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  • How much time do you wear your chastity belt?

Ines If you can, try to avoid padlock in the connection chain, it is noisy and if you wear one safe enough

my chain is welded like @catherine98, if i only wear the padlock (in public), my dad sticks a piece of cloth around it, so it is not so loud

  • Ines replied to this.

    Dee I can ask mom to take the thigh bands off at home so there’s that.

    That was the deal anyway. I thought you only had to wear the tighbands when you go out

      Angelina I thought you only had to wear the tighbands when you go out

      I had the same impression. And not just out, but with friends tonight

        Angelina
        Same. Welded chain is much better. But you started with padlocked chain if I do not remember badly, right?
        I think that you had to feel more comfortable with the change to welded one, no?

          Ines

          For clarification

          my father ordered 3 different chains. in the beginning the first chain was welded, then i only got a padlock (the chain was broken), now i have a permanently welded chain again, but at night and when punished (like in the next 2 months) i get an additional padlock

          • Ines replied to this.

            Angelina
            Buffff...
            Patience, Angelina, as Laura said, 17 days pass soon. We will be here awaiting!

              Ines

              I'll manage it πŸ˜‰

              but the padlock between the tighbands will unfortunately stay for 2 months πŸ™

              I'm going to bed now, see you in 17 days πŸ˜‰

                Angelina I'm going to bed now, see you in 17 days πŸ˜‰

                We will be waiting for your. πŸ™

                Dee It still hurt if I try to walk fast or take large steps though, will definitely have to concentrate on taking smaller steps.

                You have to get used to not being able to run, but you can get used to it. As long as you have a chain between the tightbands it is a lot easier then with just the padlock.

                • Ines replied to this.

                  Sara2001 You have to get used to not being able to run, but you can get used to it. As long as you have a chain between the tightbands it is a lot easier then with just the padlock.

                  Agree. Once you get used to the correct length of step, you would aware that you will can not hurry walking for some years, and some particularities in the toilet you will not have any problem. With a long chain as we have, it is relatively easy.
                  Anyway your parents should give you some training time, for belt, and for bands too.

                    Dee With the belt, it is very secure, I can’t get to the sensitve area at all πŸ™, I can see it but cannot touch it at all. I woke up this morning and reached down and everything is just steel. Tried to tug on it but that didn’t do anything. I feel desperate

                    I felt the same. My-steel's shield fits too good.

                      Sara2001 These regularly talks are mandatory for me. But if the result of the talk is that the wearer wants out of the belt, she should wait another 3 month and decide again afterwards.

                      Not too bad.

                      Sara2001 Exactly, it is not fair to change the rules after the agreement. This would be a misuse of the key holders power.

                      I agree.If it seems necessary,another talk may be done,but only change it if both agree;otherwise,the first agreement should still be used.

                      Ines

                      I agree.But I think,in some cases,it could be adapted.Let's say,someone wear a belt(willingly),then decide,after she finished studying,to coach people to do sports,with leggings and such,it should be adapted,and let her not wear a chastity belt during her coaching(as example).A talk can help to decide if there is enough reasons to adapt it,or not.

                      Angelina i think the reward system is a very good idea

                      I think too.

                      Angelina but at the latest then she should be unlocked

                      Which is good,if she can't accept it anymore.

                      Dee

                      I'm sorry it was delivered sooner than expected...

                      No training before being locked in permanently?

                      Thigh bands are hard to be used to(and,in my opinion,it is the case for the chastity belt too,but different),even with a chain.But good the belt is comfortable.

                      Chastity belts are always very secure(if from main brands),and very hard(often impossible)to cheat on these.I know well your feelings,I think we all felt the same when we've to start wearing it.I still fight it a lot(and tugging on it is generally a part of my fights),and still feel desperate about it sometimes(and very frustrated).I don't think we can get used to it,but I hope you can manage it better soon.

                      Ines Take it easy. It is normal at very start.

                      Easy to say,but harder to apply!

                      Dee

                      Good you can avoid these often,it is very hard to wear these permanently.In my case,wearing these permanently only happens as a punishment

                      Laura

                      It is what I think,too.

                      Angelina but the padlock between the tighbands will unfortunately stay for 2 months πŸ™

                      Why is it longer than the other parts of the punishment?

                      Ines

                      But still not very natural to be restrained...

                      I agree for the training.

                      Christine

                      I agree.They are way too secure....πŸ™

                        Vanessa ,I think we all felt the same when we've to start wearing it

                        Were you also able to get used to it almost immediately since yours is also mysteel? I can't say so about myself, It took some time for me

                          Laura

                          I'm still not used to it! πŸ˜‰

                          And no,it was very hard for me to manage it.But,even if used only as a punishment at first,I had a training.

                          I think it depends more of the wearer than of the brand of the chastity belt.

                          15 days later

                          Belted full-time for a little over two years now, after a training period of about 6 months that started at a few hours and worked up to all day. I'm not locked 24/7, but for all intents and purposes I'm permanently chaste. Sometimes my wife will have a little mercy on me and let me out of the belt for the course of a day, but only when we're on outings or in circumstances where she can keep me chaperoned without leaving her sight. I'm allowed to be unbelted for the gym and other workout classes, but she correctly believes I'm such a prude that even with the level of denial I'm under, I would never be tempted to self-pleasure outside of our house πŸ˜‰.

                            Vanessa Why is it longer than the other parts of the punishment?

                            first, it is contractually agreed that

                            on the other hand, it's the only part of the sentence I'm not under house arrest for.

                              Saintprudence Belted full-time for a little over two years now, after a training period of about 6 months that started at a few hours and worked up to all day.

                              6 months of training,it was a very long one!

                              Angelina first, it is contractually agreed that

                              It was decided when you get the right to get a chain?

                              Angelina on the other hand, it's the only part of the sentence I'm not under house arrest for.

                              Yes,but I think it would have been more logical if all parts of the punishment had the same duration.

                                Vanessa It was decided when you get the right to get a chain?

                                it was agreed how long the padlock should be worn as a punishment

                                Vanessa Yes,but I think it would have been more logical if all parts of the punishment had the same duration.

                                then probably all parts will last for 2 months πŸ™

                                  Angelina it was agreed how long the padlock should be worn as a punishment

                                  Not possible to make him change his mind,I guess.Any reason for doing it for 2 months,not more nor less?

                                  Angelina then probably all parts will last for 2 months πŸ™

                                  Hum,yes,I haven't thought about it this way.It could have been worse,sure!

                                    Vanessa Not possible to make him change his mind,I guess.Any reason for doing it for 2 months,not more nor less?

                                    at least currently i have to live with the padlock πŸ™ i hope that i get a chain again when the punishment is over

                                    Vanessa Hum,yes,I haven't thought about it this way.It could have been worse,sure!

                                    that's true, after all most of the punishment is over πŸ™‚

                                      Angelina at least currently i have to live with the padlock πŸ™ i hope that i get a chain again when the punishment is over

                                      I hope too for you!