How much time do you wear your chastity belt?

From my dad’s voice, I’m probably will have to wear it until marriage... However, if I can support myself and move out, I guess I can ask them to take it off? Or even break it off but this would for sure ruin the relationship with my family.

Dee

I'm sorry for you.

You can easily be in the same situation than several of us:having to chose between wearing it until marriage,even if you live on your own and not need any financial help anymore,or stop wearing it,but breaking the relationship with your parents.

It seems your father has decided you should wear it until married,so I doubt he'll say "ok,you live on your own,now,so let's take it off.",even if you ask...Even more as it seems they want you to wear one because you dated several men and was caught masturbating.

Dee However, if I can support myself and move out, I guess I can ask them to take it off?

Not necessary. For example I can support myself and move out anytime, but can't ask to take the belt off

Dee

i am very sorry for you, we have another victim

unfortunately i think like @Vanessa that you won't take off the belt anymore until you are married, even if you should move out the only possibility i see is to break the relationship with your parents, but i don't think you want that or?

otherwise I can only advise you to use the free time you have left to masturbate and I pray for you that the belt will be delivered late

Dee However, if I can support myself and move out, I guess I can ask them to take it off?

Why don't you ask them explicitly?

Renita

because she probably knows subconsciously that she won't get the answer she hopes for

Angelina Then it's called denial.
For me it's better to know truth even if it's unpleasant.
However I agree, the intents of her parents are obvious.

Renita For me it's better to know truth even if it's unpleasant.

it's the same with me

but many can't handle it

Laura

Would it mean breaking the relationship with your family if you take it off?

Angelina otherwise I can only advise you to use the free time you have left to masturbate and I pray for you that the belt will be delivered late

I agree,she should use this free time for getting some more orgasms.

Renita For me it's better to know truth even if it's unpleasant.

Yes,it would be better for her to know what to expect,I think too.

Renita However I agree, the intents of her parents are obvious.

I think you're right about it,too...But there is a small chance they only want her to not "misbehave"(in their opinion)during what could be the most sexually active years of her life,if not wearing a chastity belt.And be sure she would concentrate only on her studies during it,too.

Vanessa Would it mean breaking the relationship with your family if you take it off?

You know the answer. That's the reason I'm still in

Vanessa I think you're right about it,too...But there is a small chance they only want her to not "misbehave"(in their opinion)during what could be the most sexually active years of her life,if not wearing a chastity belt.And be sure she would concentrate only on her studies during it,too.

So you think there is a chance for @Dee if she shows her parents that she is well-behaved and focused on her studies (gets good grades) ?

Angelina I think she can negotiate to have the secondary shield off for good marks. But not main one.

Renita

that would be a great success

I have tried to get this deal myself, unfortunately without success

Angelina If I had a daughter I would motivate her to study this way

@Angelina @Renita

I think that is not good give the girl any power about the belt.
I think it can provocate confusion and arise some thoughts.
And I believe it is valid for voluntary wearers and reluctant ones.
Fair and generous key holders must be attentive with us, but they do not have nothing to negotiate with us.
It is my opinion, in other way it can become harder for us too.

Renita If I had a daughter I would motivate her to study this way

I think I can manage without cb

Ines but they do not have nothing to negotiate with us.

I have to disagree absolutely, this applies to both voluntary and involuntary wearing

Angelina I have to disagree absolutely, this applies to both voluntary and involuntary wearing

I disagree. I think, and this is my opinion, that most of keyholders here should be more generous, and some times, more than strict, they are harsh sometimes.
But, however, I believe that it does not mean that we have any power about our chastity. They must attend our needs, but they do not have anything to negotiate, this would be accepted that we have some power about our belts.

Ines

i think if there is the possibility to make deals with the keyholder by writing good notes for example, this possibility should be used. besides, a good motivation system like @Renita already said

Ines Fair and generous key holders must be attentive with us, but they do not have nothing to negotiate with us.
It is my opinion, in other way it can become harder for us too.

I think the same. Once she agreed to wear the belt, she should not be able to influence when, why or how long she wears the belt. Any direct influence would only lead to stress between her and the key holder.

The only exception I see is something like beeing allowed to ask for stopping the wearing in 3 month.