As someone who has a dead cousin whose baby had to be raised by her brother and mother....I do get it.

James

PigtailSam

I see. What involvement does Dad have here?

MissBlossom

PigtailSam Not gifted academically because she doesn’t try. But she is smart. She is fine socially. Just doesn’t care much about anything but her boyfriend and me.

Is it possible that college just isn't for her? Is her boyfriend willing to marry her and support her as a stay at home mom?

PigtailSam

James I see. What involvement does Dad have here?

Very involved, but since we’re trying to talk her into it, and she is closer with me I am the one mainly talking to her about it. He more just wants to lock a belt on her and be done with it.

MissBlossom

PigtailSam Typo, wire up but crack, Not “bird”

From what I read, that's the option that allows for the most activity while wearing the belt, but also the one that's the messiest to clean up after going number 2.