How much time do you wear your chastity belt?

Dee With the belt, it is very secure, I can’t get to the sensitve area at all , I can see it but cannot touch it at all. I woke up this morning and reached down and everything is just steel. Tried to tug on it but that didn’t do anything. I feel desperate

I felt the same. My-steel's shield fits too good.

Sara2001 These regularly talks are mandatory for me. But if the result of the talk is that the wearer wants out of the belt, she should wait another 3 month and decide again afterwards.

Not too bad.

Sara2001 Exactly, it is not fair to change the rules after the agreement. This would be a misuse of the key holders power.

I agree.If it seems necessary,another talk may be done,but only change it if both agree;otherwise,the first agreement should still be used.

Ines

I agree.But I think,in some cases,it could be adapted.Let's say,someone wear a belt(willingly),then decide,after she finished studying,to coach people to do sports,with leggings and such,it should be adapted,and let her not wear a chastity belt during her coaching(as example).A talk can help to decide if there is enough reasons to adapt it,or not.

Angelina i think the reward system is a very good idea

I think too.

Angelina but at the latest then she should be unlocked

Which is good,if she can't accept it anymore.

Dee

I'm sorry it was delivered sooner than expected...

No training before being locked in permanently?

Thigh bands are hard to be used to(and,in my opinion,it is the case for the chastity belt too,but different),even with a chain.But good the belt is comfortable.

Chastity belts are always very secure(if from main brands),and very hard(often impossible)to cheat on these.I know well your feelings,I think we all felt the same when we've to start wearing it.I still fight it a lot(and tugging on it is generally a part of my fights),and still feel desperate about it sometimes(and very frustrated).I don't think we can get used to it,but I hope you can manage it better soon.

Ines Take it easy. It is normal at very start.

Easy to say,but harder to apply!

Dee

Good you can avoid these often,it is very hard to wear these permanently.In my case,wearing these permanently only happens as a punishment

Laura

It is what I think,too.

Angelina but the padlock between the tighbands will unfortunately stay for 2 months

Why is it longer than the other parts of the punishment?

Ines

But still not very natural to be restrained...

I agree for the training.

Christine

I agree.They are way too secure....

Vanessa ,I think we all felt the same when we've to start wearing it

Were you also able to get used to it almost immediately since yours is also mysteel? I can't say so about myself, It took some time for me

Laura

I'm still not used to it!

And no,it was very hard for me to manage it.But,even if used only as a punishment at first,I had a training.

I think it depends more of the wearer than of the brand of the chastity belt.

Belted full-time for a little over two years now, after a training period of about 6 months that started at a few hours and worked up to all day. I'm not locked 24/7, but for all intents and purposes I'm permanently chaste. Sometimes my wife will have a little mercy on me and let me out of the belt for the course of a day, but only when we're on outings or in circumstances where she can keep me chaperoned without leaving her sight. I'm allowed to be unbelted for the gym and other workout classes, but she correctly believes I'm such a prude that even with the level of denial I'm under, I would never be tempted to self-pleasure outside of our house .

Vanessa Why is it longer than the other parts of the punishment?

first, it is contractually agreed that

on the other hand, it's the only part of the sentence I'm not under house arrest for.

Saintprudence Belted full-time for a little over two years now, after a training period of about 6 months that started at a few hours and worked up to all day.

6 months of training,it was a very long one!

Angelina first, it is contractually agreed that

It was decided when you get the right to get a chain?

Angelina on the other hand, it's the only part of the sentence I'm not under house arrest for.

Yes,but I think it would have been more logical if all parts of the punishment had the same duration.

Vanessa It was decided when you get the right to get a chain?

it was agreed how long the padlock should be worn as a punishment

Vanessa Yes,but I think it would have been more logical if all parts of the punishment had the same duration.

then probably all parts will last for 2 months

Angelina it was agreed how long the padlock should be worn as a punishment

Not possible to make him change his mind,I guess.Any reason for doing it for 2 months,not more nor less?

Angelina then probably all parts will last for 2 months

Hum,yes,I haven't thought about it this way.It could have been worse,sure!

Angelina at least currently i have to live with the padlock i hope that i get a chain again when the punishment is over

I hope too for you!

Vanessa

I hope so too, it's very uncomfortable

From time to time 24/4 fora few weeks up to a month

Verrouille it may soon be time for the handover. You’re not truly chaste until control of the key is entirely out of your hands.

You're right. I'm getting used to the belt currently. My belt is really tight, it is a hard device you understand, and I need still to unlock frequently to check and rest.

Verrouille

Good you take time to train.

Does she knows it?And when do you think you would give her the keys?

I need a few weeks more I think. This belt is really hard. I cant stand for even a few days currently.
Also I fear that moment, as I know I will have to stay locked without complaining.

Verrouille Fear is good. Fear reminds you that this is not a fetish or a game, but a disciplinary tool to control your urges and remain virtuous. It is my hope your girlfriend takes the initiative to claim the keys, because an enthusiastic keyholder is most effective.