How much time do you wear your chastity belt?
Would it mean breaking the relationship with your family if you take it off?
Angelina otherwise I can only advise you to use the free time you have left to masturbate and I pray for you that the belt will be delivered late
I agree,she should use this free time for getting some more orgasms.
Renita For me it's better to know truth even if it's unpleasant.
Yes,it would be better for her to know what to expect,I think too.
Renita However I agree, the intents of her parents are obvious.
I think you're right about it,too...But there is a small chance they only want her to not "misbehave"(in their opinion)during what could be the most sexually active years of her life,if not wearing a chastity belt.And be sure she would concentrate only on her studies during it,too.
Vanessa I think you're right about it,too...But there is a small chance they only want her to not "misbehave"(in their opinion)during what could be the most sexually active years of her life,if not wearing a chastity belt.And be sure she would concentrate only on her studies during it,too.
So you think there is a chance for @Dee if she shows her parents that she is well-behaved and focused on her studies (gets good grades) ?
I think that is not good give the girl any power about the belt.
I think it can provocate confusion and arise some thoughts.
And I believe it is valid for voluntary wearers and reluctant ones.
Fair and generous key holders must be attentive with us, but they do not have nothing to negotiate with us.
It is my opinion, in other way it can become harder for us too.
Angelina I have to disagree absolutely, this applies to both voluntary and involuntary wearing
I disagree. I think, and this is my opinion, that most of keyholders here should be more generous, and some times, more than strict, they are harsh sometimes.
But, however, I believe that it does not mean that we have any power about our chastity. They must attend our needs, but they do not have anything to negotiate, this would be accepted that we have some power about our belts.
Ines Fair and generous key holders must be attentive with us, but they do not have nothing to negotiate with us.
It is my opinion, in other way it can become harder for us too.
I think the same. Once she agreed to wear the belt, she should not be able to influence when, why or how long she wears the belt. Any direct influence would only lead to stress between her and the key holder.
The only exception I see is something like beeing allowed to ask for stopping the wearing in 3 month.
Maybe,but not until she get her diploma,I think.
It would be a good reward,yes.
A good motivation!
It would be a reward,and related to the reasons,if "help us to study well" is the main one.
Angelina I think I can manage without cb
Sure,but I think having such reward would motivate us even more!
I agree.I don't think it would be a problem if we get a few rewards like this one.Especially as the main shield would stay in place,and the secondary one put back soon.
I think it could be done well if decided at the start.For example,before she accept,it can be decided,that,during her studies,if she get enough good grades,she would have the belt off during one Sunday/month(or every other Sunday,like for @catherine98,even if it is not related to her grades).
Good idea the possibility to stop wearing it if asked during 3 months after it was accepted,but it would only work for voluntary wearers.
It could be discussed again,and adapted if needed,after major changes(like getting a diploma,being in a serious relationship since more than a decided period of time(like 6 months or a year),etc...).
Laura Regardless your age and changes in your life?
Yes, if you agreed once, it's no longer your business, except for the 3 month rule. As a wearer of a chastity belt you should have no direct influence, it will only lead to stress in the relationship.
Angelina even if it is a little difficult, I am of the opinion that something like this should be discussed beforehand
I fully agree.
Vanessa I think it could be done well if decided at the start.For example,before she accept,it can be decided,that,during her studies,if she get enough good grades,she would have the belt off during one Sunday/month(or every other Sunday,like for @catherine98,even if it is not related to her grades).
Yes, something like this can be part of the agreement. But only the key holder should decide if the grades are good enough or whatever criteria has to be reached.
Vanessa Good idea the possibility to stop wearing it if asked during 3 months after it was accepted,but it would only work for voluntary wearers.
Of course. I think no girl or woman should be forced, especially after marriage.
Vanessa It would be a reward,and related to the reasons,if "help us to study well" is the main one.
Reward can be a trip, or a concert ticket! I do not doubt that a girl can study perfectly without a chastity belt, (in fact I do not see anything that makes me say that a girl with belt studies better), but a girl can study perfectly with a belt too!
As wearer, and I hope as keyholder in the future, I do not consider it good excuse, Vanessa
Laura Regardless your age and changes in your life?
Laura, I think a girl must have just a decision about wear a chastity belt, "I want" or "I do not want".
If a girl wish finish the wearing, I think that should have a long and serious talk with keyholder, clearing all points, and if after it she still wish stop wear it, we are in our right.
But with very few and serious exceptions, it is a not back step.